He did it before and i got really hurt and upset,he promised that he would not do it again but he did,purposely..I feel so angry about it,he said its just a dance..
2007-02-09 10:41:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
girl you better learn how to dance quick. because believe it or not when you are not around he is dancing more nastier. he broke a promise to you, you are suppose to be angry.if it happens again, find a divorce lawyer and dance your way to court
2007-02-09 11:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anytime something happens in a marriage where it is
disrespectful to one of the partner then that partner needs
to confront his or her mate and let them know how hurt
they were and how disrespectful of an act it was to do
that in front of you. Talk to your husband and let him know
exactly how you feel and be strong about it and let him
know that you will not condone that type of action again.
If he continues disrespecting you then you need to take
on another course maybe even seperation to show him
you mean business, and if that does not work then of
course you know what the next step is. Husbands do not
do what he has done and done again. I have been with
my wife for 20yrs and a lady tried that on me once and
right there on the spot I put her in her place. So talk
firmly to your husband, be a woman, demand ur respect
and if you don't get it then take action needed.
Good luck.
2007-02-09 13:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset about this. What he did is wrong and he should not keep doing this. Just a dance??? I doubt it i think more is going on after the dance is done. Come on even i know better than that one. If he does keep doing this then leave him .
2007-02-09 10:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to feel hurt. There is something personal about dancing. A few years ago, my hubby went to a party without me as I was ill. When he came home, he told me he'd had a slow dance with another woman. This woman he danced with was in her 70's and he only did it as he was bored, but I was still hurt. Find out off friends if anything else went on x
2007-02-09 10:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by The Way 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A serious lack of respect.
You obviously don't approve of his actions. And he knows it. You have also already told him about how you feel. And he knows it.
He did it again. What's worse is he did it to spite you. To hurt you.
Purposely. Maliciously.
What can of man did you marry? What kind of person does it take to knowingly hurt you. Its beyond reproach.
Is this normal for him? Angry, mean, vengeful, hateful behavior? How about words? Does he often say things to purposely hurt?
Not a man. A child who has no control of himself.
If he has a history of verbal, emotional and physical abuse...leave. If not, drag his pathetic butt to a therapist.
2007-02-09 10:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by jw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is disrespectful to you as his wife as well as your marriage vows.and doing to another man does not make it right either.he needs to understand that not only are you angry but you are hurt and understandably so.its one thing to dance respectfully with another woman and its totally something else to dance nasty with another woman.and considering he has done this behavior before and he promised not to do it again and he has.If he does it a third time i would say your marriage is in trouble.he no longer respects your feelings,or the boundries of your marriage.
2007-02-09 10:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him! respect yourself! Imagine what he does that you don't know about. If he did do it on purpose he is emotionally abusing you, and lowering your self esteem. Don't let him get away with it, and don't do anything to get back at him, just leave, be the bigger person.
Is this the way you want to be treated for the rest of your life? I hope not! You deserve better.
2007-02-09 11:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by krissy p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your husband respected and cared about how you felt he wouldn't have done it. But he did..so therefore he has no respect for you ...I don't mean to hurt you but if he knew this upset you and he did anyways he didn't care.
When people show you who they are believe them.
You have every right to be upset..If it had been my husband he would have been dancing much differently..more of on the floor in the cradle postion rocking himself while holding his crotch..
2007-02-09 10:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by missourishol 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would he do that? Ask him. And then dance dirty with a guy in front of him and ask him how he feels about it. Show him how hurt you can get.
2007-02-09 10:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show him this does not bother you and you must be confident with yourself. Its just dancing not sex. Turn the tables on him and do the same thing. Show him it does not bother you and he'll probably stop doing it when he sees he cannot push your buttons.
2007-02-09 10:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋