my friends mad @ me cuz i didnt invite her to a sleepover. i knew she wudnt be able to come, so i didnt wanna call her and invite her to something i knew she wudnt be able to come to. that wud be mean cuz shed feel left out. so i didnt tell her about the sleepover. then my friend that did go told her i had one. my friend got mad at me and was really snotty to me, even when i sent like 10 apology emails.and its annoying that she gets mad at me the one time i didnt invite her, but she doesnt get mad at my other friend who doesnt invite her because she doesnt want her there. i wanted my friend there, but i knew she cudnt come. i told her all of this, but she still acted eman. what should i do? shes a really good friend when shes not being a snotty brat, but she always looks for stuff to get mad at me about. please help
2006-12-28 09:21:29 · 4 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should have told her anyway
go tell her that you hadnt realised your mistake but that you do now and apologise face to face
2006-12-28 09:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that ur friend is upset becuz u didn't give her the chance to say that she wouldn.t be able to come. U just took it upon urself to not make mention about it to her. If u really understood about friendship u would have at least told her about the sleepover. Did u really think that u could have a sleepover without her knowing? I am quite sure that the two of u have mutual friends which means that she was bound to find out about the sleepover.
2006-12-28 09:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if you both knew she could not come. If she was really your considered friend you would have told her you were going to have a sleepover. That way she knew that you had at least thought about her.
2006-12-28 09:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by imart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I believe is tht ur friend is too possesive about you...may be she would have forgot if you had just not called her..but because there was sme1 else wid you that time and you didnt call her..thts the reason she got mad...just talk to her and make her believe that you too reallt care about her....tht should help i guess.
2006-12-28 09:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Vikash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋