Ok let me explain...
A few weeks ago my teacher (who is completely HOT) and I were talking about movies that we like during study hall and she said something about how we just had to get together and watch something because we liked all the same stuff. Well at the time I thought she meant it jokingly but then a few days ago she stopped me after class and asked if I wanted to go over and watch the movie "Boondock Saints".
I went last night and during the movie she was really close to me and I started getting weird vibes and at one point I kind of pushed my hand against her leg. She moved hers and we held hands and by the end of the movie we were very close together and then things moved into kissing and making out very quickly. She took off her shirt and I undid her bra. This was the first time I've ever done anything like this. We ended up making love in her bed and I used a condom.
I'm 17 and this is the most amazing thing ever but is it right? Should I continue or what?
2006-08-06 18:51:53 · 17 answers · asked by John R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's alright as long as she is completely HOT.
2006-08-06 18:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by maxwell3030 2 · 6⤊ 8⤋
First of all she should have never ever invited you over. You are 17 years old and a student at the school where she teaches. This is a crime. She will be held responsible for what happened between you and she, it is considered statutory rape. Whether or not it was consensual. Because you are a minor, it is a crime. Relationships with older women are not a good idea for you. It will only confuse you. Stick with girls your own age. Enjoy your youth. You seriously need to tell someone what happened. I know it can be emabarrassing. I know you don't want your parents to know. But you also don't want her to do this to someone else. I'm glad you used a condom, you should always protect yourself in sexual situations. Talk to your parents or a counselor or other teacher at school. It's the right thing to do. It's good to have a friendly relationship with your teachers. It is not good to have it go beyond the classroom. She took advantage of you. She used you. Now do the right thing. Good luck, I am sorry there are abusive people like her in my profession.
2006-08-06 19:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.17? you are of age where the teacher can't be prosecuted for statutory rape.
This teacher must have a huge crush on you. If the age difference is ten years or less, over the long run, these sometimes work out.
Be clear that in some districts, she might be fired. She obviously has feelings for you, but how to explain this to friends, family? Don't!
See here whenever, but quiet. til you are 20
2006-08-06 18:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, first things first. You have to realize that you are a minor and she put you in what was particularly a compromising position. Her job is such that she should not be doing that, but now that you are you should do her the favor of keeping this to yourself. It could totally ruin her career and give you both a ton of bad publicity. I'm personally not going to argue with love. Love is blind, fickle...whatever. You should not have had sex with her, but now you need to protect her and yourself by not telling anyone your real names. You are a minor and she may get into serious trouble for it.
Now if it happened to me as a student back in the day, I would probably have kept it all a secret and kept doing it, if possible. It's not what I would recommend today though.
2006-08-06 19:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. This is very improper and should be stopped. The school administration should be made aware of it, though that is at this point up to you and your parents.
The teacher has at this point committed statutory rape. She could easily lose her job, and end up in jail for it. Wait until you have graduated and are over 18 if you want to continue anything.
2006-08-06 18:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by drslowpoke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man.. that is bad.. that is illegal. If this is for real, dang, you're stuck. You might want to transfer to a different school or tell the cops.
Or, you could stop this until you are out of high school (I'm assuming you are in HS) and then get back into the relationship.
Good luck.
that is just nasty.....
2006-08-06 18:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is breaking the law by having sex with a student. You should not have done it. I hate to see anyone get into trouble but I am also wondering how many other students she may have done this to. You should tell your parents and the prinicipal.
2006-08-06 18:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she could lose her teaching license, because it is illegal and you are underage. I would tred lightly because she is wrong in what she is doing. I don't know her age, but you may want to tell her you need to hold off until you are 18. That would be the grown up thing to do.
2006-08-06 18:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its wrong don't you ever watch the news? She could end up in jail since your still a minor. and i think its in their contract to not do that sort of thing with their students. I would just stop it and find someone your own age.
2006-08-06 18:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old is the teacher? you must be quite handsome i guess for her to fall for you... it's totally not right of course as you are still under age and teacher are not surpose to engage in relationships with students.
2006-08-06 18:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by sabokid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by law this is counted a sexual preadtor on her part and carries prision time based on fact . ?
2006-08-06 18:57:16 · answer #11 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋