2007-01-01 08:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
good question, however i do have to say that you should be able to find comfort in yourself and not just others. try and find things you truely enjoy doing and enjoy it. find comfort in the fact that you are here another day on earth. that you're healthy (if you are) find comfort in everyday little things, life is too short not too. i'm not saying that i'm the happist person ever, because believe me right now in my life, things are not easy. in fact this is the hardest time i've ever had in my life. but i find comfort in the fact that the lord and god are always there for me. look up joel osteen on the net. watch his sermons and you will come away feeling good about everyday things. you shouldn't be reliant on someone else to make you happy or comfortable. being around and with other people you enjoy is great, but when you're alone you have to make a conscious effort to be happy with yourself. at least that's what i do, well most of the time. like i said these past three months have been the hardest times i've ever lived.
2007-01-01 08:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by t t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because if something bad just happened to us, how can we find comfort in ourselves? Sometimes the reason bad things happen to us is our own fault. It's like being married. If your husand made you cry, then how can he comfort you when he's the one that caused your pain? There are just some people out there that know you (such as family members), and they know what to say when you're feeling down. Hope this answered your question.
2007-01-01 19:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes other people are our comfort zones, they understand what it is that we are going through and are a moral support to us, a shoulder for us to cry on in our time of need. It doesn't mean that we will never have comfort in ourselves, sometimes we need our comfort zones first.
2007-01-01 17:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes we need someone elses opinions,they make a lot of difference sometime..We sometime lose faith in our own thoughts and feelings and we need to be vendicated.A lot of people can be very comforting and it helps to encourage us...Sometimes just a little comforting from others is just what we need...its not that you don,t comfort yourself,you still can but sometime we just need a little push in the right direction,and sometimes we already know we just need someone to agree .
2007-01-01 16:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just me, but I do find comfort in myself....I've never betrayed me and I can still look in the mirror with pride every morning. I think that comes with age though.
2007-01-01 16:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are right.....we like to know that someone understands how we feel....I think that's ok....but at the end of the day, you need to be able to find comfort in yourself as well....really, the only person you can always count on is yourself.....good luck....
2007-01-01 16:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its because you cant fool the other people everyday .normal human beings needs a partner for comfort
2007-01-01 16:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't you know the saying no man is an island.
2007-01-01 22:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we weren't born perfect.
2007-01-01 16:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they lift us up when were down
2007-01-01 18:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋