I've been trying to get with this girl for the past two months while she had a boyfriend and now that she left him for me, I can't explain why I still want to be with her.I can't say I don't like her still because I do, I just can't say why anymore...almost as if I feel obligated to like her because she left her man for me.
2006-08-30 03:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by Jay The Great 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you wanted her because you couldn't have her, but now that you have her you no longer want her. It's actually human nature.
2006-08-30 03:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand why you are with this girl. Do you like her or are you just with her because you feel obligated to do so. If it is just out of obligation you need to dump her. She needs someone who really cares about her and wants to be with her because they love her not out of obligation. From what you said it does not sound as though you genuinely love this girl.
2006-08-30 10:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We usually want what we can't have and you know that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence but once your there it all tastes the same.
2006-08-30 10:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel obligated to her because it's not your responsibility. But she did leave him for you. If you don't want her tell her so she can move on and so can you.
2006-08-30 10:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by hnic_shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the old, Hunt and Chase. When the hunter is hunting it's so exciting and when he finally catches his prey he's on to another adrenalin-rushed hunt. People always want something that they can have until they have it.
2006-08-30 11:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason your were so in to her was because you knew she wasnt yours. You see men have what they call competition they try to get other guys women and when they see how easy it is its not fun. Shes way too easy.
2006-08-30 11:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by frenchiejamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your emotions are mixed up so sit back for awhile and think things over then be alone for a bit the you should know either to stay or go .
2006-08-30 10:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to except it. Isn't that what you wanted ? She must care for you also otherwise, she wouldn' of left her ex for you. You must ahve better qualities than he did. Good luck
2006-08-30 10:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by italiansweetie6883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops!
2006-08-30 10:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you couldnt really have her, she was harder to get with. now that you have her...youre not sure if you still do, it was a little too easy.
think about this: if she would do that to him, what would she do to you? if she cheated on him, she'll cheat on you
2006-08-30 10:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by california gurlie poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋