Other - Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

jerk who offended her,but i walked away when she gave me a smile because i didn't trust her(alaways felt she was after something because we had prob lems that i started).Was me being more polite and respectful a reason she wanted to get to know me better?Or was it all an act on her part to get something out of me?

2007-01-19 17:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by pat t 1

Im only 14, but i know i found the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with, and she sed the same thing to me. we talk alll the time, we hang out sometimes, not much because of my parents, thats why i asked about foster parents, because i was hoping that i could apply for foster parents that live in the same place as me, and hopefully wont be as strict. My parnets get mad at me if im a feww minutes late home.So do ur parents have to abuse u in someway if i wanted to call in for fosterparents? because its just they dont understand me, and sometimes they yell at me b4 i can even explain what happened. Any suggestioons on what to do, i try talking to them, but they just say im to young to find my soulmate, but i dont belive that, because i know i did, even for being 14, no one can change the way i feel about her. What can i do? what should i do? please i really need help, can someone give me an answer, a good one to, this is really important....

2007-01-19 17:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by what ever you want it to be 1

2007-01-19 17:00:52 · 12 answers · asked by Vankatesh G 1

WTF DO I DO.
I am assuming i am going to.
its so hard to just say no to him, whether its drinking, smoking, or whatever. Truth is, i am tied to his finger. And this has happened to my cousin and her b/f. Or ex..
I like him so much.
what do i do.

2007-01-19 16:52:20 · 13 answers · asked by i love addasyn smith 1

they cover it up with religion or by using another language but any one that freely admits to having no problem with sex with a 9 year old is a paedophile.

2007-01-19 16:50:27 · 7 answers · asked by BUSHIDO 7

My grandmother lived a good life, she was 103 when she died. She died this morn and my family tells me their will be no funeral service or memorial for her. How should I respectfully grieve for her since there will be no memoiral

2007-01-19 16:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by 'lil peanut 6

how do i help her? his my cousin so i dont want to tell the cops and i know talking to him wont work at all!

2007-01-19 16:44:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a crush on this guy at school how do i find out how old he is without asking my friends? (i like older guys by 1-2 years)

2007-01-19 16:42:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 24 year old and my dad's drunk on the night after work. He's been asking questions about me & my boyfriend,"when your boyfriend's going visit me & your mom here, come ask him to come & drink with me?" I was telling him that my bf have 2 jobs & is going to school for the english, (he's Mexican & learning english). My dad doesn't even know him & met him yet. They've talked on the phone when I was in the hospital on Jan. 17th. told my dad that my bf was trying to reach me to my cell & i didn't answer, told my dad that he wanted to visit me in the hospital but dont know where! my bf wanted to know I'm ok, he told supervisors where is the hospital, but dont know.he's been there for me,even not in person,but calling me i'm ok! My dad said 'tell him bulls**t!' & maybe he don't love u! I told him he does,but I kept telling my dad to give my bf time & patience! he needs to know my bf have 2 jobs & need his education.he told me get another boyfriend.my dad wasnt like this not drunk.

2007-01-19 16:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are in college. We've been together for almost a year and talk about marriage all the time.

He talked to the military recruiter today (he told me he would yesterday).. and he said that he now may go into it. He'll be able to get any kind of job and they'll pay for school. He would be gone for the whole summer.. and next summer. It's like he poured all this to me at once. We would've had a heartfelt talk... but my brother and his friend were there. So I couldn't say anything. He said he's gonna talk to his dad. He used to be in the military. Basically, my boyfriend is thinking about joining just to pay for college.

My heart is breaking. I'm about to cry. I don't think it really hit me yet... I won't be seeing him on weekends and summers anymore. I don't know. And the whole thing about a chance of him dying? My God... I couldn't handle that.

Someone please help me feel better. What is it like in the military? And what is it like for their significant others?

2007-01-19 16:32:21 · 6 answers · asked by Rita 3

would you expect different issues in this relationship

2007-01-19 16:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by kuytfkhtdt 1

well, not totally "love-love"
its more of a high school love,
and he was going to turn 17 next month,
but he is a ginuine ,really sweet, nice type of guy

2007-01-19 16:17:22 · 27 answers · asked by nina 1

IT is questionable what an older man really thinks in his head. what does someone older ,older then 40 subtley flirts (which is kinda refreshing to feel) but might like act like good friends one day and the next a complete stranger. but in the same day as the complete stranger as an example, put out his foot while walking past him and /or him picking on me and walking away.. and never talking to me again till a day later. someone who is on/off?

2007-01-19 16:13:45 · 2 answers · asked by j 2

my exgirlfriend is 19 and recently started university and I am 36 work full time.
On 3rd January she split with me.
Over the 2 years we had a very good relationship.
I pretty much accused her of having an affair with a friend of ours in July.
In December she rang me to say she was worried that she had a hepatitus and whilst on the phone her voice started to quiver (worried she was going to die), the best I could say is 'I hope its not an excuse not to see my mum and dad'. She said this was the last straw.
Since weve split up, she stopped saying she loves me and stopped having sex, weve stopped sleeping together as she says that i see it as romantic and she sees it as friends (although a few days ago she slept with me in her lingerie).
She says she is determined to fall out of love with me because being in love with me hurts.
We text each other every day and on very good terms.
I am starting counciling (which she knows) because I have suffered from lack of trust for years.

2007-01-19 16:03:36 · 17 answers · asked by John 1

Or is that just me. oh and i dont mean by strangers.

2007-01-19 16:00:29 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl in my class she is so annoying she sits right near me in class and is always looking at my paper and cheating and not lsitening to the teacher... it seems like i tell her EVERYTHING thats going on in class and its annoying the living crap out of me!!!! OMG someone please help me tell her to LEAVE ME ALONE! GOD!!! DO NOT TELL ME TO TELL THE TEACHER or everyone will hate me....any ideas? ill take ANYTHING!!! THATS HOW DESPERATE I AM

2007-01-19 15:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Stacey M 1

I am a young black male that’s currently attending my first year of college. I am driven to succeed and respectful to all women. I have my own business and far from the stereotypical black male that black women claim to hate. Yet, day after day I hear things that black men are sorry and always cheat. I have yet to cheat on any of the girlfriends I have been with and never plan on doing so. I don’t believe in cheating because I would hate for it to happen to me. But, most of the black women I hear base their judgment off of some looser guy that they been with and now call all Black Men sorry. I for one am tired of hearing this and shocked to see that so many black women treat us like dogs. They complain so much about it that if the right black man would approach them they would have their pride shoved so far up their asses that they wouldn’t realize it. I admit that a lot of men do cheat, but remember that everything men do, women do. Maybe not as much, but ya’ll do.

Has this world brainwashed the black community to think that the only black women out there are video girls and single moms with dead beat black men? I am tired of the jokes about black men are sorry. I’m tired of the men treating girls like a sexual game. I’m sick of seeing black men being sorry, and im tired of the black women falling for the wrong guy. It’s making me sick that the black community has come to this.

Even shows such as Girlfriends shows exactly how a lot of the black women think. Even songs on the radio have so many black girls feeling like they need to have a man on the side just incase the other one doesn’t do right. (BEYONCE). What ever happened to both sides treating each other with respect and dignity?

What do you think Black Men and Black Women? What happened to us?

2007-01-19 15:32:20 · 23 answers · asked by T.Cool 2

I mean I don’t/cant remember my dreams especially the ones that involve him. why is that? I don’t get it. and sometimes I think of him like now and I don’t understand why if I don't like him. at lest I think so.

2007-01-19 15:20:37 · 4 answers · asked by Female 4

2007-01-19 15:12:03 · 7 answers · asked by Katie 2

I have a male friend who always makes it a point to go into great detail when discribing old girlfriends telling me how big their breast were ,or their butts I am not a man so i don't see the point in him telling me how "sexy" other women are.

2007-01-19 14:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by Marielynn 1

my boyfriend cheated on me and im not sure what to do, I'm still wiht him. We were always good together and i love him so much. I don't know if i can trust him again and he said he's wiling to not go out anymore, but i know that eventually he will want to. I know its wrong that he did it... and kept it from me, but i dont know, some advice please?

2007-01-19 14:47:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

in high school, i knew of 2-3 guys that had pretty weird "relationships" with their sisters, and 1 that had a "relationship" with his mother! it is more common than people want to believe, most wont ever admit it, but how many out there have screwed a close family member? just once, or is it ongoing to this day? who initiated it the first time?

2007-01-19 14:46:03 · 16 answers · asked by berkly m 2

My boyfriend lives in ny like me, but he is originally from the mid-west. He has always said he wanted to return to his home state but he has been saying it for years and I didn't think he would ever follow through. He is seriously considering it now. I love him so much, and I would move away with him but I have two problems. One is cultural - my family is from Haiti, and it is preferable for Haitian families to generally stay close together to provide a support system for eachother which I do have now and couldn't imagine living without. The other is professional. I am an undergraduate preparing for a career in medicine. I am only almost done with undergrad and I might have to do some course work after I graduate before entering medical school(depending if I get accepted of not).I go to one of the best universities in the US for science (Stony Brook, birth place of the MRI machine) and I do not want to give up the oppurtunity to continue in the school if I have the oppurtunity. HELP!!

2007-01-19 14:44:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jess 2

About a year and a half ago, at the end of my sophmore year in high school I went through a little identity crisis. I was convinced I was an Ahole and everyone hated me and convinced myself I needed to be really quiet and shy and not talk to people. I did that for most of the next year but at the end I was like, "this is stupid" and decided that at the beginning of the next year I would try to make friends. I was given a better opportunity than I could have ever hoped for because I was invited to work on a group project that I really liked and they really said they liked and trusted and respected me, even though I was really only an acquaintance. I feel like maybe they were being inviting or at least giving me an opening but I was so shy and couldn't do it, and I think they're frustrated with how shy I am and don't really try any more. since then I've been depressed and very withdrawn, basically giving up for a while. Given that its my senior year, I would love to spend some time with them before its over but at the same time, i don't know if its arrogant, after all the years and all the opportunities. Can I fix this, if so how?

2007-01-19 14:41:17 · 1 answers · asked by leena 4

Is it a weird fetish or is it normal for women to like it?

2007-01-19 14:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by Lily P 3

2007-01-19 14:22:11 · 4 answers · asked by Cakebread 4

Well there is this 6th grader at my school she is a bit of a social climber she sucked up to all the 8th graders really early and got popular already in 6th grade. My friends hate her becuase she just so happened to try and use them as planks on her social ladder they did'nt go fot it an they hate her now. I gave her a chance and she is a 6th grader and everytime i said hi she would ask what is your name again? I ended up disliking her too. I find her a mini version of the 8th grade whores but way more annoying becuase she buys crap from hot hot topic. I reallu don't like her now that i know she is a slut and a poser. She spread a rumor about my good friend that is in the 6th grade with her. The rumor was that my friend had a crush on her. I just think she needs to be put in her place. She constantly annoys me with her squeaky high pitched voice. I want her to be put in her place but i dont want to be mean to her cos that would put me down to her level which to me is very low. Help???

2007-01-19 14:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

i know this sounds weird but is there a proper way you should hug a guy? Like should it be around the neck, waist, shoulders, back? Is there a right or wrong way? Please serious answers only.

2007-01-19 14:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

today i go to my highschool thinkin everything was cool! then i hear some girl tellin my bf why does he like me i look lyke a short monkey and etc! but i dont even know her! im like we are in high school (the 10th grade) Grow up! but this comment really ticked me off! i heard that my bf just smiled and was like i dont kno what you are seein because i see beautiful person! and he walked away! im so mad at this girl and i dont even know her! what should i do? im not that type of person who ignores things! and i dont believe its jelousy!

2007-01-19 14:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

This guy I know had given me one tutoring session, and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered me a follow up free sessions, he said he has that diecreation who he wants to give one too, so he seen me, and told me to call hm for the free follow up session, but I never did so he txt messaged me at night at 12:00 midnight asking me if I wanted to come in too see in for the tutoring session on tueday at 9 and I told him i let him know. but then he called me a few days later, out of the clear blue, but didn't leave a message, And I'm thinking didn't he tell me to let him know when I was available so why is he calling me?Can Anyone tell me what the deal is?Am I not communicating myself clearly enough?

2007-01-19 13:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous