Singles & Dating - 30 August 2006

I do not mean to offend - just want to guage whether its still seen as being a bit desperate. Isn't it better to meet people through going out/friends rather than having "computer matches"? Isn't that a bit unromantic?

2006-08-30 04:21:34 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah 4

my boyfriend doesnt open up that much when sober but when drunk he says things like "im so in love with you and ive never said that to ne1 and i love everything about you" he doesnt say that when he's sober-he's never said i love you. he says he is nervous when sober and when he's drunk he can tell me how he really feels. is he just being stupid drunk and rambling about things he doesnt mean??????

2006-08-30 04:20:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

But my boyfriend's friend and him did not become best friends until Aug. 8 when they had to leave together. And his mother did her thing in July, and me and the other guy wasn't talking until Aug. 12 my birthday. Yes we crossed paths because we were in the national guard together and he said he had a thing for me then but he was scared. But now it's a new day and he wants to have a connection. I know it's wrong to lead my boyfriend on but if you come to think about it I told my boyfriend that me and ol dude talks on the phone everyday and that we are feeling strongly about each other. So I am not leading him on. I have told him time after time how I felt about him and the other guy. I wanna go with my heart but I am nervous. But I have a really good feeling about this guy.

2006-08-30 04:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been kickin it with a friend of 1 1/2 years for about 6 mos. and he has not been able to make time for me in about 2+ mos. We live about an hour away from each other. He has his daughter 3 days out of the week and every other weekend. He just got a big promotion, but we both have cars and there are times when we are in the same city. We'll make plans and something always comes up. He always says things like 'we'll see what we can work out', then he just doesn't follow through. Can people really get that busy?

2006-08-30 04:18:47 · 21 answers · asked by drmack22 1

2006-08-30 04:16:46 · 13 answers · asked by tammy 2

Ok this girl i like sent me and email, replying to mine on asking her how she felt about me..heres what it said
hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now shes 13, and I'm 15. She used to be all over me, but then backed off. Her and her mom are really close, and her mom told me she want me to date her daughter, she said that she is just really scared of ruining the friendship. Now based on this email, do you think she is just scared, or do you think she is letting me down easy? What should i do,

2006-08-30 04:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it all looks???does it involve some personality or is it mostly personality?pleeeeeeeeeas answer!

2006-08-30 04:14:29 · 14 answers · asked by alexis t 1

BUT, you had to have sex with him...would you do it?

2006-08-30 04:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by City slicker 5

can friendship between a boy and a girl ends in love?
can they only be friends for ever?

2006-08-30 04:11:02 · 17 answers · asked by niveditha k 2

a gentleman, or a man who is very straight forward with you and looking to get laid?
Does it really just depend on "your" mood as well?

2006-08-30 04:07:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does NOT have to be sexual, just somethign that could start a conversation, but not seem stupid, creepy, or lame.

2006-08-30 04:06:54 · 14 answers · asked by Slippy S 1

I loved him, but he wanted me to be very calm and to control myself all the time no matter what he was doing. I couldn't stay calm when he was seeing other girls. He was trying to keep me away, even though it was a long relationship. He is 43 years old.
He blames me for everything and doesn't admit his faults. I am sometimes desperate even though we are apart for months now. We still see each other from time to time. He says he loves me and he will never forget me, but I am not calm enough for him. He did't have a girlfriend since we broke up.

2006-08-30 04:06:39 · 16 answers · asked by Milena A 1

if i guy prefers to make love, and make you the centre of everything and have sex when its quick and hot, do you prefer that?

2006-08-30 04:04:21 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2

You answer a question from some guy here on YA in which he's complaining about his girlfriend's behavior (or attitude). Your response is to tell him to talk to her about it.

But when you answer a question from a girl in which he's complaining about his girlfriend's behavior (or attitude). Your response is to tell him to DUMP THE JERK.

Why do you suppose our kneejerk reaction is to rationalize the girl's behavior as the product of some external force, but we automatically conclude that the guy is a jerk?

And no. girls, this is NOT another opportunity to tell us ALL about the "horrible" double standard about guys and girls who sleep with a lot of people. Save your keystrokes, please/

2006-08-30 04:03:40 · 18 answers · asked by *I CURED My Yellow Teeth* 3

I'd really like to know what makes a guy attracted to a girl.. what qualitys and what makes a guy stick with that girl?

2006-08-30 04:02:42 · 13 answers · asked by ll_freekshow_ll 2

2006-08-30 04:01:29 · 42 answers · asked by Shorty 1

I'm holidaying in London at the moment with a female friend of mine and she and i met this guy and his mate.
They are both wonderful guys...and my friend and i have been spending some time with them...and one of them just asked me to marry him. This came as a shock to me. I knew he liked me...and i might consider seeing where things are headed...but i cant help but feel he's only asking cos i'll be going back to the States in a few days. And i feel like he's giving me an ultimatum.

But guys...i havent even known this guy for up to a month. Please let me know ur opinions as to what to do and how best not to upset this guy. He really is wonderful.
Thanx.

2006-08-30 03:59:29 · 35 answers · asked by cookie_recipe 4

2006-08-30 03:57:56 · 16 answers · asked by loma35 2

im running low on cash and would like to be a sperm donor,anyone know how much it pays, and are there any in illinois

2006-08-30 03:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2

2006-08-30 03:56:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 03:56:13 · 15 answers · asked by theone 2

I've been trying to get with this girl for the past two months while she had a boyfriend and now that she left him for me, I can't explain why I still want to be with her.I can't say I don't like her still because I do, I just can't say why anymore...almost as if I feel obligated to like her because she left her man for me.

2006-08-30 03:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by Jay The Great 1

What does one have to do to keep a long distance relationship alive for the coming 7-9yrs?

2006-08-30 03:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by kareen 4

A friend of mine is planning and looking forward to breaking up with her boyfriend over the weekend. I'm totally supportive of her and thinking of giving her a mixtape to help her through the break up.

It's the kind of break up that want to happen, not the one you regret happened.

Any suggestions for songs to put on the mixtape?

2006-08-30 03:53:38 · 7 answers · asked by b.affandi 1

I did a terrible mistake.
After 2 months of dating, we started a relationship last weekend. On the last day, I was too scared of having too much sex, that I pulled my self away from him. I gave him tons of space, and he thought...maybe, that I'm not interested in him any more.
We weren't talking at all, he gave me a peck on the cheek when we left. That made me so sad...
So I had a talk with him, he thought he enjoyed being with me, but I was pulling away.
Than for no reason, I said "I am actually falling in love with you" because I did care for him...but in my second thought, I actually don't have that storn feelings yet!
I just wanted to know that I liked him so much. He sounded surprised and said that was very sweet, but I was so embarrased what slipped out from my mouth, that I said "ok, well bye!" so fast.
I can't say that I want to take that back!
He said he's giving me a phone call today...but I don't know how to aproach! Can I say "I didn't mean that"? That would hurt?

2006-08-30 03:52:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am leagally separated. We have a long distant relationship as we live in different states. She assumed I was divorced and I did not tell her that my divorce was not final. I know that I devieved her and was not completly honest with her. She is my soulmate. We both love each other and made plans for our future. When the subject of my ex wife came up, I confessed that she is not my ex yet. I have made a terrible mistake. I was afraid she would not accept me if I told her I was still married. She does not answer phone calls, respond to emails/IM's. Is there anyway that I can make amends with her? I have appologized and gave an explanation. I am sick over what has happened. Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-08-30 03:51:16 · 13 answers · asked by Atlk9doc 2

I don't hav a lot of demands, not actually looking for someone who's vry attractive, hott like no one etc. Just need a good lookin, decent & matured (and not fat) gf in my life right now. But it is so hard to find someone! i've looked into many places I go, i get to like a lot of numbers. But all of them turn out to hav a bf. Is it with just melbourne girls or it's just me? As far as I knw, I may not be the best choice for a girl but I'm a good person & good, respectful with girls. so do I hav to wait for someone to come down frm the sky or what! I'm frustated! Do u hav a clue?

2006-08-30 03:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by profound_000 3

I have a friend (Male) who has been on two dating sites possibly three for the last 3 or 4 years and he does date but, really wants to find a companion for life. What is his problem? He is near retirement.

2006-08-30 03:50:18 · 1 answers · asked by bethtodate 1

2006-08-30 03:49:00 · 16 answers · asked by wwillscrisp 1

we've been going out for 2 years and were kind of seeing each other for 6 months previous. back at the start and the 6 months prev the sex was FANTASTIC, 3 times a night (the most was her cumming 10 times, me 7 in a marathon session), whenever we had a few drinks she'd be dying for us to do it. she'd try anything and was just the kinkiest woman i'd ever met. now i almost have to beg her for sex! i try all the things she likes, plenty of loving affection and hugs, but nothing! has she gone off me? she told me that i was the best she'd ever had (and we're both very experienced), maybe she doesnt find me attractive anymore?

2006-08-30 03:48:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous