Other - Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I am 17 and when i was 15 or 16, i masturbated about my stepdad. He wasn't my stepdad yet but still ..they were engaged. I feel like i have to tell my mom because she is like more of a best friend than a mom and if you have a best friend she would most likely get mad at you for doing that about her boyfriend/husband. People keep telling me that i don't need to tell her. I know it is normal but i feel like i have to tell her and i don't know why. and ever since i have been obsessing over thinking i should tell her, i keep wondering if i would actually ever do something with him which i wouldn't but it's just thoughts since i am obsessing. What do i do? How do i get over it?
I just wonder, if i told her what her reaction would be ..mad or just akward how i feel ..i don't really know if i can picture her getting mad. We have a good relationship like best friends

2007-01-05 17:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley T 1

my friend give me a nickname calling me Juliz, when i call her we talk on the phone a long time btw she has a bf for 2 years what can i do ??? I have feeling for my friend :(

2007-01-05 17:38:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have been engaged for about 7 months. We've known each other for 3 yrs. And because I believed him to be my true love we had sex and I got pregnant. We have a baby girl, now two months old. I had wanted to be married before our baby was born, but he was not ready. I think it was because of financial reasons. When I bring up wedding plans he seems to not really want to talk about it. We had plans to marry this Summer, but I don't want to rush him if he is not ready. Though I don't feel I should give myself to him anymore until I'm sure he is truly commited and that is in marriage. Is this fair to him? Or do you think that it would be likely he would cheat if he had to go without it for 6 months? Thanks in advance for any feedback.

2007-01-05 17:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Only_1 1

2007-01-05 17:01:49 · 2 answers · asked by Pearl 1

I went out with this guy last week who pursued me even knowing I am in the process of divorcing my husband. We had talked before when I would see him around and on the phone and he seemed really interested in me. However, he has not called since our first date and did not return my call either. Now, I dont know how to act around him when I see him. He waves hello to me but it seems weird now because its not like we are just random "neighbors". It would be one thing if I would never see him again but I know I will since he lives only a few houses down. How should I act towards him?

2007-01-05 17:00:00 · 1 answers · asked by Kelly 2

I just want to know how you kiss. No questions just answers. Step by step details I dunno. I just want to know help me please!

2007-01-05 16:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by Cutie_Pie6464 2

Within the last two months or so, i've been feeling really confused about my relationship with my boyfriend of 5yrs. The reason for this confusion is that I'm crushing big time on one of his good friends. This friend tho was a past fling of mine from about 3yrs ago, long before he and my boyfriend were friends. The fling ended b/c I was still in love w/ my boyfriend, whom I was currently broken up w/ "at the time" b/c he was still confused about a previous girlfriend. I've been thru alot with my boyfriend, meaning he cheated on me a few times, he lied to me alot, he physically faught me, constantly put me down. But for about a year now he's been become more loving, and caring,basically just really settled down, almost obcessively. And now I feel my heart is ready to move on. I just dont love him anymore. I would love to have a chance w/ his friend, but he has a girlfriend, and ya, the friend thing. What can I do?

2007-01-05 16:49:16 · 3 answers · asked by lynn86 1

Men can u please stop it? Try to be in your wife's position.She does things for u wash,cook and cleaning.

2007-01-05 16:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by Zexyana 3

2007-01-05 16:47:02 · 18 answers · asked by lala 2

Am I wrong in asking my girlfriend to stay away from drugs? I only want her to be safe and I've had many friends go down that road, but she only thinks I'm trying to control her. Thanks in advance.

2007-01-05 16:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by Flobr 2

Love,Relationships

2007-01-05 16:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by akakeke_akakeke 1

We do everything a normal couple do... but we don't kiss is it wrong?

We've been hanging out together for a few weeks and known each other for 4 years.

The relationship is doing well, as we are talking about moving in together (meaning she will move to my country).

I love her so much but she is sometimes a bit cold toward me (very few hugs from her side mostly from my side and she doesn't kiss as well).

I understand its because it's how she was educated in her family but do you think she can change?

2007-01-05 16:32:24 · 14 answers · asked by theonoshi 2

I was very upset but saw the neighbors gf the next day and told her what happened. We decided to have sex also to get back at them. That was 100 meetings ago and we don't want to stop. Should I tell my wife or just keep having these lunchtime meetings and act like nothing is wrong. I have begun hiding money and assets so if we divorce she will have no idea about the $$$$. She is a who*e and deserves to be treated that way.

2007-01-05 16:28:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why would a grown man dump a woman for a teenager. who is too younger for him?

my boyfriend dumped me. for some 16 year old who looks 12.
everyone says shes os pretty. but i think she looks 12!!

look at her default pic on myspace.

here:

http://www.myspace.com/20522262

dont you think she looks like an ugly 12 year old? or am i missing something.?

**also she is Not really 19. she is lying on her profile! and he is much to old for her.**

2007-01-05 16:21:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step daughter, a recent college graduate, turned 21 in April last year, support stopped. Her mother is now suing my husband for over $2K for medical bills incurred between 1996-present. She submitted copies from medical bills, but upon reviewing them, she used her husbands insurance, not ours. We have never had any out of pocket expenses for our medical coverage, including my sons surgery. I am wondering how a judge would make him pay for it when she didn't even use his insurance. Had she used his, there would not have been any expenses. He is responsible for and required per the divorce decree to 1) Provided insurance, 2) pay 100% of medical. Would he legally be obligated to pay that because she failed to use the insurance that he had? Thanks!

2007-01-05 16:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by C. W 4

My wife who is 5'7" used to weigh 120 pounds. I saw her weight herself earlier today and she is up to 126 pounds. I don't want a woman that doesn't care about her looks and especially her health! DO I dump her or just come out and tell her she is fat and I give her 2 weeks to lose it? I am not going to let her just continue to gain more weight or we will have to have sex in the dark and I don't think I can do the job with someone so heavy and unattractive.

2007-01-05 16:15:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do not get this...why i love my mom so much.
i am away from my parents for two years in abroad to study.
and i feel very much for my mom than my dad.

i am not telling that i don't love my dad...but i have more love for my mom.

2007-01-05 16:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by X&Y 1

There is this guy at my school and I only know two things about him #1 his name and #2 he as a HUGE crush on me. All of his friends are telling me that he is going to ask me to the Valentines dance and I don't know what to say to him?! I don't want to go with him but he seems really nice. How do I tell him no without hurting his feelings??

2007-01-05 16:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by Blondie!! :) 2

Atleast their is an expectation before or after a person starts loving.If there is no expectation then it would be a sympathy love. It is only a give and take...

2007-01-05 16:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by kavya 1

Me and my friend were dating for 9 or 10 months, but just recently my supposed to be best friend broke us up by saying stuff that is not true.My friend is invited to my b-day party, but at the time I didn't know she was talking smack about me. How do I get her to not come to my party? Me and my ex, still like each other. Last time we talked we both started crying.We love each other more than anything, but I'm in no postion to get in the relationship.What do I do?Please Help!

2007-01-05 16:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by ArkansasMommy 2

I am sorry i made the thing up about the girl beging gay and stuff i just wanted to see what you all would say and i won't lie to you again i promise, but what i'm about to tell you is real to things.1.i am alittle gay[lesbian]but, i like boys to]and 2.i like this guy at school who sometimes doesn't know i adzizs, i really like him and all but, i really do like this girl to but, mostly the boy, but, i don't know what i should do!!i have mad feeling for the both of them, and are one of you a lesbian?i just want to know,can i talk to a lesbian too, i want advice from all of you but at least some from a lesbian, gotta go write me back, bye!!

2007-01-05 16:01:54 · 1 answers · asked by princess kira 1

I'm a gay man and there is this straigh guy at work who i think is real hot. Would it be wrong if i ask him out for drinks??? I won't do anything sexual with him, but i really want to get to know him. thanks

2007-01-05 16:00:25 · 6 answers · asked by momo 1

I am separated (for a while) but my husband and I officially decided to call it quits only a few months ago. I have never been into one night stands. But is it wrong for me to be on the prowl?

2007-01-05 15:41:17 · 10 answers · asked by Kelly 2

He lives in next room in flat with new GF who works as a flight attendant gone for 3-4 days then back for 3-4 days. I have asked her not to go to or call/email/ otherwise bother him for almost anything that comes up she persists saying I cannot imagine my life with out him. He does not care and told me she is now my responsibility and girl now and can care less if she contacts him she keeps mentioning him all the time and taking any remote chance to insist upon contact. I have said she must now choose between contacting him or being with me. Is this controlling? Does this make me a control freek? please respond soon.

2007-01-05 15:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by firewooddelivered 1

Okay I think my friend jus broke up with her boyfriend but i'm not completely sure. She listed herself as single on her Facebook page but she hasn't on her MySpace. Also she still has pics of him posted on both Facebook n' MySpace but she took all the pics of herself off. Also I should add that this was a long distance relationship. But she put as her Facebook status that she was "dead". What should I make of this and how do I cheer her up? I know she just wants to be alone because i went to see her 2day but she wouldn't open her door to talk to me. I also should add that I have actively been pursuing her since her "supposed boyfriend" lives hours away. We are great friends. We both like each other but we could never get any further than friends because she had a boyfriend already. I don't want her 2 feel as if I'm preying on her at her most vulnerable time. In any event, how do I let her know that im there 4 her in a friend, wanting to be boyfriend manner, without coming on 2 strong?

2007-01-05 15:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by malcom1000 2

As in start a relationship and stay together until one of them dies?

2007-01-05 15:14:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to feel very connected to other ppl and wanted to be involved socially, have friends and employment that required interpersonal relationships, until I came to terms with how I really felt about myself from the inside. Now...I just dont even want much to do with anyone anymore. Things dont seem to have much appeal that requre a great deal of group interaction. It seems Ive moved to a period of my life (gradually but not suddenly), where I seek protection from exposure instead of involvement. I cant even imagine myself doing, liking or even succeeding in things I once did. A person that used to be high energy, I've moved to a very slow pace, but seem to seek that. I used to even desire the requirement of being in front of others--and now I choose activities that allow me to hide. What over time, makes a person this way?

2007-01-05 15:06:45 · 3 answers · asked by josh_rittinger 2

Okay. I have a crush on this guy who is a year older than me. But he is my soon to be step brother's friends brother. What should I do. He is really cute.
Thanxs,
binkytheboo <3

2007-01-05 14:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my mom past away, what does my dad call her family (their not really that close) when he has a new girlfriend?
And my boyfriend too. He had a wife that died, what does he call her family. Its sorta wierd that he calls them in-laws still right?

2007-01-05 14:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by frankenstien 1

can someone help me please and tell me how can i tell my neighbor to get lost?
i have been rude to her , telling her i am busy , and leave her alone in the family room and go to chat on line or call someone on the phone.
telling her that my hubby does not like to have people over when he is home ! and still she is not getting the hell out . we stopped opening the door to her, and she keep calling me, i changed my cell phone number cuz of her .
i do not want to change the home as it is too much to call so many people and so many doctors and hospitals and you know the drill ,
but please help me how can i get rid of her?

2007-01-05 14:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous