Singles & Dating - 6 August 2006

Im a 31 year old male, and i have been single all my life. I was very shy as a child, and was picked on in school. I always dreamed of meeting the right person to make my life complete, but im afraid to put myself out there. To be a successful dater, i think you need to be confident. You need to move from date to date without letting one person's drama hurt your feelings that keep you from ever dating again. In ways you gotta forget the terrible past , and move on. I hate the thought of the process. Seeing dating shows on television keeps me withdrawn from the dating scene even more.

2006-08-06 19:11:53 · 8 answers · asked by Craig C 2

Ive been talking and hanging with this girl thats kind of shy now for about 2 months now. It took a while for me to break her out of her shell but I did it. I can really make her laugh and she choose to be around me most of the time. And we both can be personal with each other. My friends tell me that im thinking to much of it and that for all i know she might not like me. And sometimes i cant to belive them because i don't know how she feels about me. So how do i know if she likes me? or in other words what signs should I look for that she likes me?, and do shy girls usually let guys know that they like them? This has been troubling me for 2 months now because i really like this girl but I dont know how she feels about me.

2006-08-06 19:11:47 · 3 answers · asked by alphamale 2

2006-08-06 19:10:02 · 29 answers · asked by Kelly Love 2

2006-08-06 19:09:55 · 23 answers · asked by Paige 2

my bf is 4 years older than me.and hes black. my dad is racist.

2006-08-06 19:02:28 · 10 answers · asked by tiggrgrl_42 1

he is really hott tho but we ain't going out yet but i could c it happenin!!! he helps me thro alot of hard times!!!!

2006-08-06 19:01:42 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-06 18:59:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I went to a BBQ last night and met this girl through this other woman I'm friends with... as the night goes on, she gets drunker and drunker, and more and more cuddly. We end up staying the night because we're too drunk, and we have sex on the floor before falling asleep...

Now sleeping with random women at parties is not something I do normally. Honestly I have hardly had sex since my divorce 2 years ago... but I felt a real connection with this girl and I wanted to write her an email tonight to say "hi" and tell her I enjoyed spending time with her and would like to see her again, but I don't want it to come off as meaning that I just enjoyed having sex and want more...

What should I say?

2006-08-06 18:58:17 · 9 answers · asked by Rick C 1

hes going to punish me. the police want do nothing cause hes actually a policemans son so theyre not going to listen to me. im scared any advice??

2006-08-06 18:58:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why can't they own up to what made them tell that lie? Is the truth that so hard to tell? If he has balls to tell a lie, why can't he have balls to be honest?

2006-08-06 18:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by J J 3

but as soon as we say something silly, they take so seriously and become all offended and so sensitive.
can guys and gals ever be really true friends and just be comfortable saying anything around each other?

2006-08-06 18:57:47 · 1 answers · asked by tamfries_08 1

2006-08-06 18:53:16 · 2 answers · asked by stent 2

Basically, I didn't feel physically attracted to her after 2 months of dating (I initially did though), i couldn't really tell her that so I told her it was because of little things like her extreme indecisiveness, which didn't give me the chance to really get to know her properly (which was part of the reason).

2006-08-06 18:52:14 · 2 answers · asked by solidunit2003 1

2006-08-06 18:51:57 · 13 answers · asked by Crystal J 1

Ok let me explain...
A few weeks ago my teacher (who is completely HOT) and I were talking about movies that we like during study hall and she said something about how we just had to get together and watch something because we liked all the same stuff. Well at the time I thought she meant it jokingly but then a few days ago she stopped me after class and asked if I wanted to go over and watch the movie "Boondock Saints".

I went last night and during the movie she was really close to me and I started getting weird vibes and at one point I kind of pushed my hand against her leg. She moved hers and we held hands and by the end of the movie we were very close together and then things moved into kissing and making out very quickly. She took off her shirt and I undid her bra. This was the first time I've ever done anything like this. We ended up making love in her bed and I used a condom.

I'm 17 and this is the most amazing thing ever but is it right? Should I continue or what?

2006-08-06 18:51:53 · 17 answers · asked by John R 1

i wrote this poem for this girl that i like..i wanted to tell her howifeel by writing a poem i called her 2 days later she aint pik up i left a voicemail and she called back 15 minutes after i left a voicemail we talked and she said she had a thing to go to it was some kind of beauty contest i remembered because she told me that like a month agoi was pisd cauz i wanted to take her out that day but i aint get mad or anything i did but i didnt express it i was just wondering how would i know if she liked the poem or not she sounded really happy on the phone is there ways to tell ?sheasked me if i was gonna be in school on monday i said yea why u askin?and shesaid i dont know i just wanna know then she said she had to go and get her hair doneand she said ill call you tonite and then i askd her can i go with her to the beauty contest and she said i forgot to get the pases i was like cool and i said bye and then i call her at 145 in the am and i leave a message and she neva calls back ?

2006-08-06 18:51:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf and i have together for 1 yr we love each other so much. but yesterday he beat me up badly yesterday but i want to report to police but i am worried he would leave me. i still want him as i get no love from my family. i gonna move out soon. well the first time i had sex with my bf was an accident i just wanted to lay on his cheast and then he started doing everything to me. but today he said that i am a cheap skate girl and i was not intending to lay on his chest but he say i motivated him to have sex which is so untrue. wat can i do? i told him many time i never did such a thing. once i almost slept with another guy but i never had sex i admit my mistake. but still he talks abt it and hurt me and he has already did the same thing and sex with another women which i have forgetten so why he keep hinting me? he say he is man so he can do it? so wat if he is man? he say i slap him. is he only make from flesh and blood while i was made in rubber is it? it hurts. help me pls...

2006-08-06 18:50:03 · 32 answers · asked by Minnalgal 2

why dont girls have guts to talk about sex openly............
or even enjoy talking about it with a guy???????
why??

2006-08-06 18:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by v_87_p 2

2006-08-06 18:44:35 · 20 answers · asked by Joe T 1

i want to compare something between guys that play a girl vocally by telling her sweet stuff etc... and a guy that really want a girl but cannot vocally prove it.
LET SAY
Roy came up to u with a very strong communication skillz and he be telling how special u are and nice u are and within a few minutes u feel like u wanna be wit him.

Then after few hours Lee came up to u and he trying so hard to talk to u he almost dont make sense but u can just tell he likes u but he cant Vocally say it, while u cant even resist Roy's words.

2006-08-06 18:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by stickdriver 2

2006-08-06 18:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me, I've rarely ever found teh stereotypical version of beauty in America appealing. The girls from the Dove campaign for real beauty are really beautiful to me. I like a larger than average girl w/ maybe a small "baby phat" on her stomach, large breasts, large lips, thighs butt and eyes. I'm a round featured person. However I do like symmetrical faces. Don't be afraid to mention emotial qualities as well. I'm in a transitional faze of re-discovery but I used to like girls who were almost sub-servient, emotionally supporting, and give me what I want always. Like a spoiled kid. I'm starting to feel lif thats what I would want I'd have to be willing to be a responsible provider, emotionally balanced and fully know myself. Thank you

2006-08-06 18:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I start looking and maybe start dating now, or wait until I lose all of my weight. I'm toning as I go, but I fear it's my shyness that's going to get in my way also. I'm usually the life of the party when I was heavy. I mean after a while, you just get used to mean people. But, now things are changing. And, I look so different. Better, and healthier of course. The dating scene is just very scary, and it seems it gets worse the older you get. What do all of you think? Please be gentle, I do have feelings.....

2006-08-06 18:37:43 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3

I met this gurl online. She comes from a very average family of 3 sisters and their parents. The thing is, is that they are all still studying, and I think that their parents depend on her very much, being the eldest.

But I can say that she has very deep feelings for me. And I personally love her a lot. She has told me abou how she feels. But her parents have told her before that she needs to be there for her sisters. Would it be wrong of me to wisk her away?

2006-08-06 18:36:47 · 14 answers · asked by Lambada 2

Im using my friends account and need some help.....Ok, here's the story... I met this guy and he is an amazing guy. He broke up with his girlfriend and we started hanging out and talking everyday and doing stuff... then yesterday, he text's me and tells me that he loves his ex and he cant talk to me anymore because his ex would get mad and that he lost her in the first place because of me, which isnt true.... Then she decides to text me, and told me I cant talk to him and that this is all my fault and basically the whole deal got turned around on me... What should I do? Now he wont talk to me, and I cant imagine loosing a great friend like him....

PS: HIS EX GIRLFRIEND AND I DO NOT GET ALONG AT ALL....

We have had previous fights before the guy came in the picture...

But also... she is my sisters best friend

2006-08-06 18:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked her about this and she said she did met the guy just once and even slept at his house that day, in his bed. But then she swore by her family's lives that nothing happened that night, he didn't even try touching her. After that she never saw him again, although he kept on calling and writing her emails which she said she ignored. Should I believe her? Is it really possible that nothing could have happened that night, not even a kiss? Hopefully I could get some answers from a female's point of view. I trust my girl but I think sleeping in a guy's bed with the guy and saying that nothing happened seemed impossible to believe.

2006-08-06 18:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by zachary_red 1

Well I'm 16, been going out with my girl for 8 months, In the begining, its been good we always talked, the one day we didnt on the phone (christmass the day after) she was extremely sad and told me that she missed me, and showed her love for me, now, 8 montjhs later, she goes on a trip with her mom, sister, and cousin, and she doesnt even call, she occasinaly leaves me a message on myspace saying that she's having fun, but sjhe never shows it anymore, how do i get this back? I think she thinks I'm druling for her, that ill do anything so she is acting this way because she knows what do i do guys i love this girl alot and dont want to loose her but my heart is starting to hurt ;-(

2006-08-06 18:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by Jordon H 1

we last 2 months and he is coming back, (because he went to work out of the country for 4 months and we couldnt manage the long distance relationship) i still miss him and i dont know how to be with him when i meet him again

2006-08-06 18:29:42 · 8 answers · asked by grayhe 1

I'm transfering to another school and at my old school I met this guy that has been trying to get with me. My first year there we started out as friends. Until last summer we started talking and messing around he kept telling me he wanted to be with me. I didn't want to be with him because I couldn't trust him. Because of this female.Then beginning of my second year there I told him I just wanted to be friends. But we continue to mess around and I would see him with the other female. He said they were not together or weren't messing around. Now that I'm about to leave he saying he wants to be with me and he can see us being together. He said he had a long distane relationship before. My question is should I go ahead and be with him even though we are at different schools? Or should I just go about my business and move.

2006-08-06 18:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by Lady C 1

2006-08-06 18:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous