2007-02-06 06:45:16 · 21 answers · asked by eve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if your friend says its ok to date her soon to be X husband. If she says NO its not ok... Then NO, ITS NOT OK!
2007-02-06 06:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seperation is a process in which the married couple have
their space to decide if the marrige will work and no out-
side interferance should get involved as far as a relation-
ship with those seperated . Once a divorce has taken
place then both parties are free morally and literally to
do what they want.
2007-02-06 15:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be serious can you? I think you haven't thought this through very well are you really thinking of doing this to your friend. I don't know about them but most people that are separated just need to get their heads on straight and they will work it out most of the time. You may be a little more interested in this than he is what will happen if sex comes into play and say you have sex? They get back together and you are the outcast which you will be believe me. Maybe you should wait and see what happens and don't make any sudden jumps into this wild situation.
2007-02-06 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by patriot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot----Would YOU think it was okay for your close friend to date your husband, whom you are separated from but not yet divorced to? Could you deal with all the complications that would arise with a relationship like that? I know I am answering a question with a question, but that is a logical way to look at the situation to see if it is okay or not. My morals tell me it is NOT okay.
2007-02-06 06:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be a close friend of yours after that, and he may be just rebounding so in that case you will not win either way.
If you care for this man, and you do not care for his wife/your friend then by all means.
I think you should give it some time and stay away. let the guy get divorced and see what happens, because the last thing you need is to date him and then he will go back to his wife.
2007-02-06 06:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It will seem like you have been waiting for him if you do and the friendship you have with her will most likely end. I would never even consider dating a close friends ex, soon to be ex, or even boyfriend. Just not worth it.
2007-02-06 06:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO and NO. First of all, they are only separated. What happens if they reconcile? Secondly, she won't be your close friend for long - look what happened to Heather Locklear & Denise Richards - some lines should never be crossed. This is one of them.
2007-02-06 07:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you want to remain friends with the wife.
2007-02-06 08:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my close friend and you dated my husband, ex husband, separated husband, dead husband future husband I would no longer be your friend. Did I cover everything? What kind of friend are you? Do you have no conscious? How would you feel? NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO.
2007-02-06 06:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to decide if you want to maintain a friendship with the wife.
2007-02-06 07:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Life*goes*on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋