My grandmother lived a good life, she was 103 when she died. She died this morn and my family tells me their will be no funeral service or memorial for her. How should I respectfully grieve for her since there will be no memoiral
2007-01-19 16:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by 'lil peanut 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please accept my condolences in the loss of your grandmother. What a legacy to have lived for 103 years.
You can do what I did when a family died while I was not in the country. I set aside some time alone to use as my time with that person's memory. I quietly sat in my bedroom and used that time to think about all the wonderful times we had together, the funny times and family gatherings we had. There's no need to weep and cry as your grandmother had a wonderful life and will surely be missed. However, it is my belief that she is now in a better place. Your best memorial to her would be to remember all the great times you spent with her and to keep her tucked in your heart for the rest of your life.
2007-01-19 17:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by BoilBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman lives 103 years and no memorial. I hope that there's a good reason for it. Request that your immediate family has a memorial for her, like at your home. You yourself can burn a candle in her honor and tell her how much she meant to you and all that stuff, and goodbye.
2007-01-20 00:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with your family? She needs to be respected and i think she must have had some money and the family is tooo greedy to even bury her. my goodness that just doesn't sit well with me. u all need to pray for forgiveness for that act, cause the Good Lord will be Frowning down on that one If I were u and i don't know how old you are you need to do something about that!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 00:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by shabo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can grieve for her in your private moments when you are alone. If you mean about trying to do something "meaningful", you could make a donation to a worthy cause in her name, or plant a tree in her honor.
2007-01-20 00:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Autumn R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your grandmother.
Maybe you can go somewhere quiet, like the beach, mountains, the park and sit there and think about the moments you guys had and thank life for all those moments shared
2007-01-20 00:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Remember, she is in a better place. If you believe in God, pray to him, pray to your grandmother, they will hear
you. She is one of your Angels, she'll be watching over you.
2007-01-20 00:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by nikkib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋