my bf is 4 years older than me.and hes black. my dad is racist.
2006-08-06 19:02:28 · 10 answers · asked by tiggrgrl_42 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either see him or behind ur dads back or respect his wishes and break it off with him..... but if i was u i would see him behind his back...... but just don't get caught
2006-08-06 19:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your dad can tell you who you can and cannot see must mean that you are still in school and living in his house. I don't know if your dad is a racist or not but I bet you don't know either.
Let's say you're 15, that would make your boyfriend 19. If I were your parent I wouldn't let you see him either because he's too old for you...and I wouldn't care if he were white, black, or green. Frankly, if you were MY 15 year old daughter I wouldn't let you date...period.
The fact that you are on the Internet whining about this stupid stuff says a lot about your maturity. Why don't you take some time and grow up so you can really look at things and decide what is truly important and what isn't.
2006-08-06 19:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating a white guy four years older and see if he protests still .
maybe its the age , and not his skin
maybe it is,his skin .
don't just blame the reason on his skin , because ur bf happens to be black ..
and if it ends up really being because of the age , listen , if its really just the skin do what you think is right . I'm all for listening to the rents tho especially 4 years that a big jump when your under age .
2006-08-06 19:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I would have listened to my father when I was dating.
I wouldn't of wasted my time with some of the losers I dated.
I look back on my dating years and wonder, What was I thinking dating that guy?
Your father has your best interest at heart.
Listen to your father, I doubt he is a racist, (I am sure he just cares about you)
2006-08-06 19:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by jewelry designer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let ur dad get to know u bf better and the age doesnt matter the thing that matters is if u love him
2006-08-06 19:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by bOSsy b1tC8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sneaky, don't let parents get in the way of love. It's your life, even if your young you need to think about yourself when it comes to emotions. But remember don't run away from your family, you need them, talk to him about it and if he's not reasonable just be sneaky until your 18
2006-08-06 19:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let ur dad see ur bf
2006-08-06 19:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by The Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks. Mybe you should talk with him.
2006-08-06 19:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by urbania05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur dad...know his problem
2006-08-06 19:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by dina_sas80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry
2006-08-06 19:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by mrmach@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋