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There is this guy that I was talking to and liked me a lot but I wasn't serious about him at the time. Then he asked me out and I turned him down but he still was talking to me anyway. Then a change took place and we kind of stopped talking. I want to talk to him but I'm just too stubborn to say anything first. Now I want him more than ever but I don't think that I like him. Is it bad to want someone I don't like too much? What should I do?

2007-02-09 10:45:28 · 9 answers · asked by Dr_true_love 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Its the challenge of making him like you again. Crazy how it works but we want what we have to try and get otherwise its kinda boring. I wouldn't want a yes man, a challenge is always the best.

2007-02-09 10:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Randa 3 · 0 0

Well it won't work out anyway sweetie, but since you're the one who turned him down then you should be the one to make the next move. Physical attraction should come secondary so it seems like you're wasting his time, hopefully he doesn't like you anymore. Seems like you only want one thing. But remember when feelings are involved you'd be surprised what people can do, don't underestimate. Good luck!

2007-02-09 18:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0 0

You sound like you might have a personality disorder. You could try going to see a psychiatrist. It is possible that with the right treatment (including medicine and talk therapy) you could start liking the people you are attracted to, and continue liking them.

2007-02-09 18:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis H 4 · 0 0

you dont know if you dont try sounds corny and pointless since u kno ur own feelsing but this might make the disision easier. i think you should just talk to the boi cuz usually when its gone that when u want them the most i feel u on this one my exbf lives in nyc and i dont and he asked to visit i said no and now i miss him mor than ever but i called him and now wer good frendz not wat i want but its better then not having him at all. hope that helped

2007-02-09 18:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by clerks 3 · 0 0

Yea.Not that bad..but yea....pretending is even worst..cuz u could end up liking some1 u didnt before..and u end uphurting alot of people that way!
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2007-02-09 18:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by SGx 2 · 0 0

Yes. I love that sort of attention too.

Like the saying goes, "You don't know what you got til it's gone."

2007-02-09 18:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by freezie 3 · 0 0

yeah. i think your just infatuated with completing your goal of making him like you again. but i dont think it's anything serious. hope this helps.

2007-02-09 18:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jae Lynn 4 · 1 0

lol , well i think you like him alot. but if you mean it i think it's bad because if you want someone it should be because you like them or love them.

2007-02-09 18:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe ur just physically attracted to him, that happened to me once, dont feel bad

2007-02-09 18:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by courtney 5 · 0 0

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