I"ve been friends with a particular person for over 20 years. During the last few years, she has become very negative and somewhat jealous of others. An example being, I recently moved into a new apt. & was proud of my decorating. She looked around and said "it's awfully bright in here". If I've done some photo work, she'll look very closely & pick out something very minor to bring to my attention. A few days ago, I mentioned going to my cousin's for a holiday. Her face dropped like a stone & she said "oh, that", then proceeded to remind me of a problem from last year. 3 yrs. ago she opted to take a course benefitting her employment & cancelled our vacation plans. I went on vacation with another friend. When she learned of this, she became very distant toward me and accused me of going off with another friend so fast. I'm at the point where I don't want to share things with her. Talking to her won't do any good. She becomes very defensive. What should I do?
2006-12-28
10:31:01
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tweetysvester2007
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