We've been almost 4 years together, and we fight a lot because in a lot of situations it's like it's ok for him but not for me. I struggle for us to be equals and for my feelings to matter too. Everytime i feel sad about him being nasty to me, it ends up being my fault for nagging him with my sadness, and i'm not the kind that cries just for manipulation, i actually feel bad. I've been noticing that he doesn't really enjoy doing things with me, and that it's not important to him if he sees me or not, i tried to talk to him about it but he told me i was nagging him and that if i wanted him to love me i should earn it, and if i don't like the way he treats me that i should leave.I think he's acting the way his parents treat him, he's told me that he wants to have a 'team' thing going on in his house but that his parents don't cooperate, that he's not asking them to do what he says, but that he wants fairness. He seems to understand the concept but when i ask it of him, he refuses.
2007-01-01
08:54:59
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jade
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