why do they try to chat you up, do they really think they are going to get somewhere??
I have expereinced this quite a bit here in italy! its weird!!
2006-09-05 12:09:22 · 31 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and trust me i can tell the difference between just wanting to be friendly and more...
usually it start off with a normal chat, then next thing u know they want to see u again, want ur email address, want ur number and are trying to pressure u into it..!
2006-09-05 12:15:30 · update #1
im 22 and they are around 45-70!!
2006-09-05 12:21:29 · update #2
at 42 i feel qualafied to answer this. its simple, thier pathetic. they know what thier doing and will answer for it oneday, for me a little flirtation from a young girl may pad my vanity but i never forget where the line is drawn. you should report any preverts! i want to talk to anyone, but as a relationship?32 and up only need apply. some of us older men arnt preverts, old or young dont give anyone the right to disrespect you, on line or off. luck!
2006-09-05 12:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by cycodad69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some are trying to be players and honestly think that these young females might actually be interested in them. Others are just trying to be friendly. At times I'm sure that it must be difficult for some young girls to be able to tell the difference.
2006-09-05 19:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you think they're disgusting, but some women don't, and why shouldn't they get a beautiful young women? Why should anyone be unhappy? Let 'em try, they're not hurting you. And you're the one with the problem, not them. So tell me, what about mature, settled, wealthy older men reminds you of someone who's hurt you in the past?
2006-09-05 19:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are ruled by their sex drive. The better a woman looks the more they want to try to get them in bed. It is just the way they are. If you make it obvious that you are not interested many will get the hint and leave you alone.
2006-09-05 19:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by btij06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i think its because of the viagra... but you also mentioned italy, well there is actually a large percentage of younger women with older men than the same age relationships.
2006-09-05 19:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this...
a young punk kid has No job, no vehicle, no experience, no maturity, and is irresponsible (read: That ain't MY baby, be-ouch!)
an older man has Job (money), vehicle, experience, maturity, and responsibility (read: Make you legitimate as wife and a real home to put you in {not his mom's house})
Maybe we know how to treat a girl?!!! Maybe you should find out why men are better than little boys...
...or you can find you an italian boy that still lives with Mommy!
2006-09-05 19:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it makes them feel good so what i always did was talk to them just to get a kick out of it.it helps their egos thats why they do it.oh and let me tell you im italian but a female and my dad is 65 and he will talk to girls younger than me to get attention i think it is repulsive when he does it.i wouldnt say its just an italian thing though all older men are after what they can get and unfortunatly they go after the young ones.
2006-09-05 19:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by queen4clewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy i'm dating is 31 and i'm 18. he's not really old. i have a kid so i don't feel so young. we get along great. but yeah i work in a convenience store and all these old guys are trying to hit on me. ew.
2006-09-05 19:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They continue to hit on young girls because some do take them up on their offer.
2006-09-05 19:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by silver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your info, alot of young girls like older men, they're mature, financial set, and alot of them are fun to be with
2006-09-05 19:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋