Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Alright, so my boyfriend that I love decided that while he was in Iraq (in a dangerous position volunteers for missions) that we shouldn't be together. He said it was too much stress & asking too much of me. Until he gets home safe & sound & after that if I still want him we will be back together. I'm really hurt & angry at him even though I know he's doing what he thinks is best for me.

My question is, how am I suppose to deal with this? I mean Apparently I'm single now, and word has gotten out. I've been asked out 2 already today. I don't really want to date anyone, but maybe I should just go on a date and see.

I don't know, I don't really understand what my boyfriend (or I should say ex) wants me to do. He kind of was encouraging me to see other people, he said he wasn't good enough for me especially after this (being in Iraq, & seeing & doing things over there). I'm hurt. And confused. Anyone shed any light on what he really wants. Because he won't really say.

2007-01-09 12:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

I sent this guy a picture of me and he kept texting me saying he never got the picture. Finally when I spoke to him he said he finally got the picture a couple of time and the last time it came to his phone at 5:00a.m. in the morning. He didn't seem to mind that my picture woke him up so early in the morning. Do you think he would have said it bothered him getting my photo so early in the morning? Also what would be going through your mind getting a photo of someone so early in the morning?

2007-01-09 12:39:21 · 1 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

I have "performed" for lots of women. have any other women out there seen a similiar show?

2007-01-09 12:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and Ladies do you give your man a threesome or would you kick him to the curb?

2007-01-09 12:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 12:38:44 · 12 answers · asked by Serena 2 in Friends

when ur talking to a girl
and u lick or bite ur lips while ur talking to her
what does it meen??

2007-01-09 12:38:16 · 4 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Friends

ok there is this girl i like and usually i cant stop talking but when i se her i draw a blank. so what should we talk about. P.S we are 13 years old

2007-01-09 12:38:09 · 3 answers · asked by redaquablue 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm into all that good stuff, need to find a connection somewhere. Anyone know any good places in MA or RI or even on the web.

2007-01-09 12:37:50 · 3 answers · asked by lexmaar 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no one to talk to about how i feel.

2007-01-09 12:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 12:37:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 12:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by Karleigh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so my friend, I'll call her K, has a huge problem and I really want to help but I cant tell anyone and I have no idea what to do. Her mom is really mean and abusive, and she hits her sometimes. The other day she threw her at a wall and hit her and she still has the bruises. And every time she tries to talk to her about it, her mom says that she never hits her at all. And the thing is if she tried to tell a doctor or something, they probably woulnt believe her cause she cuts her self sometimes. So is there any way that I could help? Sorry if its long, theres more but im trying to make it short as i can.

2007-01-09 12:35:21 · 20 answers · asked by Wesley 2 in Friends

Ok, so my ex boyfriend, nick and i broke up like a month ago. after we broke up he acted like we were best friends and he talked to me way more than he did wen we were going out. over the winter break he told my friends that he still liked me and was going to ask me out on new years. but he never did. now he likes my bff and he's going to ask her out tomorrow. i asked her if she would say yes to him and she said yes. but heres the catch i still like him. and he keeps asking me how he should ask her out which makes me like him even more just talking to him. how do i get over him especially since he's gonna go out with my bff?

2007-01-09 12:34:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. how many people do you know who cut themselves...Im beginning to wonder if its a popularity thing cuz i kno ALOT!!! and why i think this is because they announce it to the world
(not to affend the cuttee)
2. how old is old enough to go on a date to the movies?
3. If someones brother is only one year older then them would they be rightfully considered a chaperone on a date or is that jus ccrazy and unfair?
4. is hodge podge a weird word or is that just me? watta bout photobucket? Does hodge podge come from german?
5. how can i lose weight if im not allowed to not eat?

2007-01-09 12:33:29 · 17 answers · asked by kykygoo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 12:33:29 · 7 answers · asked by ezy b 1 in Singles & Dating

My sis is a very beautiful person,educated,loyal,good mother,etc.why does he cheat?He also has illegitimate children with 2 different women.

2007-01-09 12:33:14 · 24 answers · asked by Ms Lety 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's something that could make or break a relationship? Could it scare someone away? Is this just a silly question. No really I want to know but I can't say to much and stay in the guidelines.

2007-01-09 12:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by wicked 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm still in love with him.

2007-01-09 12:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 12:32:24 · 30 answers · asked by eddie c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 12:32:09 · 17 answers · asked by teeeeeen. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am really shy around women i like
i dont want to be
but i am afraid of rejection to the point where i dont try to talk
i look calm
but am not

and how can i start talking to girls that i am intersested in
some i can talk to in sme conversation
but can never ask them out

others whom i do not know well
i cannot talk to at all

any help?

2007-01-09 12:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my husband; but at that time i was 16 yrs old. and he was only my boyfriend. He cheated on me but i never , never , never told him that i cheated this way he would feel more guilty. :-)
When i say cheating, it was only kissing at 16YRS old.:-)

2007-01-09 12:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by claudia a 1 in Friends

I like this girl from my school and we have known each other since last year(6th grade). Anyways i justed wanted ppl to tell me wat they think. Ok well we have been friends since last year and we talk alot now. Over the summer last year all we did was talk nonstop. She thinks all boys should be like me and she said i am sweeter than her bf(she is still with him). Also over the summer she said she felt that she could tell me anything. We talk about everything. She has said that she didn't like me as a bf but its real confusing because she looks at me in school and wen i see her looking at me she just smiles. Also we talk alot and i let her borrow money and stuff. She knows i love her because one of the ppl in my school said ppl i love are stupid and she spoke up and said she wasn't stupid. I am just asking because I want opinions so, what do u think?

2007-01-09 12:30:08 · 29 answers · asked by Light in the Dark 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres a girl i like alot and I'm going to her bday and i want to give her a poem for her bday cuz she likes them.But i dont know what to say.it was just recently we became good friends and i want it to be a good poem not cheesy or anything and her parents might be reading it so it cant be anything bad.This might change how she feels about me so its GOTTA BE GOOD!!!!!.

2007-01-09 12:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Landon R 2 in Singles & Dating

This really hot bird wants a relationship. I just want to get off with her. Whats the best way to tell her this? Tell her this and still get results of course ;) !!!

2007-01-09 12:29:03 · 19 answers · asked by Playa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 12:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by tesha 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this new cowoker..for two month, I have big time crush on her, i AKSED her twice for date (she is single) but she refussed/rejected me..
As you know how strong you are rejection always hurt,, but worse thing is she is so flirt,, she flirt with every body at work (off course except me).. she sit in different cabin, but she come often to my cabin and flirts for long time with another married coworker(who sit next to me).. SO I fell so bad each day, jeliousy, rejections..it hurt bad..
what you do in this matter... should i quite job,, everyday she come and flirts around,, the wound get fresher and fresher ... it is tough to deal.. i am hurting each day...

2007-01-09 12:28:51 · 5 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 12:28:13 · 15 answers · asked by BUM 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 12:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by eddie b 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is always looking at me and then when i catch him he looks away. Today during class he winked at me and then i smiled and he smiled back. My friends like ohh he so likes you and im like no where friends. Do you think the wink mean anything and does he like me?

2007-01-09 12:27:19 · 16 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating