im 26 and my gf just left me for the second time in our 8 year relationship to be alone and maybe travel. she reckons she is not ready to give me what i want and settle down. She doesnt want anyone else and i believe that. I am moving on and doing my own thing now but because of our great history and the fun we had i maybe hold a glympse of hope that she may want me back. When we split i told her not to contact me or call etc, we have a house and bank accounts together so there is some sorting out to do but i dont like the way i left things. A part of me wants to write a letter and clear up the no contact thing incase she decides to work on things again. The catch is i feel as though i took control of the situation by saying no contact and i dont want her to think i am waiting around just waiting for her, i want her to know my intentions are to move on. So should i just leave things and trust that if she wants to sought things out she will call me or should i write a patch up letter?
2007-02-06 14:30:32 · 1 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you must think that if you were left twice already in this relationship and she wants to maybe travel and be alone then by all means get your finances back in your own pocket and either buy or sell the house and give her her half but you would be wise to let it go and move on, or would you rather get married and every few years get told I don't feel like I have lived any and then leave again be smart and do as you said move on
2007-02-06 16:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋