Singles & Dating - 30 August 2006

hi peeps
ive been seeing a guy for about 3 months, at first i thought it would just
be a one night thing, but it wasnt and was quite surprised. but i have a few
problems, im finding it really hard work, hes been hurt in the past and i
feel that he just wont open up, keeps blowing hot and cold, one night i just
let rip and told him that i was sick of feeling like some spare part, and it
was make or break time, he apologies for it, and said he had been single for
over three years, and i guess it was hard or is hard to include me in the
things he does. he then said i will have to sort my life out for you wont i.
I have given him plenty of chances for him to finish it, but he doesnt seem
to want to, he just keeps saying im crap, im useless, at this boyfriend
thing. i dont think ive got it in me!! it rather confusing, and i am not
sure what to do?
do i keep trying or am i fighting a loosing battle???

2006-08-30 03:47:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 03:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by Hai Ram 2

I work for a large company and have always been told to
"Never to fish off the company pier".
I have the company AGM dinner and drinks comming up and she will be there. I am worried as to whether I should or shouldn't have sex with her as she indicated with a raised eye brow and a wink mmm "I can share a Hotel room with me"...she said and continued to look at me when our PA booked the accomodation. I was embarrased and was not sure if our PA cuaght on. If I wasn't at work It would be simple. I would just throw her down and go for it. I am now back at my work station and can smell her perfume and see her stocking clad leg out the side of her work station. She is wearing a mini skirt business suit mmm. I am attracted to her as she is to me, however I think I may loose the respect of my colleages if they find out. Is it worth it or should I just think with my dick?

2006-08-30 03:44:22 · 41 answers · asked by oooooo 2

Me and my girlfriend are having a bit of a "wierd" time lately. We're not gonna break-up or anything (and I'm totally in love with her), but things are just kind of depressing on my side right now.

I'm one of those people who can't enjoy themselves when they have something else going wrong in the back of their mind, and I almost find it impossible to stop thinking about her - she means the world to me.

I can't really discuss it with her or anything, because the problem isn't something "discussable", as such. I don't know if she's feeling the way I am, but I'm pretty sure she's not fretting as much as me. Naturally, I'm always one to worry and she's not, so...

Anyhow, I just don't want to feel like I do, because there's nothing truly wrong, but if things aren't perfect with her, it tends to literally ruin my life.

I want to feel happy and stop worrying, but when it's always on my mind, it stops me from feeling anything BUT depressed. I hang out with friends a lot, but...

2006-08-30 03:42:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my boyfriend came home yesterday, I had dinner ready, the house clean and everything was put away. I had been thinking about him all day and was pretty h o r n y. I went down on him and gave him the best b j and told him to get ready becuase when I came out of the shower we would go at it like never before. I tooka shower, came out, and went downstairs and he was watchign a movie - and totally ignored me. I layed down next to him and nothing, he just kept watching the movie. I went to bed and fell asleep thinking he would probably wake me up or something... but he didn't. He slept downstairs...

Now I'm in a bad mood because I didn't get any!!!

Guys, would have returned the favor? Wouldn't you want to get another one anyway?

Don't get me wrong - he's not a bad guy or anything and he's pretty good about keepingme satisfied... but still! What was he thinking?

The b j lasted about 10 minutes before I made him come. He absolutely loved it!

Thanks!

2006-08-30 03:40:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're in a long term relationship, both overweight, her more than me. i've started dieting/exercising properly (was and still am playing team sports) but all i get from her is lip service saying she'll start tomorrow. i dont want to hurt her feelings, and i love her no matter what, but she's starting to not look as attractive as she used to with the extra weight. i know it makes me sound shallow and all that, but i love her dearly. i've tried coaxing her, promised her i'd buy her treats, tried scaring her about the health effects but nothing is working. i'm finding myself less attracted to her physically as i am to her mentally and emotionally. you can say what you like about me but ladies if it was the other way around you'd say the same thing. any ideas?

2006-08-30 03:39:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would not want my partner in one, and I would never do it even if my partner asked me to... not for all the money in the world and I would be starving.

2006-08-30 03:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by trushka 4

what will be the position of India after a few years.

2006-08-30 03:38:27 · 1 answers · asked by Hai Ram 2

This is directed at the ladies. As usual I am a man who needs help to know how to create more intimacy with My partner. Please help!!!!!!

2006-08-30 03:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by adebumbi 1

and sooo bored, you just want to jump the next sexy person that walks by and screw the afternoon away?

2006-08-30 03:37:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i met this guy once and we've been e-mailing and chatting on the phone since...its been about a month already...he wants to see me again but i'm kinda shy yet i've been thinking about him all day long....Is this love ???

2006-08-30 03:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by sweetangel1328 3

dont you realize that by not caring about someone that you will ruin there day, or even their lives.

2006-08-30 03:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by theone 2

2006-08-30 03:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by Buster P 1

iam have a girlfrind for 7 months and a boy friend for 2 days, should i tell her. or keep it down. HELP

2006-08-30 03:32:20 · 24 answers · asked by Giles P 2

2006-08-30 03:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know you have been subjected to thousands of them...I want to know the worst.....the stupid...the dumb...the ugly??

2006-08-30 03:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by fxbeto 4

2006-08-30 03:27:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 03:27:42 · 25 answers · asked by big boy 2

2006-08-30 03:27:24 · 14 answers · asked by Nany 1

She says her cousin and friend influenced her to dump me because i would not let her drink alcohol and go to parties, wats wrong with her

2006-08-30 03:27:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 03:26:23 · 12 answers · asked by Abercrombie Kid 2

2006-08-30 03:26:05 · 13 answers · asked by Sweepy 3

2006-08-30 03:25:26 · 13 answers · asked by jazminep 1

2006-08-30 03:24:58 · 38 answers · asked by karin 2

Im sick of telling my boyfriend, "i love you" or "i love you so much" because it seems like thats all im saying... What else could i say to him instead of telling him i love him??? should i write him a poem? what can i say to make our conversations intresting??? Any answer please!

2006-08-30 03:24:40 · 21 answers · asked by Skye 5

I haven't made anyone lose their cookies and my female friends tell me I am definatly not ugly but I can't ask them this question, it'd be uncomfortable.

2006-08-30 03:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because love really hurts. I've recently found out that my girlfriend is in another relationship. I did my best but it didn't help... I don't want this kind of experience anymore. What do you say, is it O.K to think about living alone?

I got so much love to share, going to waste...

2006-08-30 03:22:11 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3

I`m inlove with my girlfriend but she seems not to feel the same thing. for me.

2006-08-30 03:21:30 · 28 answers · asked by Dan M 1

2006-08-30 03:20:56 · 9 answers · asked by kamisico 1

2006-08-30 03:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Jessicer 3