I like this girl from my school and we have known each other since last year(6th grade). Anyways i justed wanted ppl to tell me wat they think. Ok well we have been friends since last year and we talk alot now. Over the summer last year all we did was talk nonstop. She thinks all boys should be like me and she said i am sweeter than her bf(she is still with him). Also over the summer she said she felt that she could tell me anything. We talk about everything. She has said that she didn't like me as a bf but its real confusing because she looks at me in school and wen i see her looking at me she just smiles. Also we talk alot and i let her borrow money and stuff. She knows i love her because one of the ppl in my school said ppl i love are stupid and she spoke up and said she wasn't stupid. I am just asking because I want opinions so, what do u think?
2007-01-09 12:30:08 · 29 answers · asked by Light in the Dark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s.
she didn't use me, she payed my money back today
2007-01-09 12:45:47 · update #1
Hey I'm the same age as you!! So basically, the grade 7 girls don't want to ruin friendships with dating, so she might actually love you (as a boyfriend or as a friend) but she definetely likes you a lot. Just continue being friends for now, and if the times comes later, then tell her (when you're older). Same thing with me right now... don't ruin the friendship. And I think you do know what love is, well at least I do. Love has no age limit.
2007-01-09 12:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that this girl just likes you as a friend i wouldnt let yourself fall for this girl. I wouldnt get too attached.And i would definatly stop giving her money. Remember your not there to serve her needs you know it works both ways.
She already told you that she just likes you as a friend she is in love with someone else. I would still be friends with her but id live my life and move on. You seem real sweet, this girl could get the better of you and hurt you. She knows you like her, she may be liking the fact that you like her. It may make her feel good. Who knows. Stay cool, and keep your sweetness with someone who will love you. all the best. Nat xox
2007-01-09 20:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just wants u as a guy-friend, I have alot of them but I think u have a crush on her. Eventually, I see ur relationship growing to be boyfriend-girlfriend but just take it easy, wait til she makes the first move because if u rush her wen she told u that she JUST liked u as a friend then they may mean that she still has feelings for her boyfriend and u telling her u like her could make her think that u are wanting her to break up w/her boyfriend which might mean to her that u are wanting her for only the pride of stealing her from another guy! Just, let her do her thing and stay friends is wat I am trying to explain!
2007-01-09 20:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by ~V@NN@H~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that as long as she is with her bf you are out of luck. If she knows that you like her and she is still with her bf, then she probably doesn't look at you that way. All you can do right now is to wait for her to come to her senses. You seem really close and every girl needs a guy friend like that. Try to hold on to your feelings and try to be there for you. She is really going to need you when she finally does break up with her current.
2007-01-09 20:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by juliet03angel281 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really likes you - but only as a friend. The fact that she feels she can tell you anything and she thinks that you are "sweet" are signs that there is really no attraction there.
She really sees you as a good friend and only that. Don't let that get you down. It is great to have a true friend of the opposite sex. Just don't let her take advantage of your admiration. Make sure she pays your money back.
2007-01-09 20:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are too young to be out dating, just my personal opinion. So I wouldn't get into serious relationships until after at least 10th grade. So control the hormones.
On the other hand, she sounds like she cares about you, and must be considering you more than a friend. Sounds like you could make it happen, if you ask her out directly and confront her and tell her that you want to be more than just her friend, if not now then years down the road.
My experience has told me that young relationships die out young, so if you really want this girl... keep this girl as your friend and when you are older consider making the move then.
2007-01-09 20:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds to me like she loves you too. You sound so very sweet. I wouldn't go getting all twisted up inside about any girl at your age. If she has a boyfriend then you have to respect that if you want to continue being friends with her. It does sound like she knows you love her so she knows where you stand. Yet she is still with her bf. If anything is going to come of this, let her come to you. If she doesn't come, move on. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 20:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you just continue being her best friend, if she knows you like her and breaks up with her bf she might decide to date you but don't rush into things because you wouldn't want to lose her as a friend if that's all she wants
2007-01-09 20:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by pissedoffcupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you but your a little young and so isn't she so being just friends for now is best. You have no idea what real love is so wait for it when you mature into a man.
2007-01-09 20:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in a situation just like yours a long time ago, i still wonder if she really did like me, and i regret not finding out, you need to find out what kind of bf she likes, if its not somone like you, the other option is to get another girl to pretend to be your gf to see how she reacts, you see they always want what they cant have
2007-01-09 20:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Audio Visual master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋