Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

My marriage has been thru hell. We were so close to a divorce. My wife was caught cheating, she blamed me for it. I can only take so much responsabilty for her infidelity. We both put effort into saving our marriage, she could do much more to help, but since she had changed her mind about dumping me, I chose to let the small stuff go. I still have issues with trusting her. I checkup on her as much as I can to see if she has just gotten smarter about getting away with more infidelity. I saw her purse this morning in our kitchen. She was still sleeping so I took a good look at everything in there and I found cocain parafanilia, and an empty bag that had cocain in it. To say the least, I am beside myself. First off, we can't afford that garbage. Then there are our teenaged kids, then there is the issue of mistrust, just in a different way. I have been wondering how she paid for this, On her knees or her back? I don't know if I should try to fix this or is it time for us to divorce

2007-02-09 10:48:20 · 23 answers · asked by dehatched 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend asked me to marry him on my birthday, but we've only been together 6 months. Is it too soon?

2007-02-09 10:47:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i when out with this guy and he started treating everyone else like crap so i dumped him. i also did it beause he was being annoying and trying to act cool in front ofme so now he whants me back but im over him now

2007-02-09 10:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 in Singles & Dating

because i have been with someone for a long time and i still dont know.

2007-02-09 10:47:39 · 9 answers · asked by cooljoe7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mii friend killed herself and the last I knew she had a problem with her boyfriend who was stuck on his ex gurlfriend & was spending more time w/her this isnt the first time this type of stuff has happened
She's threatened to kill herself alot of times
Now she gone
Everyone in skool is trying to kill him should they be going after him??

2007-02-09 10:46:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-09 10:46:03 · 41 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I was talking to and liked me a lot but I wasn't serious about him at the time. Then he asked me out and I turned him down but he still was talking to me anyway. Then a change took place and we kind of stopped talking. I want to talk to him but I'm just too stubborn to say anything first. Now I want him more than ever but I don't think that I like him. Is it bad to want someone I don't like too much? What should I do?

2007-02-09 10:45:28 · 9 answers · asked by Dr_true_love 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 10:45:17 · 35 answers · asked by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 10:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by kwon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

involve fried chicken, a thong, and a forty ounce???

2007-02-09 10:44:27 · 1 answers · asked by Baddest_Bandulu 2 in Singles & Dating

I waited for love and didn't know how to find it and now I read that women don't like virgins. I am now 34 and have zero experience and trying to date. Am I screwed? Have I just missed out? Should I find a prostitute?

Here's a link to one of the articles: http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/52_dating_tips.html

2007-02-09 10:44:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a couple of days to figure out what to say to my boyfriend. We haven't said I love you yet but I know he love me because he tells my best friend all the time. What do I say to him in a homemade valentine card? Please Help. I would really appreciate it greatly.

2007-02-09 10:43:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with him for 3 years. then he graduated and left to the navy when he left we broke up. then he came back in christmas and we got back together. everything was going fine until i was messing around with his cell when i saw a girl pregnant. i asked him who it was and he told me that he got that girl pregnant while we were not together. what would you do?
would you go back out with him or leave him for good. and remember i LOVE him

2007-02-09 10:43:47 · 26 answers · asked by the girl who wonders 1 in Singles & Dating

Im at a girls house right now in the country far away from gas stations and i need to take a serious dump!this is the first time meeting this girl,im at her house...shes taking a shower.should i take a dump in her house even though this is my first time meeting her?i really have to go.would it be rude if i did?and i dont wanna go after she takes a steaming hot shower that will make it worse.what do i do?

2007-02-09 10:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by Prostidude 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i like but i don't really no him. We only have study hall together and we're not aloud to talk. I've liked him for awhile. I don't no if he likes me or not. Should i ask him to winter formal or not? if so should i ask to go as friends or just forget about him? I'm 15 and so is he.

Thanks for the help!!

2007-02-09 10:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oki want everyone that reads this to do something for me plz
,... i mewan im not stupid were i DoNTk now what turns a man on but i want to make mine go CRAZY so if you could PLZ help me and tell me lil things i coul do ANYTHING will help i just wanna make him lose control bcuz its his b-day in 4 days and im gonna give him a night to remember so plz help me everyone thanks you

2007-02-09 10:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by cold_hearted_bitch91 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He did it before and i got really hurt and upset,he promised that he would not do it again but he did,purposely..I feel so angry about it,he said its just a dance..

2007-02-09 10:41:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Two homies just dropped and ones been hurt. Your cuz'in made the mistake of walking into the wrong house and you have no idea where he is now. Your mom is calling the sheriffs constantly for not following her orders, trespassing, attemptive murder, vandalism and millacious mischief ON YOU. You've done treatment, your finishing skool, and you stay home to avoid trouble.Your mom's husband puts you in juvee and jail every chance he gets. You can't help to have harmful thoughts to the home and them. You need to run, you've been homeless before( slept on the railroad track, HS track, and at parks). You exscape to that little peice of paradise with Drcgs because your mom has your rapest watching you and one living with you. A man you were with for money is stalking you and your in debt. You only have one friend and thats your cuzins. They got your back when your "homies" want to take you out or when you know too much. You carry a knife with you because we all gotta die one day....

2007-02-09 10:40:58 · 3 answers · asked by smoke_frm_apple 2 in Family

We have been friends for years, and we have talked several times lately about our feelings for each other. We both decided it best that we remain friends, but I told her years of my feelings and how much I cared for her. Now, we talk about everything including life goals, marriage views, and friendship views and such. We talk about the deep things of our heart, and she wants to hear all about me.

2007-02-09 10:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm finally going out with the girl I've been in love since fourth grade now what do I do?

2007-02-09 10:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by jsh_lafleur 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad is always blowing up when i get a B on a math test and makes me do math everyday even when i made stupid mistakes...what should i do?

2007-02-09 10:40:33 · 3 answers · asked by mrs. jung yunho 4 in Family

2007-02-09 10:39:25 · 26 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 10:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by mrs tog 3 in Family

well me and my gf split awhile ago and this is the time to settle thing's.she wont speak or talk to me but she has told me she still loves me. i dont wanna get back with her but just be friends thats all.but this friday i start my army training so i wont get to tell her my true feelings we was together for nearly 2 years and have dne alot together in that time....
but i dont want to go to my training yet because i still have unsaid things that i need to be cleared before i can fully move on
what do i do call or go to her house and say it in person ???? plese help i only have a few hours

2007-02-09 10:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by killergibbo1111 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and he likes me too...but everytime we talk he doesn't do anything. I don't know why he doesn't ask me out becasue i mean we really like each other and im not going to ask him...i like the guy to do it! unless somebody has really good advice. How can i get him to ask me out?!

2007-02-09 10:38:46 · 16 answers · asked by GyMnAsT BaBe 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been on Genes Reunited, but i really need to search databases and records as he was adopted at birth. Is there any way i can do this online without having to pay out huge sums of money?

2007-02-09 10:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well there this guy i really like and he recently broke up with his girlfriend. He started to flirt me and that online. All my mates are telling me to make a move but I'm not sure because he may still have feelings for his ex even though he got rid of all her pictures and comments on myspace and i dont want to look deseperate either but i'm also scared that he may find another girl. Also i tired texting him but he never texts back and i got a feeling that he maybe angry at me because I had a free house for three weeks and i invited my girls over but not him. I'm sooo crazy about him and I got off with him for my birthday which is making me want him more and more! please help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-09 10:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 10:37:02 · 6 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy and he likes me too...but everytime we talk he doesn't do anything. I don't know why he doesn't ask me out becasue i mean we really like each other and im not going to ask him...i like the guy to do it! unless somebody has really good advice. How can i get him to ask me out?!

2007-02-09 10:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by GyMnAsT BaBe 1 in Singles & Dating

are they losers? they're not winners. is it degrading to you to try and find love on the net? hahaha get a life people! get some game.

2007-02-09 10:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Other - Family & Relationships