He says he likes diapers, and other baby like items. He is NOT a pedophile or anything just some weird fetishes i guess. Is this normal?
2006-09-05 12:05:33 · 28 answers · asked by hi:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normal? From the standpoint that it is a fetish and there are quite a lot of others out there that like the same thing, then yes, it's normal.
Is it accepted by most of society? No, but that's their problem not his or yours.
What matters is do you find it offensive? Does the idea intrigue you? Are you curious about it and how it would feel? If you can answer these questions honestly and you don't find it offensive and it intrigues you and you are curious then why not try it?
It isn't going to hurt you or him. It's just some paper and plastic underwear instead of nylon or cotton or bikinis or thongs. It's different, that's all.
I don't know whether you wear a pad or use tampons but if you use a pad, then you are half way there to wearing a diaper. There isn't much difference except for the way they are held on.
There are different types too, the typical kind with the tapes to hold them on and there are kinds that are just like panties that you slip on. The newer style of those made by poise are very form fitting and undetectable under clothing. You probably have seen the ads on TV and didn't pay any attention to them.
If you and he use them as role play during your sexual encounters then they can be very much a turn on. It all depends on your mental attitude towards them.
You sound like an open minded person or you wouldn't have taken the time to ask your question. Keep that open mind, talk with your boyfriend, find out how far he wants to carry this and go from there. Try it, you may like it, but make the rule that if you don't like it you aren't going to do it again. He should respect your wishes when it comes to that. If he doesn't then it's time to move on.
Can you accept him wearing them even if you don't wear them? That is the other side of the coin. If you don't mind him putting them on if you don't want to and it doesn't bother you and he doesn't push you to wear them then the relationship should continue with not problems. I'm sure there are things that you do that he may consider strange.
Good luck, and have some fun with it, at least once.
2006-09-05 12:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is NOT normal! My ex boyfriend was interested in this as well and I asked the same questions, wondering if it was normal. It is NOT normal! In fact, it's intertwined with a whole bunch of other psychological problems. I was so emotionally torn apart after my ex walked out of my life when I stood up for myself that I started seeing a counselor. The counselor told me that I should have run away as soon as I found out about this. It's a sick thing and you don't want to get involved in this. He has some childhood issues he's not willing to work through and you can find a man out there not into this. It's SICK. Also, don't believe in what others say when they claim it's normal (like that idiot wetsaway) because they always say it's normal. A qualified psychologist with years of experience told me this is a serious issue and one where I should have walked away a long time ago. You should definitely do the same! Also, many of these guys like to be babied and have the woman take care of them. You do not want to put yourself in a situation like that----it's very unhealthy. Run hard, run FAST! Get outta there!!! It's NOT normal!
2006-09-06 00:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Neophyte 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it normal, well define normal. Lets just say most people don't wear diapers. They may want to but wont admit it in public but i think there are alot of people out there that would love to try it atleast once. They make diapers for adults. For certain reasons tho (LOL), but if it doesn't bother you to see him diapered, oh well good for him. If you wanna try a diaper then go for it, its only a diaper. But if you dont want to, then DO NOT do anything against your will.
2006-09-05 19:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by xxxxxxxxxx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok if he is not a pedophile or some child molestor in the making then he needs help. I tell you what put on one a big huggy and mess in it real good give it to him and if he still wants to fetish around with them then run as fast as you can.
2006-09-05 19:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by MARY C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called an adult baby fetish and yes it's warped! You need to run for the hills.... next he'll be wanting you to use the diaper and when you can't, he offer to give you an enima.... so run baby run.
2006-09-05 21:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definently not, i have never heard of such a fetish and it is very strange. As long as he isnt a pedophile there is nothing wrong with it tho.
2006-09-05 19:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by timberly K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no fetishes are normal that is why they are called fetishes but this one is definately weird. in a way it's good that he felt comfortable telling you about it now all you need to do is work out if you are willing to fulfill his fantasy. be as honest with him as he was with you. good luck.
2006-09-05 19:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for a fetish its normal, but for the rest of us its a bit strange
2006-09-05 19:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound normal but that's why it's called a fetish. It doesn't have to make sense.
2006-09-05 19:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you realy like him. What the hell do you have to lose. Just one time won't hurt. What do you have to lose. No one has to know about it unless you tell them. If your not for that then you need to find a new boyfriend.
2006-09-07 09:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by ogpeanut6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋