WTF DO I DO.
I am assuming i am going to.
its so hard to just say no to him, whether its drinking, smoking, or whatever. Truth is, i am tied to his finger. And this has happened to my cousin and her b/f. Or ex..
I like him so much.
what do i do.
2007-01-19 16:52:20 · 13 answers · asked by i love addasyn smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should think more highly of yourself than this. If he wants you to participate in the usage of a hard drug, just tell him no thank you. If he cared about you, or were worth a crap, he wouldn't want to expose you to such a dangerous activity. Only you can make this decision, but please, if you value your health and sanity say no. If he likes you, he won't care either way. If you care to know, I knew a girl in high-school who was extremely beautiful and promising, but she hooked up with a drug user and after becomming pregnant, he dumped her. This was years ago, but the behavior is the same. Never lower yourself to be with a person. If he is rude, then you know you can do much better. Whether you can help him or not is an uncertainty, but you might want to try. But either way, stay away from drugs, especially hard ones.
2007-01-20 22:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from him and anyone who does that kind of stuff cause you'll just get sucked in to doing it because you feel like you aren't having any fun if you are the only completely sober person when he's doing it and probably everyone he's hanging out with is doing it. PLEASE don't do it. I had this same situation a little over a year ago and I had to stay away from that ex and all the friends I had when he and I were together and my life is SO much better now. You can do it! Be strong, I know its hard.
2007-01-20 01:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be sooo naive about this...no he doesn't have you tied around his finger...your don't love yourself enough not to make a big and terrible decision. This is your life...obviously he doesn't care about his and now he wants you not to care about yours. Wake-up get counseling/pray/talk to close relative or friend about this I'm sure they'll confirm what I'm saying to you. But guess what...I think you already know the right way but are you strong and determine enough to do the right thing for yourself.
2007-01-20 05:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't being your EX give you some kind of clue to your question?
What is it about him that makes you want to be tied to his finger? Is it his IQ or is it that he Loves and Respects you soooooo much?
You need to start saying no to him and Good-by! And go meet more intellegent people who will treat you with respect. You have a BIG heart and this EX is taking advantage of that!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 01:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Oregon_Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have posted a fictional question.
And if you haven't, then you probably know the answer anyway.
And if you don't, then all I say is : Let him remain your ex. You don't have to do cocaine, or anything else for that matter, with him.
2007-01-20 19:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COCAINE?!?!?!?!?!?!? Are you f*cking kidding me?? You can like him all you want and be submissive in other ways, but something as self-destructive as cocaine should be completely out of the question. Just tell him, "I don't do coke anymore." Its as simple as that. Ask him to respect your wishes. Anyway get the hell away from him, do not hang with coke heads.
2007-01-20 01:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reach down inside yourself and find the strenght and courage to say no to him. We all possess the will power to overcome obstacles that confront us in our everyday lives. This guy is a bad seed, you need to remove him from your life. Stop letting yourself be manipulated by him.
2007-01-20 01:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please grow a spine, and say no. This man does NOT care about you or your future. If he did, he wouldn't be offering you something as dangerous as cocaine. Move on, before he gets you hooked on this drug, and turns you out onto the street as a prostitute for him.
2007-01-20 00:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by C. J. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ONE TIME is all it took for my brother-n-law ONE TIME and he was addicted to a point he lost my sister his kids home job ect... his whole life...... what good is your feelings towards this guy if you cant be with him cause of death, jail, rehab, mentaly uncapable, ect.....dont be stupid.........just say no
2007-01-20 02:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by sassy4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no and find a good man { lots of them out there] WHY DO YOU WANT A LOSER. gETWITH YOUR LIFE WITH A BETTER GUY.
2007-01-20 01:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋