Single cute STRAIGHT female and last night i had a dream that one of my really good girl friends and i were engaged to be married - it wasn't anything sexual or lesbian-ish but we were engaged to be married and i distinctly remembered that i completely opposed to it because i'm so young and there was much i wanted to with my life before settling down with anyone and committment scared me. We were planning a wedding party and i called it off last minute. I think it might have something to do with how i feel with my life right now. I've chosen to be single because there's much i want to do and the idea of committment scares me. What do you think of this dream? Someone wanna help me analyze it? What if it's telling me i'm a lesbian?
2006-12-28 09:12:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It could be that your friend represents your ideal emotional connection to a person. In other words if you were going to marry someone they would have to be someone like her (male or female).
The idea that you were not ready probably just means that. You are not ready. Even if you meet someone who you could spend the rest of your life with this is not the time for you to settle down.
2006-12-28 09:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're asking if it means you're a lesbian (when I'msure you are well aware it doesn't mean that) means that you are questioning yourself. Maybe you are attracted to your friend. Have you thought about it beforer? This happened to me some years ago and it started in a dream as well (I have concluded I'm not a lesbian, btw). Anyway, you might be bisexual if you're attracted to men and women both. You probably won't know over night. You'll discover what kind of people you're attracted to in time. Good luck :]
2006-12-28 09:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams can sometimes be about facing or confronting fears.. could be you are afraid of committment and could be you are either homophobic or maybe in denial that you may have bisexual tendancies? dreams and fantacies can be wild and crazy.. it doens't necessarily mean you are lesbian, but it could be a sign that you are a little curious.. hard to say. nothing wrong with being curious..
2006-12-28 09:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋