Why are men unfaithful to good women?

Question

My sis is a very beautiful person,educated,loyal,good mother,etc.why does he cheat?He also has illegitimate children with 2 different women.

Answer 1

The question is not why do men cheat on good women? The question is: Why do good women stay with sorry men who cheat and disrespect them?

I am sure your sister is fabulous but she has choosen to show her husband that his behavior is acceptable so he continues to do it.

Whenever, she finally decides to leave his sorry a++, then maybe he will see that he has something to loose, until then she is letting him have his cake and eat it too.

Answer 2

Why are women unfaithful to good men? My brother was married for 23 years, while his wife screwed every penis within 3 states at last count we were at 15 lovers!!!. She had her husband removed from the home, with a court order and moved her lover into the home in front of the two children ages 9 and 10. Then proceeded to have an accident while talking to one of her lovers on the cell phone, and killed the 10 year old. My sister in law is the biggest whore in three states however praise goodness my brother has had enough and is divorcing her.

If I told the whole story I would run out of space, but trust me, this woman is a slut whore jezzibel and that is being nice.

Answer 3

Why are women unfaithful to good men?

The problem with generalised statements (including those disguised as questions), is that they are general. I've known more men that have been screwed around like the cork of a wine bottle by unscrupulous women, than I have known women who have been screwed around by men. And I know far more women than men, too.

That doesn't mean that women are worse. It just means that you hear a lot about the ones that screw others over, because they spread themselves around a lot. The nice guys and gals tend to stick in one place, with one person, so you don't hear about them so often, which is very sad. It's the ones that don't deserve to be heard about that always make their mark so bitterly.

But still, I hope your sister works it out. If she is a loyal wife and a good mother, she deserves better than that loser. And I hope she gets what she deserves, just as I hope that he gets what he deserves.

Oh by the way, my mother once told me that Laxative Pills make a fantastic seasoning for a hot green curry, and can have marvelous effects on wandering husbands. She claimed it to be an old family remedy, and from what I have heard, it worked quite well. ;-)

Answer 4

WELL he was a loser when she met him... he already had proved he can go around making kids then not stick with being a dad i bet he don't care for see or support those two illegitimate children RIGHT? ANY MAN who can not stick around 4 his own blood children is not marriage meterial ANY SMART WOMEN KNOWS that if he craps on his kids he sure won't be a great husband so she should have known from his past she would not have a future with him.

Answer 5

Men cheat because they are selfish. If they cared a little about their spouse, she would be the only one they would have intimacy with. Marital sex is something that is only shared by two people, the minute one cheats, the door is open for any and everything. The entire sanctity of marriage is gone.

Answer 6

Sounds like your sis has it all except she's not a very good judge of character. This guy is completely unappreciative of the good thing he has. You didn't mention if it bothers her at all. Maybe they have an open relationship and she doesn't want to tell her family about that. Either way, what goes on in her relationship is her business. Stay out.

Answer 7

When any single person (male/female) cheats on their spouse, the fault is not anywhere on the one being cheated on. He cheats because of his own insecurities/issues. But, your sister should not let him get away with it. She deserves way better. I'm sure having children with him makes it difficult to leave him, but to go through some hardships in order to have the possibility of a great future is much better than settling with a scumbag for the rest of her life.

Answer 8

Some me are still attached to their deep seated roots or their biological breeding that tells them to spread their seed while other men have evolved and are able to be monogomous with their partners. Your sisters partner seems to be the first - he finds the appeal of chasing new women the ideal aphrodisiac and can't get enough of when he finally does reach his goal. But after he does then the chase is no longer on and he gets bored

Answer 9

sometimes there is no reason, just that this is who he is, this is his character. if your sister were smart she would not dwell on why, as she will never get an answer at least not the one she wants. when we marry someone we really do need to look a bit deeper into their past, and make a decision by what we find, rather than just marry because we think we are in love. but how many of us actually looked into his past, would we have really listened to any of it. she needs to get out of that marriage asap, so she can find the kind of life and man she can feel secure and safe with, don't dwell on why? there is no reason but this is who they are.

Answer 10

They cheat on good women because the bad ones wont take their ****! if a good woman allows him to do what ever he wants and doesnt penalize him for his actions he is going to feel that he could do anything and she will always take him back no matter what : Women should really be on guard when around guys like that let them work for what they got Us GOOD women are hard to find it is just really sad how it takes for us to cheat and leave them for them to realize what they got but then it will be too late