I waited for love and didn't know how to find it and now I read that women don't like virgins. I am now 34 and have zero experience and trying to date. Am I screwed? Have I just missed out? Should I find a prostitute?
Here's a link to one of the articles: http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/52_dating_tips.html
2007-02-09 10:44:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women may say that they don't mind and be very nice to your face, but if you're bad, they will talk alot of crap about you to their girlfriends afterwards. You should check out some of the legal brothels in Nevada. I work at the chicken ranch, (Kittie) and we deal with men in your situation all the time.
Whatever you decide to do though, good luck, and be confident, you have nothing to be ashamed of.
2007-02-09 16:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by K M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of friends right now kinda on the same thing, they are 20 and never dated at all, then they wonder why they fail. It's a lot of trial and error. I mean I know your older but its the same thing. You got years behind everyone else and this is going to be a problem. Don't give up hope though, and going to a prostitute is only going to further problems cause no one will want to date you and you can get slapped with nasty jail time or fines. Sex aint everything anyways, my bro said once its just like wet masturebation.. lol.. trying to be light hearted here. Anyways just keep dating, even if you fail and fail again. After a while you'll notice changes in your habits and you'll get better. I also recomend an ebook. I'll send it to you if you email me, my email is jdeuel3868@yahoo.com its called double your dating, its an awesome book! Hope to hear from you and good luck!
2007-02-09 10:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jdeuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out a personal ad in the newspaper,on a telephone chat line,or on the internet. Sell all the other wonderful aspects of your personality, looks and character. If you can include a handsome picture of yourself in a print ad or on the internet, please do so. Finally end on the positive note that you are a virgin. I'm sure you will find some very appreciative women who will respond to your ad.
2007-02-09 10:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has a ton of experience, and all of my firsts have been with him. But I'm not going to have sex with him simply because he's NOT a virgin -- I don't want to end up just another notch on his belt. =]
Honestly, it depends on the girl. Good luck.
2007-02-09 10:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Roni L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experienced women won't mind at all.. They take the lead and teach you the right things.. alot of (experienced) guys think they know what they are doing.. lol when they really have no clue at all..
2007-02-09 10:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lavender 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are all sinners, in want of a Savior. no one is "more beneficial advantageous" than anybody else. very few people were kept, and some people have not. i'd be honest the following, in case you beg my pardon, yet there is one aspect that bothers me about gays like you(and that i'm no longer talking about ALL gays) . and that is the reality that they ought to keep declaring it to anybody, as if all of us basically want to attraction to close it. You insist on parading it in the front of anybody. Why? Why is it so major that anybody knows you're gay? And why is it continually the important topic on your time table? Is all of it you easily imagine about, and is all of it you've on your existence? no matter if it is, then that is highly unhappy. there is more beneficial to existence than sex, my pal. you come back on the following, spouting off about your self, then get disappointed in case you get solutions you do not prefer to take heed to. properly, you're basically placing your self up for it through doing that. in case you don't like what Christians ought to assert about homosexuality, then why do you continuously carry out the position you understand they are? that is like you want them to confront you on all of it the time. you're the guy who delivered it up, no longer us. then you quite act like we are attacking you. and also you're taking area in the sufferer over and once more beneficial. Sorry, yet it is the reality. the following is a clue. end BRINGING IT UP each and every MINUTE. i don't think of i'm more beneficial to anybody. i trust that sin is sin because that is what God says it is. you do not settle for that. that is why you keep coming round Christians and wanting to "substitute our minds" or some thing. that is not any longer going to take position. And in case you imagine we are being "holier than thou" or regardless of you imagine, it fairly would not count number. It in trouble-free terms concerns what God thinks. he's the decide, no longer me. i'm basically the messenger. I in trouble-free terms use HIS note, no longer my personal. and keep in suggestions, you're the single asking. He has already judged what's sin and what's not any longer. once you've a issue with that, then your pink meat is with God Almighty. You suggested, "be honest." So i grow to be. and that i do not HATE YOU!! God Bless
2016-12-03 23:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the woman is just looking for sex, then I would say she would rather have experience. But if there are feelngs involved then, she will gladly help you. Just be honest about your feelings on this with her.
2007-02-09 16:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Broadgonebiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want someone that knows what they are doing, because I don't for sure. I think that someone in the relationship should know what they are doing, or everything is going to be done wrong.
2007-02-09 10:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and I dont mind at all if I a guy is inexperienced. If I like them, I don't let that affect our relationship...plus i can always teach him.
2007-02-09 10:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find the right woman, she really won't care
i'm 28
2007-02-09 10:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋