a few months ago i told my dream guy that i had a crush on him, he turned me down saying there was some one else, im not in on the grapevine so i didnt know that he was in fact dating some one, that was awkward. He just broke up a couple weeks ago with that girl and now we hangout alot, we do some harmless flirting and try to keep things friendly. But yesterday somehow i ended up saying to him that id already put my heart out on the line and he had smashed it and so if he wanted anything more out of this relationship he has to make the next move. he then kinda laughed and sayed okay ummmm hmm pick up lines... and we went back to normal mode. was this him trying to make are relationship more or just him trying to gently tell me not to go there cause he isnt intreseted.
2006-09-05 11:57:33 · 33 answers · asked by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i just need to clarify we said alll this pretty lightheartedly it wasnt like i brought on thunder clouds and lightening. he hugs me tight sits real close is totally comfortable seeming around me, and makes nice comments regularly. hes always a gentleman.
2006-09-05 12:10:44 · update #1
That was his way of getting out of that aquard moment!! Don't push it just ride it out and see where it goes!!If something comes of this then great but if not then u have a great friend and sometimes friends are better than bf!!!
2006-09-05 12:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you should do is play a game with him... It's called hook,line and sinker...... get it. well anyway... do not say I have put my heart out on the line thing again,,, ok,, You need to play hard ball... when hanging out with him say " you know there is this other guy I think I might like and since I am not dating anyone I might ask him out.....and just take it from there,, if he asks who it is,, don't say,,, just say well I really don't want any rumors started so I think i will keep this quiet until I decide what I want to do...because I am not sure if i really like him or not... then say do you know what I mean?? and wait for a good answer..... And If you can say this at the end of the day when you are about to go home for dinner or for the night... this will keep him wondering all night long.... but do not give in..... never say who the guy might be... never.... or at least until you are really seeing someone.... then everyone will know....
2006-09-05 12:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by cosmoestyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry honey, but you should never never never put your heart out on the line first. You always get hurt. I have been in a similar situation. If it is the real thing, things will progress along slowly then boom it will hit both of you. Just relax and take one day at a time.
2006-09-05 12:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by chicken girl friday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to him about your feelings and see where things go.. see if he does share the same feelings and the only way to do that is with a honest conversation
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 12:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are making it too easy for him.....let him be the one take the next step and persue you. Most everyone likes a bit of a chase. Keep flirting and don't be so serious, 'cause sometimes that can scare people off.
2006-09-05 12:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't be hanging out with you if he wasn't interested in you for some reason.
Don't rush it....be a great friend and it'll develop where it needs to go. If he's your dream guy that shouldn't be too hard. Enjoy the time together, talking, laughing, playing, enjoying being together.
2006-09-05 12:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant think of of many,whilst me and my cousins wrestle on the trampoline we many times by no skill easily get harm.reason we arent lunatics.One time me and my chum have been wrestling on the trampoline and he went to punch me{he's a stressful hitter} and that i jumped and he nailed me in the balls,dont be attentive to if that counts.I went for a Sabu sort senton right into a leg drop,1st time I messed it up,I landed to extreme and tight and my neck became into tweaked,2cnd I did an identical undertaking,third and extremely final time I tousled the circulate,I didnt have emough momentum and that i landed on my head.yet all of my cousins are an identical length{different than a million who's extensive} yet none human beings can raise one yet another so we actually cant harm one yet another.Me and my fav cousin are extreme fliers who're relaxing to observe as quickly as we wrestle,and we by no skill get harm.Oh confident I basically remembered,once I went for a taking pictures megastar press on no longer something yet trampoline{mistake},I had a lot of momentum and went flying up,yet I had lots momentum I lander on my head,god that harm.Didnt smash although.
2016-10-14 08:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by wishon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if he is trying to have his cake and eat it to. When you gave him an ultimatum, you turned what he previously thought as an uncomplicated situation more complicated than he expected. I think he is looking for someone that he can just mess around with from time to time without a commitment.
2006-09-05 12:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by erotic_songbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its him saying that your deep emotions are creeping him out. Its alright to go after him but keep your options open ( something nice to look at on the side) and dont wear your heart on your sleeves. 1. because it scares guys 2. because it makes you vulnerable 3. it gives them too much confidence knowing "theyve got you" good luck
2006-09-05 12:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it sounds like he is not interested in anything more than being just friends and flirting with you. Since he couldnt tell you in the first place he was unavailable, so do you think he can be trusted? move on girl.
2006-09-05 12:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋