I have been trying to start a relationship with a woman who let me in her life but will not let me get any closer. She wants to hang out with me all the time but she has lingering ex-boyfriend issues that are getting in the way of me getting close to her. Shes knows how I feel but I want to send her a letter that really puts it all on the line so she is forced to read it and know exactly how I feel. I am not so good at writing and my intention is to have her in tears by the end of reading it (good ones of course), I need suggestions to help me accomplish this.
2007-02-06 06:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by Tri-Lambs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that is really sweet what you are doing! You should say this
Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control
Every time i see you i get the best feeling in the world, when you say hi or even smile at me, i feel thankful of my life because even if you only looked at me for one second, i know, that in that one second i crossed your mind! I love you and i hope you feel the same way. But even if you don't...know this...that i will always be thinking about you and how much i love you!!!
2007-02-06 07:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by peace love & lipgloss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yah know first of all you have to respect what she wants. if she still has things for her ex, you can only respect her feelings. that's one thing that you can do to show her that you care for her, make sure that she knows you'll wait for her. another thing is writing a letter, if that was me i would rather get a phone call or talk in person. idk i guess a letter is ok, just be careful what you say in the letter. i think to make the letter from you, it needs to come from you and not people on the computer. you cant ask people what to say all the time, you gotta go with your gut feelings, and say what you mean.
2007-02-06 06:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by *sue* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is..don't do it! Make yourself hard to get. Make yourself less available to her. If you confess your love..she will probably run as fast as she can. If she already knows how you feel, then she will get her act together if she wants to be in a relationship with you. It will be difficult, but you must not write her that letter. Believe me, I have made the same mistakes myself. I'm the kind of guy who likes to be honest with my feelings, and it usually bites me in the A**. Just play it cool, and make her chase after you..if that is what she wants.
2007-02-06 06:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by throwdown67 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her the way you really feel, like the way you feel when you are with her and the way you feel when she's not by your side say your feelings
2007-02-06 06:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by redangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A letter? you must be effin joking, be a man and tell her to her face.
2007-02-06 06:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by SEAHAWK 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about you leave her the hell alone. If she doesn't want you any closer then you should respect that.
2007-02-06 06:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"I'm in love with you" should lay it all on the line.
2007-02-06 06:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
complement her intelligence and her beauty.
2007-02-06 06:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by katana b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋