I have loved dressing in sexy girls clothes for years. Cute trendy stuff not my mothers stuff. I like get on a cute outfit and some heels, make up and go out driving or to the mall. I feel so sexy!
I am straight and have always dated girls. but when i am dressed up like a girl I think about being wih guys. last year I went a little further and while dress as a girl at a holloween party I went down on a guy that had been flirting with me.
Ok so here is my question, if I tend to like girls except when I'm dressed as one. am I straight, bi, gay or just plain confused???
2006-08-06 18:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by Joe T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are definitly bi.
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2006-08-06 18:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Pacman35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it definitely sounds like u're bi-polar. You should probably go see a doctor and get put on mood stabilizers, it doesn't sound like you can manage without them. Some people are only slightly bi-polar and can manage it, even use it to their advantage (manic episodes are awesome creative surges!) but it sounds like you're having a hard time, especially since you've developed suicidal thoughts. I do believe you should have a doctor prescribe some medication, until then, if you feel like you're slipping into a depressive state, load up on some caffeine - it can help to bring the manic episode back - you might get delusions of grandeur and act like an idiot, but hey, at least you won't be slicing your wrists! Don't pay attention to mom - she would be really sorry if anything happened to you. Let her stay in her denial, and you do what you have to do to survive. Good luck - and get the meds.
2016-03-27 01:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just like sex. Most people like the rush they get from sex, even if it's not from sexual activity that would be considered that of "the norm". Sex not a totally unnatural way for you to relate to others either. Also, in some ways, it probably feels "sexy" to dress like a woman because that puts you on the other side of the equation - instead of just being the one that wants sex (as most guys are), you get to be the one in demand (ie - the woman). Being able to supply something that you desired from others is inheritly sexual in it's power. You probably get quite a rush from that too.
I'm not condemning or condoning the practices you described - only trying to explain why you might feel the way you do about it.
2006-08-06 18:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you have a sexual intrest in guys, but you use the woman persona as an alias, so that it's not you having sexual intrest in a guy, it's the girl your dressed as. I think you might be using the girl clothes as a mask to pinpoint your homosexual tendencies on someone else because you fear them?
idk
either way.
you are DEFINITELY confused and have A LOT of stuff to work out.
2006-08-06 18:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by binks830 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, you are so young yet. I definitely would say that you are curious. Talk to someone who can help you sort all of this out. I wouldn't lable myself as one way or another. There are men who enjoy wearing women's clothes. Keep in mind, this is not generally acceptable behavior. Society takes it's time to understand ideas such as these, people can be cruel, especially if they feel uncomfortable. You may be bi-sexual, or even gay. I just wouldn't lable myself anything...enjoy who you are. Do things that make you happy. Be careful, as always in any sexual relationship, use protection. Good luck.
2006-08-06 18:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like and date girls, but have gone down on a guy leads me to believe that you are bi. The fact that you thought about being with guys makes it pretty clear. You will have to do some deep thinking about what you prefer, males or females.
2006-08-06 18:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused and need to talk with a professional. I know that there are men who like to dress in women's clothing but they are still all about the girls. You may be Bi but I really don't get that so you need to talk to a licensed professional who does.
2006-08-06 18:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think u r confussed about bein gay bi or straight!! i mean u sound nice and a chick would date u but the ? is would u ever think about bein wit a guy in regular guy clothes if so then u r bi or gay!! but if not then u r straight!!! and u need to stop wearin chick clothes!!
2006-08-06 18:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously bisexual, if you insist on labeling yourself. You enjoy sex with women, don't you? Then you are not gay. You enjoyed sucking that guy? Then you are not straight. Just enjoy your life enjoying both sexes, following safe practices, including not misleading straight men, as Kim (above) warned you about.
2006-08-06 20:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by ponysense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused I believe, just follow your heart. but if your dressed as a girl and another guy you go down on , doesnt know your a guy also.. be prepared to get your butt whooped.. be careful
2006-08-06 18:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by ~Kim~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused most likly. But hunny there is no need to label youself.. just have a good time youll figure out what it is you want when the time takes youi there.
2006-08-06 18:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by lana89xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋