What Should I Tell Him?!?

Question

There is this guy at my school and I only know two things about him #1 his name and #2 he as a HUGE crush on me. All of his friends are telling me that he is going to ask me to the Valentines dance and I don't know what to say to him?! I don't want to go with him but he seems really nice. How do I tell him no without hurting his feelings??

Answer 1

2 Ways...

If you aren't going;

Tell either his friends to tell him,or you tell him that you may have to babysit that night/or have other plans, and will not be able to go.

Or

If you plan on going;

Tell his friends to tell him,or you tell him that either...
1).Thanks for the offer,but you kinda feel awkward going to the Dance with someone you don't know.
2).Might already have plans to go with someone else.
3).Your going with a friend that has no date and you told her that you'd go alone with her.

Answer 2

Tell him that he is a really nice guy but you don't feel right found to the dance with him with out knowing him better so you would rather be friends.

Answer 3

well I would tell him the truth don't let him think he has a change in some kind of a relationship with you and you never know some day down the road you just might have seconds though and want to date this young man so if you don't make up some story and be up front with him he should respect you for that and except your answer.

Answer 4

Are you already going with someone?

If not? What is the big deal. Get over it and make the boys day.

Answer 5

His feelings will be hurt buy you just have decline anyway. "I don't think that's a good idea but thanks for asking," and walk away.

Answer 6

i am asking that just why cant u understand his feelins.first u clarify his love is true or not.then just accept him please.