Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

I've been dating this wonderful person for about 2 and a half months. everyone has been shocked that we have been going strong, because we are total opposites from each other, like 180 degrees. it was definently an opposites attract thing from the beginning. lately, i've been realizing that i dont want go out with her anymore, and its not because of anything she has done to me, just the fact that i believe its more of a physical attraction than anything. she is very quiet, and i have to basically force her to engage in a productive conversation with me. and now i'm starting to like this long time friend who i have a lot in common with, and can tell anything to. i think breakin up with my current gf is inevitable, but she is head over heels for me right now, and i'm afriad of hurting her, which will prolly happen no matter what. what i need is some sound advice on how to end this as smoothly as possible so i can continue a friendship with this girl. please, its driving me nuts.

2007-02-06 06:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Vince 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 06:54:49 · 55 answers · asked by bossman 1 in Singles & Dating

right now im unhappy in my relationship. it seems like right now we arent on the same page. now my girlfriend is saying that she isnt for all that marriage stuff. when before she wanted to get married. also i told her that i know things didnt work out with your kids father. but i am here for you. i want to be here. she goes thanks. as long as it goes both ways. what the hell type of response is that?? everything is just so inconsisent. one minute we get along great, then the next minute, things are horrible. we arent talking or anything. she says that she ended all her relationships even though they SUPPOSEDLY all treated her right. does that raise a red flag??

2007-02-06 06:54:01 · 16 answers · asked by dgmotley 2 in Singles & Dating

And why are vows the only thing that women take really seriously? Women fight for this idea to death it seems. I mean sex isn't serious back when they were in the dating scene.

Know sombody for a few hours? Sex him
One night stand? Sex him
First date? Sex him

See what I mean. Yet, if a dude that has taken "vows" tries to have a little fun, oh my god, its the end of the world!

So prior to marriage, sex is just sex. After marriage, it will cost you dearly if you think that sex with another woman is just sex.

2007-02-06 06:53:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i luv dis guy a lot but there r certain complications so he says dat he is trying to refrain himself 4m luving me,but we talk on the phone &he misses me a lot,he gets pissed off too.he is younger to me

2007-02-06 06:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I Have been married for 1 month. Before we got married, I've caught her lying, cheating, etc. One week before we got married she talk to the guy she cheated on me with but didn't tell me. She claims she told him that they couldn't talk anymore. Why would she try to keep it from me? Do you think she is up to her same old stuff? Should I trust her? let me know.

2007-02-06 06:53:27 · 34 answers · asked by carlos b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's is a girl in my class that I want to ask out and sometimes when we talk she acts a little nervous and I can't tell if it's a nervous because she likes me or because she's creeped out and is afraid I'm going to ask her out. She smiles and talks back and says funny things but aside from that there a no blatant clues, anything subtle I can look for?

2007-02-06 06:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by SarcasticJrk 2 in Singles & Dating

the date i've chosen for my wedding falls on a friday. i'm just wondering, even though i've heard from lots of places that friday is cheaper to rent places, catering, etc. has anyone had their wedding on a friday and honestly had it be less expensive that it would have on another day? thanks everyone!!

2007-02-06 06:53:11 · 14 answers · asked by Duelen 4 in Weddings

why do us as woman always compare us to eachother.i,m a mom of 4 i,m 27 and i like to look young and hot other woman my age always seem to judge me why?

2007-02-06 06:52:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best boy friend never talks to me he only talks to my best girl friend he tells her everything and he has a girlfriend who hates me he said he cant trust me anymore do you think we are friends anymore but the sad thing is he is like my only friend he cant trust me but i can only trust him it seems like everyone else hates me and wants to tell everyone everything and anything i would tell them whatshould i do??????????????

2007-02-06 06:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 1 in Friends

Does anyone know any songs about abuse?

2007-02-06 06:52:44 · 1 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend keeps saying he wants to be away from we for a few days and is acting all stupid.
wat should i do?

2007-02-06 06:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by ~sam~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 06:50:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after reading all of the answers and talking to my husband i truly understand
when your in a marriage and you feel there is no hope just think about what a marriage really is about, Its about to imperfect people sharing there lives with each other and it not that we fall out of love its that we forget how to love and love is not something we just have it is something that we learn

thank you for your sincere and caring answers

2007-02-06 06:50:08 · 13 answers · asked by chick4god 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been trying to start a relationship with a woman who let me in her life but will not let me get any closer. She wants to hang out with me all the time but she has lingering ex-boyfriend issues that are getting in the way of me getting close to her. Shes knows how I feel but I want to send her a letter that really puts it all on the line so she is forced to read it and know exactly how I feel. I am not so good at writing and my intention is to have her in tears by the end of reading it (good ones of course), I need suggestions to help me accomplish this.

2007-02-06 06:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by Tri-Lambs 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to spend a lot of money, I am broke so I need something creative but treasurable. Any ideas?

2007-02-06 06:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by Tootieball 1 in Weddings

This is a rather complicated situtation...I've know this guy for about 1 yr and a half. We didnt talk into aug 2006 which means we've actually talked or been some type of acquaintances for about 6 months. He first started talking to me it was a bit awkard, the first thing he said was "You talking ****" while I was talking to my friend. From then we would talk more but still it was weird becuase he talks little. As the year progressed we talked more and my friends started noticing something, even before I did. Eventually through a mutual friend we found out we liked each other. He told the friend that he would ask me out. Unfortunately he still hasn't. I talk to him time to time but sthings are a bit different. How can I tell if he still likes me? I'm ever so confused.

2007-02-06 06:49:12 · 12 answers · asked by Brilliant B 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the best ways to make him realize how much i love and care about him! It's very tough to put things into guys brain! They don't think like girls....more or less they won't be even worrying how much we would feel. Some guys are very hard to understand girls mind....how can i show him that i love him a lot!

2007-02-06 06:48:54 · 4 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have always dreamed about marrying a British guy. I always just seem to gravitate to things that are british like music, fashion, personalities, literature, movies, humor, artists,..etc. I really didn't even realized this until I actually dated a British guy. I never noticed this about myself until it all made sense that most of my "favorite" things are Brit related. I grew up in Staten Island New York in a Spanish family so I have no idea what this manifested from.
But I am currently dating someone that is not any of those things. My question is should I hold out and hope to find what my number 1 dream is? Or should I write it off as just being a childish dream and forget it?

2007-02-06 06:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by krystal c 3 in Singles & Dating

what suits you sir???...or madam...;0)

2007-02-06 06:48:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 06:47:24 · 6 answers · asked by woopwoopkid 1 in Singles & Dating

We're not friends because she already thinks i broke them up

2007-02-06 06:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by sweet heart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where i'm from you can't have sex until you're 17...

so would i b blamed or would she or would we both? would i go to jail?

you know.....i'm not thinking of sleeping with her, i'm just very curious.

2007-02-06 06:46:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've had some terrible things said to me by her, i know she is hurting but damn, i have feelings to, or should say right now they are pretty much crushed. why is she so bent upon destroying my well being, i've not said one bad thing about and when i do talk to her i ask her if she is o.k. why is she so terrible.?

2007-02-06 06:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

i love her, i told her i do. she said that she gets butterflies and other emotions but not sure if love, and till she makes sure where she stands we are not together. now. i am invited to my best friend's wedding on valentines day. for the whole evening. and cant see her or meet her( we meet as friends not date). shall i skip the wedding to see her and give her a red rose or shall i go to the wedding and forget the thing!!,,i know girls sometimes wait for things that are not logical to happen..like we are not couples, why to do something special on valentine, but i feel that ignoring her on valentine will affect her final decision..what do u think?

2007-02-06 06:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by confused lover 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 06:45:16 · 21 answers · asked by eve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you convince a guy what you saying was right! When it comes to understanding....guys can be tough to deal with! They tend to look from their point of view! How can you convince them that they are wrong or at least make them think of what you are saying? In what ways you can explain to him about something that would make him think about it! For example i don't think it's a good time to explain or try to say something when we fight or had arguments so what i do most of the times i tell him my points and if he doesn't i'll yell so badly and we fight and that night or next morning i'll be writing him a long e-mail explaining what he did was wrong and why i feel that and stuffs!....

2007-02-06 06:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you convince a guy what you saying was right! When it comes to understanding....guys can be tough to deal with! They tend to look from their point of view! How can you convince them that they are wrong or at least make them think of what you are saying? In what ways you can explain to him about something that would make him think about it! For example i don't think it's a good time to explain or try to say something when we fight or had arguments so what i do most of the times i tell him my points and if he doesn't i'll yell so badly and we fight and that night or next morning i'll be writing him a long e-mail explaining what he did was wrong and why i feel that and stuffs!....

2007-02-06 06:44:10 · 3 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help i can't get this man out of my head i can't eat or sleep and no one makes me feel like he did, he made me feel happy, and safe and amazing now hes gone and i feel lost. And everytime i meet someone i feel like im comparing them to him but they just dont compare. If some else was aying this to me id say dont be thick and just get over. i dont know why but i just can't.

2007-02-06 06:43:54 · 5 answers · asked by kazz06 4 in Singles & Dating

Some one tried to contact me a short bit ago and when I tried to e-mail him back it wouldn't go through. The E-mail was Indyhank... If you'red still intersted in being penpals please recontact.

2007-02-06 06:43:29 · 1 answers · asked by Cricket 5 in Singles & Dating