we've been going out for 2 years and were kind of seeing each other for 6 months previous. back at the start and the 6 months prev the sex was FANTASTIC, 3 times a night (the most was her cumming 10 times, me 7 in a marathon session), whenever we had a few drinks she'd be dying for us to do it. she'd try anything and was just the kinkiest woman i'd ever met. now i almost have to beg her for sex! i try all the things she likes, plenty of loving affection and hugs, but nothing! has she gone off me? she told me that i was the best she'd ever had (and we're both very experienced), maybe she doesnt find me attractive anymore?
2006-08-30 03:48:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THIS IS THE ANSWER - I know because I went through it myself and a lot of people don't realise it
THE PILL KILLS your sex drive.
I am a very sexual person but my sex drive was non-existent when I was on the Depo Vera injection. It certainly contributed to the break up with my ex. Now I will never take it again and my sex drive is more than healthy.
I have told all my friends to stay away from the pill. They don't warn you enough about the side effects. I also was 2 stone heavier, moody, sleepy and hungry all the time and as soon as I stopped taking it I felt better.
Get your gf to go to the doctor.
Also helps - Vitamin E supplements.
2006-08-30 04:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you wore her out ... 3 times a night for 12 months is an awful lot of condoms!
She's settled into the relationship now and doesn't see the need for sex every time you do ... maybe she needed the drink to give her the courage in the first place.
Talk to her and don't throw a tantrum if she doesn't put as much importance on sex as you obviously do ... I don't have tantrums with my missus, I just find other methods to relieve the itch!
2006-08-30 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she realise that your relationship was mainly based on sex and not much more and now she's want more in the relationship. Work on the friendship part of you relationship. Set a target to be abstain both of you for a while, about a month not a day, abstinence could help the heart grow fonder.
2006-08-30 03:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my wife / life, After shutting the door on me she found another guy for sex/love. She just forgot 2 divorce me first. I should have thrown her *** out then and there but I believed in the vows and tried to stick it out. What a fuckin waste of time,after I finally divorced her I was MUCH happier. Good Luck dude.!!
2006-08-30 03:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think she doesn't find u attractive no more, but i guess doing it sooo many times for like 2years it can get boring. jus try not to pressure her and give her space, it can be hard for women to get horny if they're constantly getting it, jus don't act desperate.
try new things wit her, i'm sure she'll be wanting more from u soon or later, she can't stop having sex forever can she? lol
2006-08-30 04:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweetchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe she's found someone else she can milk experience from. Gotta make the dump for another hump.
2006-08-30 03:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to help but do you mind watching while i sort out your GF sex drive
2006-08-30 03:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she loves you and doesnt feel the need to please with you sex all the time as she should be enough for you by now!
2006-08-30 04:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's not that maybe her sex drive has gone down talk to her and ask her whats the deal
2006-08-30 03:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably finished with you and found another soul pole to bounce on. It will be OK because i think you had true love and eventually she will come to her senses
2006-08-30 04:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋