Friends - January 2007

2007-01-29 11:45:58 · 25 answers · asked by smart brunette 2

Ever since my best friend started going out with this guy, she has not been answering my calls and ignoring me. A few Saturdays ago she invited me to go skating only to not be there at the last minute.
Her boyfriend abuses his sister and blames everyone around him for not having a job. My friend spends all of her money on him and constantly cancels plans she had with me.
I've been trying to ignore her and it's not gotten any better. Will this last forever or should I still have some hope? I've known her for 15 years. Thank you.

2007-01-29 11:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by MCRloveralltheWay 4

My friend is on my crew team and she was going to help out at our auction fundraiser. she didn't come because she was angry at her father for something he said (he was at the auction also) he came to me and asked me to call her to persuade her to come because he didn't think that she should miss out just because he made her angry.

so i called and said she didn't want to come because people didn't want her there and if they had, they would've called. now she's threatening to quit crew and now hates everyone there.

I think thats absolutely ridiculous and it seems she is just manipulating others to make herself feel good and she thinks she should be compensated to help out.

But the real question is, should people have called to ask her to come? When she's in a bad mood she is NOT fun to be around at all and that would've made the hectic evening even more stressful.

So I just want to know your opinions.

2007-01-29 11:36:40 · 15 answers · asked by Maureen 2

2007-01-29 11:33:33 · 1 answers · asked by Jerry 6

My daughter has a friend that is being abused. The girls brother talked her into haveing sex with him when she was eleven,he was 17. After he did that he killed his self. The girls dad gets drunk and hits her in the arm and has slaped her before. The girl is 14 now. The grandma gets mad and cusses her and pulls her hair. The girl is haveing sex and trying to sell drugs. I got this info from my daughter, My daughter is the opposite of this girl, she thinks that she herself is going to save her. What can i do for this girl that wont break my daughters trust in me and that wont make her friend hate her for telling someone. Im not trying to be my daughters friend i just want her to keep confideing in me. My first instinct his to tell my daughter to stay away from her and call defacs on the girls family. But i cant do that because i will push her away and make her hang around with this girl even more.

2007-01-29 11:21:29 · 9 answers · asked by saphire732003 2

I've been friends with the same people since high school, and have known some of them for over a decade. The problem? As the years went by, we all grew apart and now have nothing in common. It's excruciating for me to spend time with them because they always force me to do the things they're interested in while at the same time shooting down and even making fun of my own suggestions.
When we get together, nobody ever talks about anything interesting; they always get drunk and retell the same boring stories from when we were teenagers. I'm getting sick of going down "memory lane" everytime I'm with them.
I'm starting to make new friends with similar interests and maturity levels, and have no fear of leaving the old ones behind.
I've realized they aren't the greatest friends, but sometimes I still see them around town and have to make up excuses for why I never call or spend time with them anymore. How can I politely yet honestly break off ties with them?

2007-01-29 11:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took away her cellphone and all h*ll broke loose? She pulled a knife out on me. What should I have done?

2007-01-29 11:15:00 · 2 answers · asked by Star Q 1

This guy 34, I have been dealing with for going on 4 years still no commitment but says he isnt having sex with anybody else. We have gone thru definate ups and downs but still we see each other, mainly on weekends to spend "quality time" or however.Since he wouldnt commit I started getting tired of our "relationship not going anywhere" even after I expressed my feelings to him. Just when Im conditioning myself to leave 34 alone...here I meet 35; spiritual, attentive and all that I wanted out of 34. I guess 34 starts to feel me distancing myself and I guess caught wind of my venturing, he then expresses his feeling toward me, I give in but later find out he did know something about 35; so now I question how genuine his actions which I was enjoying really where. I need to figure this one out I now am hurting 35 and 34 still kinda... well Im not sure... seems selfish. Please help with my dilema, I am a 28 year old single mother of a 4 year old boy.

2007-01-29 11:14:20 · 8 answers · asked by Humn'bird420 3

my friend at church who is the son of the minister is 22 year's old and just found out he was adopted and so was his sister who is 24 he talk to me about it and i could tell he was hurting from the news b/c he said they never told him and he found out from a distance relative everyone through they looked so differant from his real children but no one gave it a second thought until now he also said most of his life most people ask him why was he and his siser so diffrent in school i hurt for him but i also know that he is hurting too what would you tell him ppl?

2007-01-29 11:12:46 · 1 answers · asked by mishoney 4

so you tell me wht you are scared of you people are weird so tell me write me we both get points ok write tipe .

2007-01-29 11:08:13 · 6 answers · asked by erin 2

if someone told you they didnt want to be your friend anymore, because their other friends said they were becomming like you, then who is the bit*h? me or the girl who told me this?

2007-01-29 11:06:39 · 2 answers · asked by youjrys 1

My friend is keeping a huge secret from me and I found out. Now I am starting to think she is not so much my friend. What should I do?!?!

2007-01-29 11:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by ANIMAL LUVER 2

we've been on and off for a year and kept things open but we haven't spoken in a month. When we weren't talking and it was my birthday he sent me an email.Should I acknowledge his and if so how?

2007-01-29 10:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by citygirl 1

I moved to this new school 3 years ago and i haven't had ANY friends since. I try really hard. But nobody likes me. why?

2007-01-29 10:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by Grilled cheese lover 2

My friend Katie is gettign very frustrated at these two boys. One named Kyle says he loves her like a sister. Katie has been in love with him for a few years. she is 16. She is kinda pinning away after Kyle and is confused by his playing footsies and comments to her. He smacked her butt too. She likes another boy Bobby. My one friend says Bobby hates Katie. Katie doesnt think so because Bobby throws her kisses and waves to her. Sometimes he will ignore her and mimic her. She wants to know what to do now. Thanks

2007-01-29 10:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me friend stole some food at the cafeteria at school. He is like my best friend and I told on him beacuse he can be really mean to me all. the teachers are thanking me. did i do the rigt thing? how can i earn his freindship back?

2007-01-29 10:14:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-29 10:12:25 · 6 answers · asked by Star Q 1

I've tried everything everyone's told me, I've been outgoing, friendly, patient, I talk to people in classes,joined clubs, I say hi to people every chance I get, I plan my day around bumping into people I know to have a chat, pretty much anything anyone can think of. I was alone in high school, my mom, the school coundelor and everyone told me it would get better when i moved to a new city to go to university, but it didn't. I meet new people all the time and even have a few regular friends but i always get forgotten about. I don't get invetied to parties (don't tell me thier not imprtant because they are) Í sit in my apartment on weekends. Every move I make is trying to find someone to be with but that doesn't happen often. I act relaxed and pretend I'm not lonely and desperate when I do have people around but they still lose interest. I have hobbies and talk to people with the same hobbies (music). Should I just give up? Is there anything left to try? 'm tired of being patient?

2007-01-29 10:08:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all, i consider myself to be quite a bulky guy at 6 foot and 15 stone but the other day i met up with a girl mate i havent seen for years. She always had the reputation of bein abit of a tomboy and so when she greated me she ran up to me and shoulder tackled me. I was knocked on the ground instantly and was winded badly. She is around 5 foot 8 and about 140lbs.

i was shocked by her strength and caused me to think, girls are tough these days.

So girls the question im askin to you is have you ever done anything which has physically overpowered a guy (shoulder tackled, lifted easily etc) ?

the term weaker sense has gone out the wiondow i think!

2007-01-29 10:05:12 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

My friend sammi showed me an email that said some really mean things about me. How do I tell her that i know what she said without letting her know my friend showedme. My friend was just being a good friend!!! I am glad that she showed me.

2007-01-29 10:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by . 3

2007-01-29 10:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by ardenrocks9 1

2007-01-29 09:53:25 · 26 answers · asked by ~~~lonelygurl~~~ 1

Okay I have a friend who has been acting really weird latly. She knows I like this guy and she wrote a love note to him and sighned my name to it. Actually she been doing that with every note she writes. She has been haging out with a really mean girl Danica Wilcox. And every time Gabby is around her she acts like a spoiled llittle brat. Every time I try to stop being friends with her she does something to make me friends with her again. And this is the best part she is spreading rumors about me. So does any one know what I should do?

2007-01-29 09:51:06 · 43 answers · asked by Em 3

My best friend for over 5 years recently has been givin me the vibe that she is jelous of me or something. my best friend lets call her Anna, has always wanted to be skinny. Myself i have always been average. This past year i lost over 12 lbs and now im skinny. She is always bribing me with food and trying to make me fat. She brings me food all the time telling me i should eat when im not hungry. Anyway i got a job a couple days ago and now all she talks about is how much hw we have and how she is not gonna have time to do it. Basically saying but in other words, how are you gonna work and keep up your grades.. i dont know what to do... any sugg? or am i just the retard?

2007-01-29 09:49:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and then he goes out with somelse with the same name. then he still flirts with me! i really love him! what should i do??

2007-01-29 09:44:30 · 6 answers · asked by *pRiNcEsS* 1

ok so i met this new girl in school and she's really funny and nice :)
we're becoming good friends......just a 2 weeks ago she was "going out with this guy" and now they broke up...she really sad (she also feels like she's a bad person ) and i feel so bad :(...but i don't know what to say to her.....maybe a pep talk would help? i don't ...............PLEASE HELP ME MAKE MY FRIEND FEEL BETTER ABOUT HERSELF and HELP ME MAKE HER FEEL BETTER!

thx! :)

2007-01-29 09:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my name is anastasia im 16 years old i like to talk and ask ? every day andmuth more if you wanna know what those things are ask me

2007-01-29 09:41:40 · 1 answers · asked by annie m 1

I have an early morning seminary teacher who is nice and i would really like to meet his family and tend for his kids. I LOVE to babysit and i REALLY want to babysit for his children! How can i kind of hint this to him with out being obvious? PLEASE!!

2007-01-29 09:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend from middle & high school just recently moved back after we haven't really hung out or kept in contact for about 10 years. Almost every time we do get together, she takes the opportunity to say something negative about my mom and the things she use to do. She might say something like, "remember that time your mom called my mom and tried to get me in trouble too because you got caught and my mom wasn't going to believe her because just because you did something doesn't mean I did."

Background info: My friend & I use to be very mischievious. A lot of the time, she was worse than me, but my parents were just more strict and aware of what was going on.

Anyway, I get really tired of her not only badmouthing my parents, but also everyone we know, including our mutual & her best friend. I know what's going on, if she talks about all these people like this, including her best friend, she's also doing the same behind my back. How can confront her tactfully about these issues?

2007-01-29 09:36:33 · 7 answers · asked by I!Answer 1

also she already has a boyfriend but we ae sort of friends at a level that we talk in class. You can also email

2007-01-29 09:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by victorpacero 1