My friend is so annoying. we have been fighting a lot because she thinks shes cool cool but of course, shes not. i had a sleepover yesterday and i knew she couldn't of came, because she said she said she couldn't have a sleepover. so i invited my friend who is also friends with her and my other friend TOLD her about the sleepover! Then she sent me a text that said: i know u had a sleepover and didn't invite me, thanks a lot. She was acting bratty and is a show off. I didn't invite her because i thought that she couldn't come. That night she said she couldn't have a sleepover at our house, which i thought meant that she couldn't have it at anyone's house. then she was like: u still could have invited me. Shes a brat now and gets everything she wants- and the sad part is- she doesn't deserve any of it! Help me! What should i do about her?
2006-12-28 10:17:37 · 14 answers · asked by ♡☮taaraa 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Someone once told me "just make sure you are the one who is doing the right thing", it applies to all kinds of situations. Aplogize to your friend that her feelings were hurt, tell her it seems that it was a misunderstanding (if it was). Next time, if you want to, invite her even if you don't think she can come (that's between her and her parents), but remember it's also ok to have time with other friends without her there. If her parents don't allow it, tell her you'd like to make plans to do something else with her that her parents would allow.
If you are going to continue to be friends, you will have to accept her for who she is, she's not going to change and she sounds like she might have a bit of what I call "the Princess syndrome" ... I know someone else who does similar stuff, and lies a lot to cover her tracks as well, but I know that is just who and how she is, and have learned to accept that. She just isn't best friend material since she always puts herself and her wants/needs first without consideration to anyone else.
Girls can be very petty, once you are college-age it will be better :-) Hang in there.
2006-12-28 10:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are three types of friends in this world.The ones that love you for you and take you just as you are, and then there are ones who somehow think that by being your friend the will come to gain something from you for it.
And third there are ones that you find yourself hanging with because of maybe similar interests or friends of friends. But your not very close, just aquantances.
Sounds to me Like this girl you are calling a "friend" fits in category number two.She seems likea shallow insecure person who only trys to act cool because she thinks thats how she needs to be to have the "right friends".And she is jelious of anyone who she thinks may be getting or doing something better than her. Sound like her so far??
Girl,This person is far from someone you need to have in a category anywhere near the idea of friend.
She is nothing but drama and hassles and she will try her best to bring you down in the good name of friends.
If I was you, I would start pushing that one aside quick. So what if your other friends are friends with her.Do you really think they get any better treatment from her??
Avoid her no matter what they say and before long they will more than likely see it best for them to do the same
thing.
Dont try to convince them to do it, just let them know why you cant be her friend and tell them you dont expect them to dis owner that its their choice.Trust me, They will figure it out. And the ones that dont I wouldnt worry about cause than maybe they deserve her!
2006-12-28 10:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you need to find a new friend. Best thing to do is forget her, do not answer her text message, email or anything, just cut it off. If she blames you for everything, she might end up getting you into trouble. There are a lot of people that would probably like to be friends with you. This girl, sounds like a brat. you do not need this type thing going on all the time. Make new friends.
2006-12-28 10:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems you hurt her feelings, though I know you meant no harm of it. She's just a drama-queen, she enjoys being in the spotlight. I bet when you're out she's always the big talker, and always trying to suck up to your parents when they're serving pancakes and stuff. She needs a reality check! You can try talking to her about how she needs to lay back for a little and be a friend. You can't always please her! If none of that works, it's about time you find yourself a true friend, someone you deserve.
It can be hard to break off a relationship, but it get's harder the longer you ignore the issue, you need to deal with this now hun.
Best of luck.
2006-12-28 10:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you both sound like a couple of brats, if you ask me. Try being a better friend and you'll attract good ones. A good friend would not complain about a friend to anyone and everyone.Instead, you'd take the time to talk with her like a mature person not a catty teenager.
2006-12-28 10:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when ppl start acting like that, they are just trying to find something to fight about or be weird about if that makes sense. maybe she's PMSing. u never kno with girls. and dont worry about her because if she wants to she'll come around and then its ur turn to control ur relationship. if not then too bad for her. she lost a friend and ull probably gain a friend thats in the same situation
2006-12-28 10:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by lane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 confront her. she shouldnt b the 1 who was making a big fuss out of things so small. my mom acts like tha( i cant confront her cause she's the one who feeds me) tell her the truth. if shes 2 much 2 handle stop being friends w/ her, and maybe shell be sorry.
2006-12-28 10:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well friendship is something big and is like a commitement. friends ofcourse sometimes have fights but still they always at the end say sorry and feel bad. they listen to each other and understand each other.
talk to her about this and is she still acts like tht then jus leave her
2006-12-28 10:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be friends with her anymore. just start ignoring her and eventually she will go away. If she does this to you, then she's definitely not a good friend.
2006-12-28 10:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her how you feel and if she don't like it then oh well becuz all that jis just childish
2006-12-28 10:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by deaundra b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋