Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

I've been seeing this girl off and on over the last few years casually. Recently it started getting more serious but she lives a few hours away. She might move back to my town for a new job in a few months, and she might not. So the other night she tells me that she thinks we should stop talking because she wants to be with me so bad and can't. I told her she should move back anyways if she really wants to be with me, since she was planning on moving in the near future. She said I need to give her an ultimatum. I told her it's not that easy, and that she needs to make that decision for herself. She said she would think about it this week, then let me know. Any advice on how to take the good, or bad news?

2006-10-09 11:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by Smirx 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont like anyone right now and it seems like there is nothing to do. What can I do to forget about boys? I dont have a hobby and I feel very bored lately with my life. I dont like doing things for too long because the repetition gets annoying, so I can't pick up a hobby or anything. I dont know what to do to keep me occupied. Should I just find someone to like?

2006-10-09 11:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by Hotdivababe 3 in Singles & Dating

My parents won't let me date yet and i wrote them a letter to tell why i should date and i know what not 2 d with boys. How do i give my parents the note before i turn 99 years old?

2006-10-09 11:21:52 · 22 answers · asked by Sassy101 1 in Family

Like, petnames. Max calls me "thills". I love him. :)

2006-10-09 11:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by Bright Eyes 4 in Singles & Dating

college could be my cool years right?

2006-10-09 11:21:19 · 3 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

to get back into dating how can i start doing that again? i am just clueless but 1 thing that makes it much easier is that i will be 18 in a few weeks and finally b able to date much more mature, older men. so how can i get myself ready to find someone and how can i find someone?

2006-10-09 11:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by scorpion_gurl88 2 in Singles & Dating

What are your thoughts on a black & white wedding?

Do you think black makes the event "goth"?

If you were doing it, would you want all of your guests to wear black and white also? Or just the wedding party?

Someone has suggested that the mother of the bride wear red...what do you think about that?

2006-10-09 11:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

i've finally realized that the kind of guy i always wanted was a friend of mine who told me from the start that he likes me. he scared-me away at first but a while ago i realize i like hem n we're together. but he has NO TIME FOR ME!!! I DON'T WANT TO WHINE AT HIM ANYMORE but i'm tired of guy hormones! p.s. it's only a 3week relationship,very fresh. i don't want to lose this.SHOULD I BRING IT UP OR IS IT EARLY?

2006-10-09 11:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by Phoebe 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 11:20:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you find attractive in women??

2006-10-09 11:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by Yvee 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a very attractive guy, im handsome, cuite and have the best personality and yet i still dont understand why girls are afraid to ask me out, her and there i'll get girls come up to me and complement me on my good looks and i'll get alot of girls checking me out but I dont undertand why they dont have the balls, guts, confidence, and courage to ask me out for gods sake whats the problem I cant go up and talk to every girl, Im getting tired of it and Ive seriously considered going gay just simply because guys are so much easier what can i do being a very attractive guy to make life simpler. What should i do? (by the way it gets tiresome after a while knowing that you can get with any girl you want)

2006-10-09 11:20:13 · 20 answers · asked by Who 1 in Singles & Dating

lie- steal- be a whore for money-lot's of it-rob a bank-smoke mariwana-kiss every boy i like-cheat on all my exams-have a million boyfriends
good thing i'm a good girl, right?

2006-10-09 11:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 11:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by Tessa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been going out for 6 months and will be 8 during christmas
he is 16
he is kinda into video games
he likes football and basketball
he listens to reggaetton

2006-10-09 11:18:53 · 6 answers · asked by wutsupdog345 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is rupulsive that men dress in womens clothes. Iremember an uncle doing it at a new years party years ago and I found it quite off.

He isn't a drag queen or anything he just seemed to think it was funny?

2006-10-09 11:18:41 · 3 answers · asked by SunGod 4 in Family

2006-10-09 11:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for 16 months off and on 7 years ago and then I broke up with him(Gosh I was so stupid and young) and now he is married and I think I am still in Love with him what do I do.He told his wife that I was his first love and that I broke his heart.Im so confused on what to do??

2006-10-09 11:18:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, I have been with this guy for over a year,officially. We have seen each other off and on for almost 4 years. Neither one of us has said the "L" word. I want to, but have been burned too many times when I do. I think he has the same dilemma. He is leaving town for a week and last year I wrote him a letter when he left that was pretty sweet. I am working on a new letter for this trip, but should I tell him face to face or write it in the letter?

2006-10-09 11:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by christine c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All right...there's this kid "Joe" here at college...he's always had this superior attitude like he's better than everyone...our school is 99.99% black, and lots of the students come from low-income families....

So Joe sends me a message on myspace asking me who "Rodney" is (a gay friend of mine who lives in MO. We lost contact for ten years and just now got back in touch) Joe saw his picture on I thought he was making fun of Rodney, so I tell Joe that he shouldn't be making fun of gay people or anybody at all... so Joe goes, "I wasn't trying to be funny...I thought he was cute...I'm bisexual, but please don't tell anybody."

Now I'm straight...and I have about 7 gay friends...but I'm not sure if Joe is trying to play a trick on me or if he really is bi...we don't even talk that much...I think it's weird that he'd come out to me....what should I do? Is he playing a trick on me, or is he serious?

2006-10-09 11:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, well i was at my house one night when i got a message on myspace from my best friend thats a girl, she said she made out with him and fingered her and the other girl i like... i want to kill this guy but im in trouble with the cops already...i told her it was the wrong decison to go out with him because they met the night that all happened and he was high when it happened, so she broke up with him, she told me to log onto her myspace and check her messages and one was from her friend and i read it to her then i went through her messages and one was from him saying **** like "i love you im in ******* tears right now" and now shes dating him again... what do i do? this is so god damn gay! please help

2006-10-09 11:16:25 · 4 answers · asked by skiswitch14 1 in Friends

To me, when you can fart in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend, that's when you know that you are totally comfortable around them. (I don't ever ever ever fart in public or around anyone unless it's someone I am 100% comfortable with.)

2006-10-09 11:16:04 · 22 answers · asked by Bright Eyes 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25, so I know it's not illegal, but I was wondering why he continuously flirts with me, then when I e-mail him he is extremely formal (And I'm not e-mailing him a sexual letter or anything.) Is he trying to keep the fact that he's flirting with me a secret? I don't get it, because he's said things to me that are definitely flirty in front of my friends but then when we have briefly talked alone he is completely formal again. What's going on? He hasn't asked me out and I'm not sure if I would want him to. I've seen lusty looks from him, but he seems to blow hot and cold.

2006-10-09 11:15:53 · 12 answers · asked by Red 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not cheatin on her

2006-10-09 11:15:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with my bishop....should i bash it?

2006-10-09 11:15:01 · 15 answers · asked by charley7515 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 11:14:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 11:14:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad and his gf have been dating for 2 months and they really like each other does anyone think that couples get engaged in that short of time?

2006-10-09 11:14:04 · 20 answers · asked by *^*^Hottie*^*^ 1 in Weddings

2006-10-09 11:14:00 · 4 answers · asked by gilbert_villegas2001 1 in Friends

we spend lots of time together and chat on the phone most nights for this last month. i dont want to mess up the friendship but everytime i look at here i wish she was mine.. i dont know what would b worse getting turned down or not finding out and having to look at her with other people..

2006-10-09 11:13:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was it a dreadful experience? Why did it take that long? Did you use any substitution? If so, what?

2006-10-09 11:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating