I am leagally separated. We have a long distant relationship as we live in different states. She assumed I was divorced and I did not tell her that my divorce was not final. I know that I devieved her and was not completly honest with her. She is my soulmate. We both love each other and made plans for our future. When the subject of my ex wife came up, I confessed that she is not my ex yet. I have made a terrible mistake. I was afraid she would not accept me if I told her I was still married. She does not answer phone calls, respond to emails/IM's. Is there anyway that I can make amends with her? I have appologized and gave an explanation. I am sick over what has happened. Any advice would be appreciated.
2006-08-30 03:51:16 · 13 answers · asked by Atlk9doc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i suggest you finalize your divorce before you go chasing anyone around, then maybe you will have some proof and she will belive you. You have to put yourself in her shoes, she feels lied to and betrayed, so as long as you are in the same situation, why should she speak to you. Plain and simple: finalize your divorce then look for her!
2006-08-30 03:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first step is admitting you were wrong for keeping this hidden. Second, she has every right to be upset, you misled her and broke trust. If she is your true soulmate give it some time and she may be open to discussion, but what you did was horrible. You should have been honest and open and not let her "assume" something that wasn't true. Finally, she is right to keep her distance from you from now. She needs time to sort this out and you should give her time.
2006-08-30 03:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by asmithisluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to cool off. She feels betrayed. Try with her again once your divorce is finalized.
2006-09-06 14:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fist of all get the divorce really quick. and email her and leave messages that you are divorced. and try to get her attention by saying how much you love her.
2006-08-30 03:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be her sole mate, because you decieved her! To bad, don't know if she will ever forgive you and even if she does, she still may not want you back. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy! Peace
2006-08-30 03:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced, show her your official documents and she'll be happy to have you back knowing you finished it just for her.
2006-08-30 03:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by bgbelden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hurry get divorce so she can see that your serious about her and you really want to be with her keep call writing until she talks to you
2006-08-30 03:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your divorce papers delivered to her with a bunch of roses
2006-08-30 03:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show her divorce papers
2006-08-30 03:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You lied to her, she will never trust you again.
2006-08-30 04:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋