2006-08-30 03:57:56 · 16 answers · asked by loma35 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are in constant fear of losing someone u love then u are needy or insecure and if u keep feeling this way then you will lose your love. so you need to stop thinking about that and enjoy your relationship that way the person you love won't feel that you are being pushy or worried or even overly insecure and the relationship will get better when he or she sees that you are a free spirit. No one wants a boyfriend or girlfriend that is insecure. You need to start being confident because there are no gaurentees in life.
2006-08-30 04:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Especially when you begin a new relationship, you have to approach it open-handedly, and realize that you need to evaluate your potential love, just like they need to evaluate you. Every time you start getting nervous about it or insecure, try to look at them more objectively...are they REALLY who YOU want to be with? What do you want in a significant other? Do they really measure up? What areas are you still not sure about?
If you leave all the objectivity work up to them, you will continue to feel insecure. It's not about picking at them or making their live miserable...more about standing up for yourself.
2006-08-30 04:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust, and keep the love alive by doing the things that you both love to do. If there is a reason you are feeling this way then you should confront it.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-08-30 04:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by marvalgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kind of losing you are refering to breakup or death? Breaking up is very rough, just remain calm and find a new hobby, or anything to keep you busy and not think about it.
2006-08-30 04:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. what a question. u always have that fear, tht fear is always ther if you truly luv that person. it can feel like the butteflies r gone, but if you dig deep in your hear, and in your immortal soul u will find them flying in a meadow trying to burst back. they cdan come back at anytime, so u always have the feeling, but if you have it, then u know u truly luv them.
2006-08-30 04:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you cant ,if the person is going to leave they will and only TIME will heal all only time my friend .Been threw it many times and time works very well about 3 months.
2006-08-30 04:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-08-30 03:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Conquer your fear of dying in you and be detached
2006-08-30 04:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be more secure with your relationships. stop freaking yourself out! sounds like you spend to much time worrying about abandonment. if you lose, there is not anything you can do to change it, so what are you doing?
2006-08-30 04:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even i want to know the answer to this one. I feel same way all the time :(
2006-08-30 04:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋