i wrote a poem and i gave it to this girl how would i know if she liked it ? should i ask her?

Question

i wrote this poem for this girl that i like..i wanted to tell her howifeel by writing a poem i called her 2 days later she aint pik up i left a voicemail and she called back 15 minutes after i left a voicemail we talked and she said she had a thing to go to it was some kind of beauty contest i remembered because she told me that like a month agoi was pisd cauz i wanted to take her out that day but i aint get mad or anything i did but i didnt express it i was just wondering how would i know if she liked the poem or not she sounded really happy on the phone is there ways to tell ?sheasked me if i was gonna be in school on monday i said yea why u askin?and shesaid i dont know i just wanna know then she said she had to go and get her hair doneand she said ill call you tonite and then i askd her can i go with her to the beauty contest and she said i forgot to get the pases i was like cool and i said bye and then i call her at 145 in the am and i leave a message and she neva calls back ?

Answer 1

I know this answer is a bit long, but if you read it you will find out some things that many men don't learn until they are pretty old. I wish I had known these things when I was your age, as they would have saved me much pain and embarrassment.

Why did you call at 1:45 AM? She'll think you're too desperate if you do that. You're trying way too hard. If I were you, I would not worry about whether she likes the poem. I would start thinking about whether she likes you. To find that out, try to contact her every few days for a while. Don't leave messages, because that's generally going to hurt your cause. And don't call more than once per day either. When you get in touch with her, ask her out. If she does not accept or at least make a suggestion for a more convenient time for her, it is very likely that she is not interested in you. Be polite and don't take her rejection personally. If she offers you a date, take it! It takes lots of nerve for a girl to ask you out, so you should accept the offer (if you like the girl, of course) whenever possible.

You have to learn to take things at face value, without analyzing so much. You also have to learn not to take girls personally. When they tell you BS excuses at every turn and give you very little attention, they are trying to get you to understand that they don't like you without having to hurt your feelings. Hurting your feelings would make them feel bad, so they try to avoid it when possible. That is not a very good approach, but that's just how things are. They don't think so much about all this, but this is the core psychology behind what they do. As you get older you will understand these things more.

Also, be patient with girls. If you're a normal guy, only about 1 in 6 girls will like you, and of those girls that do like you you will probably only like 3 in 5 back. That means that only about 1 in 10 girls may possibly make good girlfriends for you. Thats why you will probably need to meet lots of girls before you find one that's worth your energy.

One more thing: be very careful what you tell girls in person and in writing. If you say the wrong things, you can make them lose respect for you. You need to be light and funny in all your communication for maximum success. Never give them your life story in one sitting. To keep from doing that, you should think of all the serious questions a girl could possibly ask you and think of funny responses to all of them. Make them work a little bit to get information from you. Be reasonable about it and answer some questions, but tell them only a little at a time. Good luck!

Answer 2

I like your line "she said she had a thing to go to it was some kind of beauty contest i remembered because she told me that like a month ago"

Unfortunately, I think she's sending you signals that she's not real interested. You might consider trying to make other friends and girl friends. Don't let her bring you down. Transfer your caring for her to other people.

Answer 3

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