what to do if the mother inlaw and sis-inlaws r jealous psychos, they tell my husband false things about me she wants me out of her house. we live with his folks cuz of stupid desi tradition, his sisters got married and have their men alone at home but with their brother they remember traditions, they all lie on me and act it out and the way they do it even my own mom/family started to believe them, they cry with vains popping out eyes all blood red the holy books in hand lol what is going on man!! i end up looking like the liar, my MIL went told everyone i beat her down and bit her. im not a dog and never have i bitten anyone in my life to go bite that fat hog. does anyone know anywayz i can get my guy to believe me and stick up for me. he doesnt stick up for me im guessing hes either afraid of his mom or shes got some psycho issues where he knows shes going to go (fakely) say shes going to die and kill herself...i duno the real facts we can only guess what do u guess?
2007-02-06 16:38:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like your MIL is a serious control freak, and she has control of everyone except for you....you need to distance yourself, tell your husband to grow up and act like a bloody man already and get a place for his OWN family, because you are his family first now, otherwise get the hell out and find a guy who comes from a stable environment, not the mental hospital...
2007-02-06 16:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a terrible mess. The MIL is obviously manipulative and very good at it. The only way for you to get out of this situation is going to be to tell your husband that you refuse to be treated the way you've been treated by his family. You have to leave to take care of yourself. He can stay or come with you, but you won't live like that any more!
He may choose to stay, and you'll have to find the strength to go. If he loves you, he will (eventually) see that you are right to take care of yourself. He may choose to side with his family, but in the interest of your own wellfare, you have to take this step!
Better to be healthy and happy then miserable with this man.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 17:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is, accept the damn mugs, and start putting some away in a box to donate and put the new ones in the cupboard. She thinks she's giving great gifts, so let her think it. Say Thank you and leave it at that. I can give you my mother inlaw for a while and you'll be happy to get yours back.
2016-05-24 02:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that house ASAP! Have a talk with your husband and let him know how you feel. The two of you need your own place. If he cannot leave his mother, then unfortunately, you have to leave the house. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-14 02:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out -- Does your husband know how you feel?
Find your own place fast - you guys need to be alone - marriage is hard enough on your own and you really need that alone time.
Start the year off right and get your own place.
Good luck!
2007-02-07 03:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity breed contempt.... just move from that place along with your hubby if he is supportive and see that in few days everything will become normal. However if your hubby does not support you the only alternative you have is to split.... sorry to be blunt
2007-02-06 19:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sudden 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, when a husband cant stand up and protect his wife, there is something weong with this.. so if she has psycho problems, let her do whatever she wants to do to her crazy self, she is being manipulative of the whole damn family..how long you been married anyway??
2007-02-14 02:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why people go for live in before they get married
in marriage you should not have EXCESS Baggage
2007-02-06 21:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i;m surprice your still living with them, just be nice to your husband and tell her him it not true when your in bed with him it help alot
2007-02-07 01:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must report to ladies police chowky .
and make counseelling there.
2007-02-10 02:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋