Other - Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

2007-01-19 00:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Good news before the bad I suppose:
My fiance is a wonderful man, an amazing provider, and has not only found room in his heart for me but for my children as well. He's also tremendously supportive of me returning to school (even though he jokes about me being his retirement plan....lol).
However, he has one major flaw that makes me wicked mad, he never, ever, ever cleans up after himself. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate it when he cooks dinner (he is so much better at cooking than I am) after he's been working most of the day but he just doesn't know how to clean up after himself. Last night he made spaghetti with ground meat and left a greasy, saucy mess for me to clean up. It wouldn't bother me but until I get a chance to clean it up (I'm usually busy helping the kids with their school work) it's dried on and takes forever to clean up.
I have to admit, it really doesn't make me wicked mad but I sure as hell find it annoying.
What's your opinion?

2007-01-19 00:08:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She found out I had an illness that could lead to prostate cancer when she found some things in my bag. When she questioned me about it I was hesitant but upfront and told her after the fact. I even gave her a LEGIT doctors note stating my condition b/c trust has been a problem in the past. It's nothing that can hurt her but it is harder for me to have children (which I was embarrassed about b/c that is something I really want with her) She understands why I didn't tell my family but not her when we are supposed to tell each other EVERYTHING. I feel bad that we broke up and miss her. She says she wants to work on our friendship some more and see what happens from there because we're still not READY for a relationship. Did I deserve to get dumped or is she overreacting?

2007-01-19 00:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by so_sincere 2