Because love really hurts. I've recently found out that my girlfriend is in another relationship. I did my best but it didn't help... I don't want this kind of experience anymore. What do you say, is it O.K to think about living alone?
I got so much love to share, going to waste...
2006-08-30 03:22:11 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is the healer.
2006-08-30 03:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Harriet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Ok to live alone as long it you are happy with that. You need some space, fun, which aren't dependant on love. if you find yourself in a situation when you can't see it being good for you, just remember how horrible it was, dont' let yourself daydream or get carried away. The thing is sometimes there's nothing you can do to stop yourself, maybe yoou won't want to. Take it easy for now. You can always change your mind if you are ready...
2006-08-30 03:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love makes all of the pain go away and the past worth surviving; what you're going through right now will make you a better mate for a lucky gal out there.
- Been there, done that
2006-08-30 03:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you want for right now there is nothing wrong being by yourself. Maybe you just need time to heal from being hurt so much. Give yourself some time you will find love and will know how to share your love once more, just take your time don't rush into a relationship.
2006-08-30 03:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living alone is a choice you have to make for yourself. Keep in mind that not everyone is like your girlfriend. Experiencing a broken heart is a part of life. Besides, isn't it better to experience love than to live your life lonely? If you feel you have a lot of love to offer, give yourself some time to heal and get over the relationship. Then, put yourself out there. If you find the right one, it's well worth!! If you don't find the right one you can still have fun in the process.
2006-08-30 03:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, forgive me, I do not mean to insult you, but just to make my answer clear.....
When you say you have so much love to share....
If you are talking about real caring concern for others and not just sex.......
There are lots of people out there who need love and would be helped greatly if you shared some of yours with them.
For example, the elderly who are so often lonely and ignored.
How about becoming a Big Brother?
Or if animals are your passion how about working in a shelter?
Love should never be allowed to go to waste.
2006-08-30 03:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to be hurt at first.But then you have got to get on wit your life coz love is omrthing that you don't have any control over. It's okay to have some time on your own but you'll find someone who will love you too
2006-08-30 03:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by ashanti w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think living alone difficult sometimes, for example if you don't have family or friends nearby, but it's better than having bad company, not all girls are like that, you musn't try to live without love
2006-08-30 03:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to ever fall in love either. Its okay to want to live alone.
2006-08-30 03:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Go out, hang out w/ your friends, and get over the girl. It'll take time, but soon you'll stop thinking about her. Then, if you want, you can start dating again.
2006-08-30 03:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i no exactly how you feel here is a hug
2006-08-30 03:35:35 · answer #11 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋