i love her, i told her i do. she said that she gets butterflies and other emotions but not sure if love, and till she makes sure where she stands we are not together. now. i am invited to my best friend's wedding on valentines day. for the whole evening. and cant see her or meet her( we meet as friends not date). shall i skip the wedding to see her and give her a red rose or shall i go to the wedding and forget the thing!!,,i know girls sometimes wait for things that are not logical to happen..like we are not couples, why to do something special on valentine, but i feel that ignoring her on valentine will affect her final decision..what do u think?
2007-02-06 06:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by confused lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask your friend if you can bring a date...and take her. If not the rose thing would send any girl over the edge...That would be incrediblly romantic. Don't just ignore Valentines day. go for it
2007-02-06 06:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should spend at least an hour with her! what do u mean u have to go for the whole day to the wedding? well can't u just call and tell her about your situation and go seen her in the evening or night! But call her in the morning or send her a card to say happy valetine's day! in that way you won't miss the wedding and seeing her too! Girls expect these things inside their heart but they won't tell....it's just the way they are! so be the man they want you to be! how would u feel if she loves you and she did the same thing!
2007-02-06 14:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is true we do wait for things like that to happend but to be honest just follow your heart, If you really love her like you say u do then ireally think u should be with her on that day.And to make things better take her with u so that u both can be together. Tak this from someone who knows best just invite her to the wedding and i bet that she would love it.
Love ,Sweet Heart
2007-02-06 14:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by sweet heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you possibly ask her to the reception with you? And then add some small, sweet Valentine gesture, like a rose & card?
2007-02-06 15:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jennewren :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to skip the entire wedding..maybe just sneak out of the reception for an hour or so to give her the rose. that would be adorable!
2007-02-06 14:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by aerochik9675 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the wedding like you should, but send her alot more than just flowers.
2007-02-06 14:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if at any time before or after the wedding you can go see her .. if its a little unexpected she will really like it.. and will show her that you like her :) its worth a go!!! :)
2007-02-06 14:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't been rushing her stop putting your life on hold for her tell her your emotions play a significant role also it's not all about her
2007-02-06 14:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, if you love her, put her first. If you love your 'best friend' put him first. Your friend has made HIS decision. Make yours.
2007-02-06 14:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by andy in greece 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sacrifice is the greatest form of love. I say you slaughter a calf.
2007-02-06 14:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by ohmygodapirate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋