Other - Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I have had quite a few problems with drinking in the past and sometimes tend to get a bit drunker than others if I go to a party or dinner etc and sometimes get quite loud, abusive and forget things the next day as well as sufffer terrible hangovers that last for 2 days sometimes. I am 35. I always want to go out and dance or have more drinks and my partner says I drink too much. I have been to aa and they say it's best to never drink again ever. Is this the only way of combatting a drink problem. do I really have to give up forever am I normal ?

2007-01-09 06:36:17 · 24 answers · asked by deltanova 1

I love my boyfriend. I have been with him for going on three years now. I know without a doubt that he loves me. But I don't know if I trust him....this is why.

Everyone we know is telling me he has been cheating on me. He denies it obviously. But no one can give me facts, all they say is things they have heard...and we all know how rumors get larger.

I have always been a very good judge of character and have a hard time believing he could be this horrible.
But how do you make this gut ripping doubt stop?

I don't want to
A) break up with him and years later find out that they were all wrong and he has been telling me the truth. Ending the best relationship I have ever heard of.
B) stay with him and years later find out the hard way by catching him myself. Wasting years of my life.

Both options would kill me.

What do I do?
How do I figure out which is the greater risk?

2007-01-09 06:33:14 · 10 answers · asked by aslongasitrocks 5

2007-01-09 06:22:02 · 2 answers · asked by geordiesteph 1

My radio in my car wont work because I need a code I can't get, I just got a bunch of returns so I will be poor this week(sales), and someone I loved lied to me when they know I hate liars. So what do you do when you had a bad day to fix it?

2007-01-09 06:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006 was horrible for me, for numerous reasons. I tried to deal with some of it by going into rehab. It worked, for a while. But I stopped the counseling and their meds. I find myself beginning to brood again, to go into my dark places. I have driven past the old haunts, but have not gone in. Yet.

2007-01-09 06:18:17 · 22 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5

ONE OF THE QUALITIES AND SKILLS OF A SOCIAL WORKER IS MATURED, FRIENDLY, RELIABLE, PATIENT, HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOUR AND INDEPENDENT WORKER. WHY SPECIFIC SKILLS & QUALITIES ARE NEEDED IN THIS JOB?

2007-01-09 06:04:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

were the type to want it all the time, would you view her as too freaky? What are your thoughts?

2007-01-09 06:04:22 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6

I feel like I am falling out of love with my boyfriend. He's great and I dont know why my mind would do such a thing...Is there any way to stop myself and how?

I told him about it and he said that my affections havent changed so he doesnt think i am but i am so scared....I want to love him forever...How does it feel to fall out of love?

2007-01-09 06:04:00 · 2 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

I am going to make a new website, for my resturant and turkish bath! What do you think the best name would be for it? knowing that the resturant and turkish bath name is "Tadmor"...

2007-01-09 05:51:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It gets ugly alot at our house
I'm nearly ill over it.
Anyone else who's had this problem, or overcome it in themselves please help.

2007-01-09 05:50:26 · 23 answers · asked by muckinfuppet 1

2007-01-09 05:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by Humpy 3

my friend wants to kick out this girl that spost to be watching her but she dont. shes always working or up and in her room. and shes spost to be watching the dog too. and when ever she lets the dog out the dog runs away. and she never lets the dog in. and she never lets her have her friends over. and her dad wants her gone too. so i was wondering what was the legal age to live at in NH. thankx

the gurl that wants to live by herself is 16 and her dad takes care of her and the rent and everything else. he talks to her everyday either through e-mail or he calls. and he comes home like every 3 weeks. hes a marine boat captain. or somthing like that. and he travels alot.

2007-01-09 05:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i make myself feel more confident in the way i look and also talking to new people.

2007-01-09 05:31:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 05:27:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 05:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by Pooh 1

and what did you do for them?

2007-01-09 05:19:49 · 23 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

I am trying to locate a Thelma (Jeannie) Santos that was my step-dad's housekeeper in 1999 until 2002. She bought a house in the Valley somewhere. Her son is a sherriff in the Valley somewhere. If I can find the son, then I can find the housekeeper. How would I do this? Her last address was in Premont with my step-dad.

2007-01-09 05:13:24 · 1 answers · asked by J.J. 1

This question is for mostly spiritual minded people. I am still
in search for my long lost friend, who is dear to me. We parted
ways back in 2005. I have not seen her since. But I get the feeling
she is in dire need of some stabilty in her shaky life. She is
such a sweet girl, but naive at times. I remember her being
kind to me, especially. She would always greet me with a hug,
and sometimes a kiss. There was a lot of tenderness
between the both of us. Right now, I get the impression, she is
moving and going out of control. A bit of sadness is there, in
her aura. Last I heard, she is working at a bar. And perhaps in'
a lacking relationship, inadequate for her taste. But I am here
waiting for her, but cannot find my love. AM I getting near ?
She is a curly blonde, athletic build, tan, medium pitched voice,
and a heart of gold. Can anyone give me some insight on this
situation ?

2007-01-09 05:09:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fancy my best friend's dad and his married, It all started as a joke and really didnt think why I was always talking about him and acting differently around him then normal. (Abit flirty at times).
Now I'm beginning to think maybe I have a obsession on him as his aways on my mind and I always seem abit disappointed if I havnt seen him for a while. I know I can never have him even if I feel his the right guy. All I can say is his wife is really lucky.
Yet I feel I dont understand why people make a big fuss of me fancing a older guy, just because his know as my best friend dad!!

2007-01-09 05:08:49 · 8 answers · asked by aimz0608 1

dose this mean im gay, i dont like men i love females, do any girls think this is sexy or do females think its a turn off.

2007-01-09 05:06:00 · 24 answers · asked by sexyxxxxx 2

hi . I lost a bet to a girl from my school and now she gets to choose my punishment. She wants me to go online and ask random people what they think she should do to me. She wants me to tell you that she wants to do the most disgusting nasty thing possible to me because I am a pathetic loser according to her, so what is your opinion?

For reference, the bet i lost was a wrestling match even tho i cheated by punching her boob and giving her a swirlie!

2007-01-09 05:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years (broken up once). The first time around he was the "lovey dovey" one, but it seems like after that short break up I've become the "soft, lovey" one. He means the world to me. We have talked about getting married and having kids...we've even picked out names. I've never met anyone more perfect for me. We were so happy together.

Here lately, though, he seems distant. If we're fighting and I ask a simple question he answers "I don't know." Once I even asked him do you love me and he said "I don't know." He has hurt me many times by saying things like that. I would jump in front of a bullet for him and I don't feel like he would do the same for me. I text him all day long and he won't text me back. He never wants to hang out with me, even on his days off. It seems like he'll make time for everyone but me, although every now and then he'll ask me over to watch a movie. The story gets more complex but these are the highlights. Help!?

2007-01-09 04:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by yellowcard0o9 1

is kurdish,and his family ask im 2 go back there so he can helped them because they'r getting old,he loves me 2,hes in pain as well,but he doesnt have a choice.he deceide 2 finish with me now,he say's its esyer.but i wont 2 be with him untill the last min.hes been ignoring me like im nothing and thts making me sick

2007-01-09 04:46:53 · 19 answers · asked by tuguinha79 1

How do you rebuild a relationship after three years when the two people say they want to work it out but each person is waiting for the other to change first. We are both looking for that pat on the back when we do something the other wanted and we still argue or try to make a point everytime we talk about any subject. I am trying to make the first move but it is hard being the woman, cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids, working and wanting some attention and feeling rejected. I am confused.

2007-01-09 04:39:14 · 3 answers · asked by Marcella D 2

everything was fine he goes through these cycles every 3-4 months where he says the relationship is going nowhere, he doesn't see a future with us, he never wants to get married to me or anyone else. i call and call and act like nothing in a week or so we are back together happy..then out of the blue no warning it happens again. he will say he wants to be friends and even go forward with opening a business together we have 4 animals betweens us..he didnt call me all day yesterday im going crazy..he said the migraines he gets is from the stress of the relationship..yet other than these episodes we laugh and joke and enjoy eaachothers company he says im am his best friend..his mother says to ignore it and when we do talk to not bring things up..that it will pass..please HELP..what do i do?

2007-01-09 04:28:44 · 11 answers · asked by jaded7154579 1

I have many young female friends who seemingly have no love or respect for themselves or their bodies. Many of them have children and have had several abortions. They jump from man to man and bed to bed in search of desperately finding someone to love them. Many of my friends that I am describing grew up in homes without a dad. I was just wondering if growing up in a home without a father causes a woman to act like this. I grew up in a home with a father and have never been pregnant and do not go around looking for a man to love me so that I can feel complete. What is your opinion on this subject?

2007-01-09 04:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2

what has been the most memorable moment in your life???

2007-01-09 04:24:17 · 19 answers · asked by lalala 4

My fiance this last weekend went out with his best friends. One of them kept pushing him to do it. His best friend of like 20 years went out and bought the stuff and I guess put it in his face and he did it. I had an idea it happened but didn't want to believe it until he told me the truth. I was so upset! I yelled at him calling him stupid threw things at him and even hit him a couple times. The next morning when we woke up he acted like nothing happened. I was still upset about the whole thing. I talked with him and he promises he will never do it again cause he now knows how upset I can be over this. He kept saying he loves me and he wont do it again. He just said lets let it go and move on. Should I forgive him? Should I trust him? What should I think about all this?

2007-01-09 04:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by BlahBlahBlah 2

You love the person, but you still have thoughts of cheating. You don't want to break up but you don't know what to do because these are constant re-occuring thoughts that are coming through your head! You sometimes even dream of cheating too, what would you do, or as a matter of fact what should I do?

2007-01-09 04:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Shay 1

I trust him....I am attracted to him. I like it when he walks in the door after work (I have a smile on my face). We are very sexual with each other. I like cooking him dinners, lunches, cleaning the house. I just find that I have always been in drama filled relationships and I have felt nothing but jealousy and I think that tis may be the comfort stage of love, We have been together about 4 months. I can picture myself spending the rest of my life with him and I know that he will be a GREAT Dad.....Would you say it is love? I just find that small things irritate me.......But I dont want to live without him?!??!

2007-01-09 03:51:33 · 7 answers · asked by dawson190154 1