Other - Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

how do you trust again after being hurt so many time? can you just get over it?

2007-02-06 16:58:06 · 17 answers · asked by crazysmith187 2

2007-02-06 16:47:39 · 2 answers · asked by The Lamb of Vista 3

what to do if the mother inlaw and sis-inlaws r jealous psychos, they tell my husband false things about me she wants me out of her house. we live with his folks cuz of stupid desi tradition, his sisters got married and have their men alone at home but with their brother they remember traditions, they all lie on me and act it out and the way they do it even my own mom/family started to believe them, they cry with vains popping out eyes all blood red the holy books in hand lol what is going on man!! i end up looking like the liar, my MIL went told everyone i beat her down and bit her. im not a dog and never have i bitten anyone in my life to go bite that fat hog. does anyone know anywayz i can get my guy to believe me and stick up for me. he doesnt stick up for me im guessing hes either afraid of his mom or shes got some psycho issues where he knows shes going to go (fakely) say shes going to die and kill herself...i duno the real facts we can only guess what do u guess?

2007-02-06 16:38:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl at my high school her parents are really poor and abusive so she never wants to be by them she doesnt have anywhere else to go so she makes deals with a different guy everyday its pretty simple you give her dinner and a place to spend the night and shower and a ride to school she sleeps with you AND is nice to your family

well i brought her home the other night and i know it was just part of her "job" but she totally impressed my family, she was good with my little sister and amazing to everyone and now i think i like her but i dont think shes a relationship girl.

should i tell her how i feel and live wit me or what ?

2007-02-06 16:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by man 1

My boyfriend and i used to have them and we just used it against each other and it almost cost us everything. Does everyone else feel the same?

2007-02-06 16:15:04 · 7 answers · asked by samantha 2

i get 300+ junk emails a day. it all goes into my bulk folder. just wondering why i keep getting all these advetisments for websites i have never been to or searched for online. i know about cookies ect. but a lot of these emails are of sexualy contented websites and the subject line is usually addressed in my boyfriends name like bob,come meet singles in your area ect. some are far more explicit than that. why are they addressed to him for? he does sign into my mail as i allow him to use it time to time but does this also mean that he is going to these websites while yahoo is signed in as me? whats up with this? he says he aint been too none of those sites at all. also i have tried to unsubscribe one by one to stop recieving them but even tho it says i have unsubscribed and it will no longer send them to me they still do everyday. is there a way to stop getting them? and how can i prove my man is going to these sites if that is the reason i get these junk mails?

2007-02-06 16:06:53 · 2 answers · asked by LostInReality 2

I was with this man for 3 years, He is 23, he has a 4 year old daughter. He has lived with his mother his whole life up until we moved out together,(6 months ago) it only lasted 1 month, because I didn't want the "party" life anymore, and I was trying to force him to stop drinking as well. I told him that i thought he should go to work, take care of his daughter when he has her(joint custody) and start a life with me, We constantly fought about him going out with his boys.(i let him party alot the first 2 years)
He said i was demanding too much. we broke up. now he lives with his brother half the week and his mother the other half, when he has his daughter. (his mother helps take care of her) all i wanted was for him to work, take care of his daughter, then come home to me, I did not want him to go out EVERY week. Is that too much? So now when he has his daughter, he stays with his mom, she cooks, helps raise her and buys all the clothes, when he does NOT have her, He's out drinking.

2007-02-06 16:03:58 · 19 answers · asked by ash08love 3

Ok so I have a boyfriend that is in the Army. Right now he is at Fort Sam Houston at AIT, he graduates on Feb. 27th and will offically be a Medic of the US Army. My Boyfriend, Billy,says he wants to go to Ranger school. That means if he is not accepted then he will not get to come home for 2-3weeks? He also said that if he is accepted he will probably go to Gerogia? or Fort Bragg? Not sure,and in that case he may have a better chance of not getting deployed but see I REALLY want to see him and I want him to come home after Graduation but I told him to what he wants and as of right now he wants to do the Ranger thing. what happends if he is deployed though? I'm confused on what is going to happen but does anyone have anything to add to this? like maybe someone that has been through AIT and knows what might happen? I don't want him to get deployed but right now I have no idea what is going to happen? Any advice? I'm dieing without him but my life is not always going to be this way.

2007-02-06 15:58:47 · 6 answers · asked by tryingtolive 1

there is this guy that i really like and i think i may be falling in love with him.. he teases me a lot and he has stated that there is a chance that we might get together. but he recently told me that there is one girl who controls his heart and is his only weakness but its not me.... what do i do?

2007-02-06 15:52:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-02-06 15:50:28 · 7 answers · asked by Rusty 4

for you men! what is the first thing you notice in a woman?!!!
i need some answers.
i am a fairly attractive person.. i just cant seem to attract men?!
WHATS WRONG WITH ME?

(im 20yrs) and soo lonely. ps.

2007-02-06 15:47:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has accidents. I don't need advice on getting her to see a doctor, or what types of treatment, etc, that's all handled.
The problem is, she currently doesn't use any protection. We'll be out, and she'll wet herself, or we'll be cuddled up on the bed watching TV and I'll suddenly be soaked and in a puddle, not to mention every single morning. How do I get her to wear a much needed diaper? I'm not talking about a little trickle once in a while, it's a complete flood usually more than once a day. I told her not to be upset, but... it needs to be handled better.

2007-02-06 15:44:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wet the bed all the time which means i wear diapers at night i wear diaper in the day because i have a very small bladder i got so used to wearing them that i love them but i really don't want to love them

2007-02-06 15:43:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been a woman for almost 25 years now. I should know, right? Wrong. I go on playdates with the other moms and we talk about our kids and stuff, but I've noticed that alot of them go out on "Girl's Nights" and things like that. I've never been invited. I think that it's becuase I'm too formal and only talk about having kids because I really just don't know what women talk about other than that.

Everyone seems to like me, but I would just like to know what else women talk about when they are friends and not just acquaintences. (My friends are all men and all of us are still confused as to why women go to the restroom in groups...LOL)

2007-02-06 15:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by Green Booger 3

I usually have an open door policy (friends/family/neighbors feel free to drop by without calling first). However, these past few months, I've been sick and not wanting so much company. If I'm going to take a nap or just feel really lousy, I put a small dry erase board on my front door so people can leave me a message instead of ringing the doorbell (they leave a message AND ring the doorbell, and wake me up). One new acquaintance has been saying behind my back that I'm "avoiding" her, ever since I put the board out, although she is aware of my illness. She would come over, ring once, knock once, and spin tires out of my driveway and speed down the street. By the time I could get my body moving and to the door, she'd be speeding off. Would you be offended by "the board", and why?

2007-02-06 15:27:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm happy outside, but I'm sad inside.

2007-02-06 15:22:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt just passed away on sunday . Her next of kin are legally her three sons. Despite the fact they were aware of her condition they were not present at time of death. One has stated he does not want to have anything to do with her , the other has not contacted the hospital and although the third has been in contact from time to time, he is homeless and mentally ill. My mother just wants to give her sister a proper memorial and bring her ashes to her family in Mexico the family as a whole is willing to help with the cost . what is the best thing to do?

2007-02-06 15:21:54 · 1 answers · asked by roxy_girlx 1

Aside for the normal hair and clothes issues, has does one go about regaining their self-confidence, which shows in her appearance.
Without too much detail here, I had alot of setbacks in the past two years and have lost so much "sparkle." Yeah, that's the only way I can describe it. Thank you in advance for your replies.

2007-02-06 15:13:14 · 7 answers · asked by soozemusic 6

I was eating dinner with my father once when I was a little guy oh about when I was 13 years old at the time. This gentleman walks by me and all of a sudden a wad of cash falls out and one of the bills was a hundred. Everyone just staired at me as if to say "Idiot, pick it up, finders keepers buddy!". I looked at the guy, then down, I didn't hessitate, I picked up the cash and ran after the guy giving him back the money. He had this sudden look of shock and thanks all over his face! He said "Oh thank you soooo much young man! Pheewwww!". A few minutes later He walks over and picks up our bill for the dinner my father had treated me to and the man sais; "This is for being honest. Thank you so much young man. I felt sooo good that day and man was my dad ever so proud of me. :)

2007-02-06 15:10:07 · 35 answers · asked by John S 3

Can anyone tell me, a family member of mine is marrying a man who has to pay child support and he is afraid the ex-wife will come after her wages. Is that possible? In Minnesota.

2007-02-06 14:59:55 · 11 answers · asked by -------- 7

a particular guy whom I was seeing previously because I lived with him said, so your settling are you? in not a good tone. She said that I don't love him. It then made me rethink the situation. To this day I am still lonley, I have a flat mate but she will eventually hook up and I will left alone again. Is there such thing as just 'knowing' that the person is right for you? I don't think my mum understands what its like to be lonley. She has been married since for years. Not the best marriage, to the point where she states that she is still lonley. She says its better to be alone than in a bad relationship. I am so pissed, because I wasn't going to be alone anymore. Please help

2007-02-06 14:57:17 · 1 answers · asked by Leigh J 1

I've been single for 3 years.. Only been in love once. I'm tired of being alone. I'm going to be 20 years old in less then 2 months. I'm heavy, but is the world really such a pathetic place that b/c I'm fat I'm doomed to a life of being single. GRRRR.

I am in the process of dieting, but I wish I knew there was someone out there that liked me for me, before I lost the weight.

I'm attractive, I have a cute face, big boobs, amazing eyes.

What's wrong with me? Are there any decent guys left out there today?

2007-02-06 14:53:40 · 1 answers · asked by xcrystal0587x 1

It was really shocking to find that my wife whom i loved so much is having an almost 2 yr affair with another man who is a close friend of ours. I did tell her that i had found this out . She admits that she has had sex with him. also that he was a really good friend of hers. She told me she will not continue this relationship. But i just cannot get the tension out of my head. What should i do. How should i be with this friend . Pls help me.

2007-02-06 14:49:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy whom work at my gym and he just smiles.. and I worked out with him this weekend..and the whole timeI he just kept smiling non -stop.. he just couldn't stop smiling/blushing while he would talked to me,, and I asked him why was he smiling/laughing so much..he told me was beacause of the faces I make they're so cute... so we continued on..and my phone started ringing, and it was by him, and instead of just handing it too me, he actually picked up the phone, and looked at the caller screen to see who was calling before he handed it too me..luckily it was my mom...but then he asks me, does my friend work out at the gym, I said no,so he said the next time he works out he'll call me.. so we could work out together.... so do you think he that into me..even though he hasn't asked me out yet.. and the cell phone thing...what is that all about

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plus when we said bye..I shook his hand, and he was blushing/ smiling..I thought to myself wow..

2007-02-06 14:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been sexually active for about 7 or 8 months with my boyfriend and he's never had his own room. therefore its hard to find times when we can have sex in private,or have to be very quiet, and i always have the fear of someone walking in or catching us. Now my preceptions of sex are really not good because i'm not comforable and my boyfriend wants to know why i "dont want to be intimate with him" any suggestions?!!?!?

2007-02-06 14:38:58 · 33 answers · asked by christinag1310 2

How Young should you be when married? is there such thing as too Young? How young should you be to have your first child in a married relationship? What's a good age to have a child? how long should you discuss this before having a child? what's your opinion. i wanna know what the world thinks of these questions. what are your answers to some of them. do you have an answer for any of them. please fill me in on what you beleive.

2007-02-06 14:35:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-06 14:30:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 26 and my gf just left me for the second time in our 8 year relationship to be alone and maybe travel. she reckons she is not ready to give me what i want and settle down. She doesnt want anyone else and i believe that. I am moving on and doing my own thing now but because of our great history and the fun we had i maybe hold a glympse of hope that she may want me back. When we split i told her not to contact me or call etc, we have a house and bank accounts together so there is some sorting out to do but i dont like the way i left things. A part of me wants to write a letter and clear up the no contact thing incase she decides to work on things again. The catch is i feel as though i took control of the situation by saying no contact and i dont want her to think i am waiting around just waiting for her, i want her to know my intentions are to move on. So should i just leave things and trust that if she wants to sought things out she will call me or should i write a patch up letter?

2007-02-06 14:30:32 · 1 answers · asked by whitey 2

Also if a guy is a stay at home dad he's a lazy loser, but if a woman does it she's just a wife

2007-02-06 14:30:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep on reading and hearing that. What does it mean? And why is the phrase like that? Is it slang?

2007-02-06 14:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by loveithateit 3