Singles & Dating - 6 August 2006

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Avoiding The Traps Women Set
By Matthew Fitzgerald
Relationship Correspondent - Every other Monday

Women aren’t content just to be happy. Their brains are wired differently than ours -- they crave conflict, drama and instability. They like to start fights over nothing. Because they need and want to be constantly reassured, they thrive on insecurity. They are illogical and emotion-driven creatures. This is why they test men by constructing damned-if-you-do, damned-if-you-don’t traps to put men’s commitment, loyalty and motives on trial. Most of these traps come packaged as innocent questions or offhand remarks. Innocent? Dream on. In fact, they’re designed to make a man fail, and woe to you if you do because the punishment for failure is merciless...

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2006-08-06 18:28:03 · 10 answers · asked by Biggz 2

2006-08-06 18:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by molicus 1

today i went to a neiboors bitrthday party and i met a 14 girl she went out with my friend. i seemed to be doing good but i didnt get her number. Im going to get back at her someway i just was being not serios i need to to no after ive gone far enoph what words and how to ask her out

2006-08-06 18:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know the truth, no myth or lore or joke or fantasy answer, just the honest to god truth.

2006-08-06 18:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by mack n 1

We all make mistakes as we go through life. What you would go back and tell yourself and what age would that be ? and/or What would you tell others younger than you to not worry about or to make sure and do or not do ??

2006-08-06 18:25:12 · 4 answers · asked by CTM 3

If your name were Kelly, would you date a Kelly? Would you not date someone simply because their name was the same as yours?

2006-08-06 18:24:53 · 19 answers · asked by deregulution 2

I have recently divorced about one yr ago i have been considering marrying a russian girl that lives in russia i have never met this girl i have only had contact through e-mails.My friend and i use to date 15 yrs ago she has alway been there for me and we certainly make way beter friends than anything elese so please don't tell me my freind has feelings for me thats not at all how it is.Am i crazy for considering these actions?

2006-08-06 18:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by harley6455 2

all suggesions appreciated?

2006-08-06 18:22:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-06 18:20:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see a lot of female couples nowadays when i go out to watch movies, eat lunch, walk in the park...and they all seem so happy and in-love. I want to know what, or how can a woman convince herself that one person of same sex is worth the relationship eventhough it is against the norms?

2006-08-06 18:18:09 · 13 answers · asked by Mhazeâ?¢ 2

without hurting his feelings? so i should just say out of the blue..i dont like u that way?

2006-08-06 18:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by Feodora 2

How do i get one?

2006-08-06 18:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and we have been doing a long distance relationship that entire time. I have visited him twice for a month each time. He's 19 going on 20 this September and I'm 17 going on 18 in Novemeber. Things have come up where he can move in where I am and he's not sure what he wants to do. He lives with his mom and his mom is controlling, and he can't choose whether he wants to be with me or stay with his mom. What should I do? I made it where it was his decision on whatever he chooses, but I'm scared that he is going to choose his mom. I don't know what I should do. Any suggestions?

2006-08-06 18:17:00 · 28 answers · asked by Missy 2

colombians or salvadorians

guy or grl doesnt matter

2006-08-06 18:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by I ♥ Colombianos 2

i tell him...but he doesn't listen...i don't understand how someone can go with out a shower for like three or four days...he also will sometimes wear the same clothes for several days in a row...including boxers...i have to sometimes ask him to change...what should i do?...it's like he isn't hearing me...he isn't getting the hint...

2006-08-06 18:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by Just Me 2

i know there are some people here that are serious.i have a couple of questions that are serious.but i was trying to win a bet by getting ten yes. and got none,lol

2006-08-06 18:13:31 · 5 answers · asked by super girl 3

When I am interested in a guy I either make it so obvious I end up scaring them away or I end up choosing men I am not compatible with and lose interest. I dread dating, it stresses me out and I just cannot picture myself dating someone ( I normally hang out with people in groups)

2006-08-06 18:11:00 · 25 answers · asked by Lucy 1

2006-08-06 18:10:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys know the right way to drive you crazy...they know the right things to say and the right way to touch you...and they always seem to know the right words to crush you....Why do girls let guys get into their head...leaving them unable to think and function...for example my friend is having problems with her boyfriend..he doesn't call her...when he says that he is going to...she gets to the point where she is going to break up with him..than he calls her...and tells her that he loves her, and that he is going to drive down and they are going to go to dinner or something...than she is fine again...he can do no wrong...she loves him...and he loves her...and nothing else matters...How do guys get away with that...?

2006-08-06 18:09:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have seen this many times. A young girl maybe 14-16 will
act very aggressive toward me sexually even though I am
considerably older. Currently I am experiencing this with
my landlord's daughter. She tries to trap me in corners
and is always acting towards me as if it's available if I want it.
She is 17, and even though she's very good looking I am too
smart to go down that road. I don't remember girls being
that aggressive when I was that age, but maybe they were.
Still I have to wonder where it comes from. Where do they
find such sexual confidence at such a young age?

2006-08-06 18:07:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im using my friends account and need some help.....Ok, here's the story... I met this guy and he is an amazing guy. He broke up with his girlfriend and we started hanging out and talking everyday and doing stuff... then yesterday, he text's me and tells me that he loves his ex and he cant talk to me anymore because his ex would get mad and that he lost her in the first place because of me, which isnt true.... Then she decides to text me, and told me I cant talk to him and that this is all my fault and basically the whole deal got turned around on me... What should I do? Now he wont talk to me, and I cant imagine loosing a great friend like him....

2006-08-06 18:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have loved dressing in sexy girls clothes for years. Cute trendy stuff not my mothers stuff. I like get on a cute outfit and some heels, make up and go out driving or to the mall. I feel so sexy!
I am straight and have always dated girls. but when i am dressed up like a girl I think about being wih guys. last year I went a little further and while dress as a girl at a holloween party I went down on a guy that had been flirting with me.

Ok so here is my question, if I tend to like girls except when I'm dressed as one. am I straight, bi, gay or just plain confused???

2006-08-06 18:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by Joe T 1

This guy had a crush on me and we were 'friends" as in talked often but i wasnt interested and i also had a bf at that time.so now we started talking online more. he is a really great caring person and i dont want to hurt him! i feel that he still kind of likes me because he always asks me to hang out with him...asks me to all those movies,dinner etc...but the thing is. im single but i dont like him that way! can we still be friends or its better for me to disappear so that he can get over me? i dont want to hurt him?

2006-08-06 18:04:03 · 13 answers · asked by Feodora 2

well this girl just stopped emailing I thought she liked me too If she says she doesn't like me I'll be crushed......

2006-08-06 18:03:40 · 10 answers · asked by ................................ 2

I've had a casual sex type of relationship with a guy for over a year now.When we met, we let each other know that we didn't want anything serious at the moment because we both had just gotten out of a long term relationship. Well since then we've gone through alot together. We've had our ups and downs just like a couple, mainly jealously issues, but we get along really well. I can tell he's a little insecure at some things. I can also tell that it's hard for him to show his feelings, but when he does he's really sweet. I also have to say that he sorta has a big ego, probably from when he played pro ball, so again, it's hard for him to show his emotional side. He's in his early 30's. I want to be patient with him, because he seems to like to take things slow, which is ok. But how long should I hold out for him? What would you think he thinks of me after seeing him continuously about every week for over a year? Does any guy out there have a big ego or @least know what I'm talking about?

2006-08-06 18:03:06 · 26 answers · asked by feisty 2

2006-08-06 18:03:04 · 21 answers · asked by Stephen M 1

2006-08-06 18:01:54 · 8 answers · asked by Liz T 1

2006-08-06 18:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

you start talking to them and they want to know what you look like and you tell them that your short and you have a some extra pounds and the next question out of there mouth is what is your bra and pant size. is there any men out there that wants a girl for who she is. not just her body? God I hate men.

2006-08-06 17:59:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-06 17:58:35 · 8 answers · asked by Jayhawks1011 1