I work for a large company and have always been told to
"Never to fish off the company pier".
I have the company AGM dinner and drinks comming up and she will be there. I am worried as to whether I should or shouldn't have sex with her as she indicated with a raised eye brow and a wink mmm "I can share a Hotel room with me"...she said and continued to look at me when our PA booked the accomodation. I was embarrased and was not sure if our PA cuaght on. If I wasn't at work It would be simple. I would just throw her down and go for it. I am now back at my work station and can smell her perfume and see her stocking clad leg out the side of her work station. She is wearing a mini skirt business suit mmm. I am attracted to her as she is to me, however I think I may loose the respect of my colleages if they find out. Is it worth it or should I just think with my dick?
2006-08-30 03:44:22 · 41 answers · asked by oooooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go there who knows she could be one of those crazy chicks you give her tha d*** and try to leave her alone then all hell brakes lose. Then everybody in the dang office is going to know all yo business. You can go ahead and think with your penis if you want to but it will be a big mistake if things don't go the way you think it will. Everything that glitters ain't gold and everything that smells good ain't always good for us. It sounds like you may just want to hit it and go but she may want more than that. So I suggest unless you are truly prepared for the good and the bad then don't tap that ***. Whatever you decide to do just remember NO GLOVE NO LOVE! Good Luck!
2006-08-30 04:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just wanna get you hook up. Be careful some women are vicious. Aren't you wondering why she is really trying her utmost best to tempt you and get horizontal with her? How long do you know her or do you really know her - in terms of personality? I would keep a distance if I were you, because some women are evil. Most women would try hard to tempt men just to get what they want. Anyway, the choice is yours. If you don't get any then you might as well jump on her. Think of some consequences first before doing such a thing. She might rub it in after that. Good luck!
2006-08-30 03:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they already warned you not to do something like that then are you ready for a new job? You might just want to go to your HR department and double check the "rules".. Most offices have loosened up their outlook on inter-office relationships in the past years. If they're still strict on it, for reasons of: What happens if you break up? Will your work suffer having that person around all the time? The definately don't do it unless you're willing to find another job. If they're loose on the rule and you want a relationship out of it, then go for it, but if it's a "one nighter" in your eyes then you don't want to be around her if you just used her for sex, she really won't appreciate that at all...and she'll let you know.
2006-08-30 03:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by goldiemcg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you survive without a job? More often than not these office relationships are simple attration because you work so closely. It is also mostly the guy that gets fired when the company finds out. And believe me someone will find out! This sort of thing never stays a secret. Best bet is to go out with her to lunch or dinner and see if there is something there. If there is talk to your manager. It is better to be open than to let them find out or do it behind their backs. Who knows they maybe okay with it.
2006-08-30 03:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like u are just as ready,as urr co-worker.I'm a cristian but if there's that much attraction and u don't mind offending GOD,and how will will urrr colleages find out unless there's alot of shananigins around the water cooler just be kool:and if everything turns out fantastick what the? It's a SIN but what the!!!
2006-08-30 04:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by curious one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eveen if you have the agreement not to tell anyone and that it will simply be sex and nothing more, it almost always never works out that way. It doesnt sound like it would be worth it to you. Besides, you can get it anywhere else.
2006-08-30 03:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a rule that I live by and it is don't s.h.i.t. where you eat. Vulgar, but true. You don't mess around at the place that provides you with food, shelter and clothing.
Tell her that under different circumstances you would be happy to oblige, and if she would like to quit her job you would be happy to give her what she is asking for. In the mean time, pick up a honey and work out that energy with someone who can't get you fired.
2006-08-30 03:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me as if she may be a big tease. If you wanna have sex with her then go for it just be discreet about it. But I have a feeling that when the ball is in your corner she'll back down.
2006-08-30 03:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by ducksixty8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you do outside work is your own private matter. If what you're saying is true then get to meet her somewhere in a hotel or motel and bang her all night long until she forgets her aunt's pantie's size.
2006-08-30 03:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have sex with someone that you work with. Because if things don't work out, you will regret ever having anything to do with that person. I know the invitation seems inviting but don't accept.
2006-08-30 03:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋