Since the beginning of college i've been seeing this guy. He's not that bad or anything. It seems like he doesn't have many friends. Most of my friends say he's wierd or something. I don't know if I should continue hanging out with this person. We've only been together for about 3 weeks now. Today he wrote me a love note. I don't know if that's okay or just plain wierd. Are love notes normal? It just said things like he loves me but is there anyway that this could be an abnormal behavior? I was actually still thinking of breaking up with him also. But would it be better too stay with him just a bit longer and see what happens or go ahead and break up now? I don't know. Here are some of the strange things he has done. Some may not be that strange just things...
-Fetish with drool.
-Blows his nose on his shirt, I've told him to stop, i don't think he will do it anymore.
-He's an engineer (not weird just something i thought i'd throw out)
-is learning to speak russian
2006-09-05 11:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by hi:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a typical man to me, stick it out for a while longer then if nothing better comes of it move on to the next fool.
2006-09-05 12:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of the things you mentioned are weird. What's wrong with learning Russian? The part about blowing his nose on his shirt though, ok, well, anyone could have a momentary lapse and wipe their runny nose on their sleeve, not that it's really okay to do that. It sounds like you mean a deliberate big honking snort though. And he has a fetish with drool. That's nice. Well you can hang out with him if you want, if you can manage to keep the romance out of it. If it were me though I would be freaked out by the love note from such a socially challenged person. Would you really want to kiss someone with a drool fetish? Well just don't do anything you'd regret!
2006-09-05 12:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has potential to be a stalker. Three weeks is too soon for someone to start telling another person they love them. If you're not too atached, I'd say let him go. Don't worry so much about what others think, it's more important how YOU feel. But the fact that he's so attached in such a short time is not healthy in any relationship. Love notes are great - I still wish I got them from time to time but just not so intense so soon. Be careful.
2006-09-05 12:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Secret A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fetish with drool? He seems to have bad manners, with the blowing his nose on his shirt thing. Loners are not always psychos, they are people who have very few friends, but the few they have are real friends. The engineer, means his trying to make money and I too would like to learn other languages, I mean who wouldn't want to flirt in different tongues?
2006-09-05 12:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 05:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by barnhardt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to figure out what you want. Stop letting other people think for you.If you like him see how things will go . Writting you a love note telling you everything he loves about you is sweet. but if you are not truely into hi then let him go now before he really loves you and it hurts the both of you.
2006-09-05 12:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never going to find the absolute perfect guy. Everybody has some bad habit, some bad quality, some annoying character trait. Even you. But ask yourself, are his something you can overlook?
Who cares if your friends think he is wierd. Buy him a hankie and figure out if you like HIM.
2006-09-05 12:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me straight out tell you,if all these ????'s are normal for you and your picky bout your men,then its just you,but if all these ?????'s are coming up and your only into 3 weeks,imagine 3 years!!!,too many ????'s = problems...If he is straight up with you 'bout everything, and has no shady missing hours of the day, blah blah blah, BUT he is not exactly what you see in your "man" and your settling for whatever's around, then you need to check yourself cuz time ain't messing around, don't waste your time if he ain't worth it,you'll understand later in life that lost time on a fool = lost time within you... Love letters sounds pretty lame and psycho,come on get real, WAKE UP ,who falls in love like that to where they are public with it,nope I say makings of a stalker,look past the convenience of the relationship, and have higher set expectations for yourself,I personally wouldn't even associate myself with a man who claims to love me after 3 weeks , just keepin it real,Renee'
2006-09-05 12:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by neshlov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, if you want to have a nice relationship, deal on your terms and not that of your friends. They don't necessarily have to like all that you do. That is why you are you. Regarding your guy, relationship is suppose to be benefitiary to the parties involved. Cast your mind back to when you first met. Rekindle the passion and work towards fussing the relationship. Above all be happy for you and not for your friends.
Good luck.
2006-09-05 12:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by namski 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It should never be what your friends think, it should be what you think. Does he treat you well? The love letter was his way of expressing how he feels about you. But, if you have no desire to be with him don't make it harder by staying with him longer. It will be worse when you do end it, he will be that much more attched to you.
2006-09-05 12:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by btij06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋