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What should i do?
Could you please give me the best advice you have? I am just not ready to let her go yet??
this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, I know this is a no, she clearly said she wants to remain friends, and trust me, I am treating that with respect and honor. Now my question is, is she just scared like she said because we have been such good friends for a long time, or because she doesnt see me like that. If she doesnt now, will she

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1 hour ago
Now , what would she have said she doesnt want to ruin a frienship?? Without meaning it, I asked her straight up to be honest, and I know she isnt lying. What should I do? I mean I know nothing is gonna happen in the near future, but maybe when she matures a little bit, or decides to take the risk to date me, I mean, I like her so much, and am just not ready to let her go. I know she is afraid of me breakin her heart, because she told one of her friends, that she doesnt like how many girlfriends I've had that Ive broken up with. And she really used to act like she liked me, I mean, we obviously had soemthing more than friends, but when I asked her she got scared and backed off. She also told her mom, who she is really closed to, that she is REAALY scared of ruining the frienship. What should I do?

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9 hours ago
But, her friend asked her a few minutes ago about it, and she got all mad and said who wants to know?..and her friend said me.. and she got all mad and signed off. what should i think/do??

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2 hours ago
And why would she get all mad at her friend, I mean the email I replied to her was nice , caring and understanding, so I dont know why she thinks I put her up to it? Why was she all mad if her friend asked her about it?

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1 hour ago
Now, I am not an idiot, and I emailed her back and told her i respect her decision, and totally understand her decision, and I am not smothering her, directly, but her friends mite be talking, what should I do

2006-09-05 12:14:22 · 11 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

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2006-09-05 12:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Amethyst 2 · 0 1

I think what she is saying is that she DOES NOT want a romantic relationship with you. I think she was trying in a nice way to tell you that she just wants to remain friends. As for whether or not she may change her mind, only she knows that. It is so hard when you really like someone and they don't feel the same, you look for any little clue to convince yourself that the person may change their mind. My advice to you is move on(yes it will be hard)but you will be so much happier. Whether or not you stay friends with her is up to you and how you will be able to handle seeing her and seeing her with another guy.

2006-09-05 12:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0 0

She's only 13 with her whole life ahead of her. Give her space. She sounds like she just wants to be your friend, be her friend. Be there for her. Just don't take it any further until she has grown up a little bit.

2006-09-05 12:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Move on dude, by now she thinks you're a punk. Stop with the email crap, if you want to get through to someone talk to them in person, be a man, maybe then she'll think different of you.

2006-09-05 12:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

she is only 13 years old.. Just leave her alone.. she isn't ready for any kind of a relationship past friend ship.. she has every right to be afraid after all you have had several girl friends and broke up with them for one reason or the other.. that is scary when you think it could be you getting broken up with next.. leave her alone.

2006-09-05 12:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1 0

I would just let it go!! Clearly she just wants your friendship and her being only 13 she's still a little girl let her enjoy herself just like you should in time when you grow up and mature and understand eachother a little better ask her again...Good luck..

2006-09-05 12:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You don't have to let her go, remain good friends and im sure you will grow on her. Just don't make any moves on her or she will get offended and not wanna hang around you any more.

Good luck, I hope everything works out ♥☻

2006-09-05 12:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by mary lynn 2 · 0 0

well for one your to old for her that is proally why she is turning you down!! but your a sweet boy i dont know why she should do that!..mabe it is just that you have to old of a personality for her..or she is jsut interested in someone else and wants to stay open for that guy so he knows she is single and can go for her..but your doing the right thing but leave her alone!!!!...lol..she doesnt want u stalking her and asking her questions..if you have ne more questions that need to be answered..here are some of mine!,..where are u from? and um...was that girls name amanda christensen...well..im out bye
if amanda christensen was right then email me on here..kk?

2006-09-05 12:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by I_?_EMO 2 · 0 0

1....You are to young 2. She is even younger......You both have the rest of your lifes to deal with 3. Are you both in school? And 4...What do you care what they say about you......Are they your friends also.......I don't think so.....................

2006-09-05 12:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dude if she dont want u leave her,cause she is so not worth it. u desevre much better. i know i would chase this guy and i dont even know why i like him. omg tell her to **** a wall, and move on.

2006-09-05 12:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by hockeygirl152001 1 · 0 0

Give her another chance she's probaly just under a lot of pressure.

2006-09-05 12:17:53 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. Sir 2 · 0 1

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