When my boyfriend came home yesterday, I had dinner ready, the house clean and everything was put away. I had been thinking about him all day and was pretty h o r n y. I went down on him and gave him the best b j and told him to get ready becuase when I came out of the shower we would go at it like never before. I tooka shower, came out, and went downstairs and he was watchign a movie - and totally ignored me. I layed down next to him and nothing, he just kept watching the movie. I went to bed and fell asleep thinking he would probably wake me up or something... but he didn't. He slept downstairs...
Now I'm in a bad mood because I didn't get any!!!
Guys, would have returned the favor? Wouldn't you want to get another one anyway?
Don't get me wrong - he's not a bad guy or anything and he's pretty good about keepingme satisfied... but still! What was he thinking?
The b j lasted about 10 minutes before I made him come. He absolutely loved it!
Thanks!
2006-08-30
03:40:30
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I guess it really was my fault for wanting to please him first... I just really like to feel him and doing that to him gets me off... but not to the point of coming...
2006-08-30
03:59:33 ·
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Interesting....
You satisfy him, but he ignores you....
I have no idea what he was thinking. Maybe you should have teased and toyed with him, and then had him join you in the shower.
Or he was just being an @ss, and you got the shaft (or didn't, in this case)
Sorry about the bad mood. Need some help with that?
2006-08-30 03:50:56
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answered by lowflyer1 5
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That is a situation I have never heard before. Either he does not want sex in which case he is whacked, or he got some already and the BJ was a bonus. Hell if my GF did that I would not have waited for her to come out of the shower, I would have joined her in there ;-)
2006-08-30 10:52:23
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answered by omvg1 5
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That's the problem sweetheart, you took care of him first. You have to learn to put yourself first because he is a man and will always think about himself first. I used to be just like you. Clean the house, make dinner, give him head as soon as he came home and he began to treat me like I was nothing. The more I did in the home and sexually to please him the more he took advantage of me. Fourteen years I (allowed) that to happen, not any more. I deserve better and I know it. If I'm not first then there is no last.
2006-08-30 10:50:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes it definatly sounds like you were in the mood and did everything to get him in the mood but was he in the mood? How did his day go? There are times when I do the same with my wife and more often than not I go to bed without "getting any". Most of the time it's because I fail to listen to her day and what she really wants. Don't take it too hard there is always tomorrow!
2006-08-30 10:46:12
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answered by Mark S 3
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I always return the favor!
But, it was probably a bad idea to give him a BJ. You should have just stuck your hand down his pants and played with him a little, and then took the shower. He would have been waiting for you then!
2006-08-30 10:51:16
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answered by Anonymous
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next time don't waste your time on the careless bastard unless he pleases you first.he already got some so you are on your own,you should have taken care of yourself in the shower cause once a guy gets some he is good for the night.if you really wanted to get it on,you should have started with another bj,then he would get the message.
2006-08-30 10:49:22
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answered by spocklogical1 3
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I don't think anyone here can answer this one for U, U need 2 ask him whats up. Maybe he had an off day or was thinkin of something else. Hard 2 say.
2006-08-30 10:45:57
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answered by Anonymous
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My good friend once told me something you have to remember...Sometimes, no matter how wonderful they are, they are just a guy and they do stupid guy things.
Tell him that you were looking forward to him making love to you and you were pretty disappointed that the movie meant more to him. Always tell him when something is bothering you, don't expect him to read your mind. Tell him that tonight he has some making up to do and it is all about you...have fun.
2006-08-30 10:45:04
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answered by Christina 4
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Reason #1 after work and after a great BJ all a man normally wants to do is chill and nothing else...next time if you want him further don't finish the job....
I wouldn't read anything further into it you just gave it to him too good and left him stupified lol....
2006-08-30 10:49:16
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answered by girlygirl 2
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Obviously the movie was more interesting than you were. Just because you WANTED doesn't mean he has to GIVE. He obviously wasn't in the same mood you were, imagine that. I mean you were so willing to give him what he wanted, and that's all he wanted. Feeling a little bit used are you?
2006-08-30 10:46:17
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answered by Anonymous
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