i broke up with my old girlfriend of four months about a month ago, and now she wont stop calling me, she drives by my house randomly, and she comes to all the places i hang out at, she tells my friends that im worthless and im a liar, she tells my friends that im an awful person, but then leaves messages about how she can change, he has major problems, she cuts, she smokes pot, and im straight edge, she wont leave me alone, she almost killed herself when i broke up with her... she cheated on me... i don't know, what should i tell her?
2006-09-05 11:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a restraining order on her. She sounds crazy. You did the right thing by breaking up with her.
2006-09-05 12:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG You have a major problem, just with the fact that she smokes pot that just tells you she has less and less brain cells to think with.
Tell her that you are not interested in her anymore and you need her to leave you alone. If your friends are really you friends tell them to ignore her and she will feel stupid and have no one to hang out with when you are around to the places you are at. Change you r number, she will get tired of it if you don't go along with it, if you give her reasons to come around she will until you put a stop to it.
2006-09-05 19:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing.
That type of person will use any dialog to weasel her way back into a relationship with you. So do nothing, ignore her.
When your friends tell you of the things she says that are untrue, ask them if that is who they think you are?
If they believe her over you, you need better criteria when picking friends.
Stooping to her level will only exacerbate the problem.
2006-09-05 19:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is stalking you. Go get a restraining order or order of protection. Notify the police if you live in the city or the sheriff's office if you live in the country. Don't tell her anything, just get the order. I hope this helps.
2006-09-05 19:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go to therapy for her suicidal thoughts and then tell her to go to rehab for smoking. she seems to be in trouble. its her fault that u dumped her, you had every right to, she cheated on you for crying out loud! u should tell her to go run to the guy she cheated on you with..........get a restraining order though, she seems obsessive and scary! block her phone number preactically, sto talking to her. find otu a new hang out spot that she doesnt know about and such. tell her to get over it and it was her mistake that she made the decision that she did.
once a cheater always a cheater ... ....
2006-09-05 19:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends really know you . they wont believe her. and if they know her they can figure out that she is an out right liar and has revenge against you for breaking up. she does not take rejection at all. ignore her , turn away . turn your back ,,don't let her get to you in any way.
2006-09-05 19:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck!! but maybe she just need your attention and no matter what she said, she still feel something for you i can tell that, ask'r what she wants becuase you dont need no drama
2006-09-05 19:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by GZA aka. SU PADRE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first comment
2006-09-05 19:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know she is a two faced ***** and ignore her and get someone else
2006-09-05 19:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by Amethyst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a camcorder in the closet, invite her over one more time, bonk the heck out of her, then tell her to get her phycho butt out of your house, THEN get the restraining order!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 19:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋